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Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by andycom(m): 1:35am On Jan 12, 2021 |
candyguyofficia: And your small mind tells you it's only JW that doesn't accept blood transfusion. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ChidiAlaigbo: 1:50am On Jan 12, 2021 |
SweetCunt97: You think Nigerian men are real men? Na war oooo!!! The mofos think women love them? Until the idiots reach 60 and they are penniless and the bitches called wife would show them pepper. They cannot even develop their environment and country. Foolish men! |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ChidiAlaigbo: 2:21am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: Chai!!! TOTAL ABSOLUTE RUBBISH!!!! |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ChidiAlaigbo: 2:25am On Jan 12, 2021 |
xProfx: BULL! |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by ChidiAlaigbo: 2:31am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Giantfarmer: Foolish talk. 1 Like |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 2:47am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Icumsa45: Yeah. I know so. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by luvmijeje(f): 2:55am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Susily: It's simply because none of you criticise what the man did. He left home for 4 days! 4 Bleep.ing good days. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by luvmijeje(f): 3:05am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Orkpekyandega: I am a woman and I know how a woman reason. When you hear a woman says my children are my husbands know that marriage is dead. Lack of trust kills the loyalty of a woman. When a woman don't trust you, she will start hiding things from you. She stop thinking about collective future and start thinking about her future alone. She will stop being understanding and start killing you with complaints. She will start monitoring your life. If you marry a woman who is very religious, you are in worse soup. She will start dreaming foolish dream which will lead to many days of fasting which means no bleeping for the man. You will regret your life |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by mcknowles: 6:31am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Brother please ignore the word and move on in peace. if you consider what women say, you might kill them before their time. trust me she said it to hurt you while she was angry. when she is over her anger, those words mean nothing to her. Talk to her about your feeling on her choice of words but ignore move on and expects damaging words when she is pissed. Until she desires to grow out of that character there is nothing you can do. Family is greatest, giving birth to kids is the biggest sacrifice brother. Men ought not to manage businesses alone but manage women. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 7:04am On Jan 12, 2021 |
CrescentMoon: You've settled with her. But now you need closure concerning the words she said to you. Show her the text and ask her if she is really staying with you because she pities you. Whatever she says will be your closure. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by sorepco(m): 7:36am On Jan 12, 2021 |
If she married u out of piety then you r a lucky man indeed! But if she said out of pity then na bad woman with wicked mouth b that. on a serious note I think u can forgive n put all those behind u for now. She needs to work on her attitude and bad mouth. Y she de even solve street matters when she can't solve hers on the home front....or u also need to be abit firm with her. Women hate docile and quiet men. U need to be abit hard on her sometimes. [... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.[/quote] |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by worworbabe: 7:52am On Jan 12, 2021 |
You have poor communucation skills. If you don't like something, talk about it instead of facial expressions. Unsaid words are like time bombs. 1 Like |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 8:22am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Climb into a burning house to save a woman... The day you make her angry, she'll still use it against you. No allow any woman see you finish, not even your wife. Why would you tolerate shyte for a long time until she becomes comfortable with it then you start reacting? Wakanda psychological confusion is that? You need swallow some redpills with very hot water. Some men no dey try at all. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by MondayOsunbor(m): 9:16am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Agbebakun22: brother it may surprise you that monday is my really name and osunbor is my really family name edo state have a lot of osunbors but we have nothing in common with the guy you are describing peace 1 Like |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by MondayOsunbor(m): 9:17am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Olunmercy56: me too |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by jagorinho: 9:18am On Jan 12, 2021 |
SolidGains:ooooh, I get you now. Good Luck. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by harmony75: 9:18am On Jan 12, 2021 |
your situation not to bad but be more firm it seems your wife have seen you finish be firm and take care of your responsibility in the home as usual! |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Rockyfancino(m): 10:38am On Jan 12, 2021 |
If I'm wrong about what I'm saying, disregard it. I am a young guy. I didn't even finish reading your story before I already understood your wife is emotionally immature. I am not insulting her, but I can see you're a loving man and you have tolerated a lot. I am also not saying she's a bad woman, but it has gotten to the point where you leave the house and comeback in the evening. Look sir, all your complains and her saying she would adjust will not change. It's will forever remain in that circle and it'll get worse as you start complaining. There will be less to none physical evidence of the damage she is doing to you when you want to prove your points to others. Of course, others will not even believe you because they know her as the nicest person ever and that's even what attracted and made you love her the more initially. You'll wonder if she loves you or not because it looks as if the love is on and off, like she will reward you if you with more love if you do more. With time, she's gonna complain that you're bringing your relationship matter to people. You may not understand all these now, but with time you'll get it. I get it. She might be telling you everything about her toasters, how horrible and understanding her exs were. She may be telling you everything, but everything you want to hear. Let me tell you one thing sir, she's never gonna take responsibility for the problems that happened that was a result of her direct action and which led you behave in a certain way. She's going to give excuses, say you're the cause, in a nutshell she's gonna be defensive. I know for now, it's like she's accepting her faults. It is as if she's dangling her love in your face and with time you're gonna start wondering if she ever loved you, does she? Yeah, she does(in the moment, for now). But you can never have that sweet relationship that you envy in other couples. The only way to make her continue loving you is to always see her point of view and accept anything she does as right or to never blame her. In other words, you have to be the emotional one, like the wife, the one that does the crying and sucks up to her. You have to be her baby and I doubt there are only few men capable of this. If you keep complaining or try punishing her, she won't be able to take your own side of the slightest punishment and it's going to totally cause more issues. I know you're the nice man trying to have a loving relationship with your wife. You cannot take it again, logically and emotionally and that's why you have come to a forum because you don't know the core rights or wrongs anymore, you may even have started seeing yourself as the problem little by little. Start your journey of healing be doing simple Google searches like; My girlfriend threatening to breakup with me all times My girlfriend is emotionally immature Emotionally abusive partner Read everything you see to understand your case. Read both for girlfriend and wife. But be careful not to project everything you see unto her but recognise her patterns. Many men suffer in marriages for decades and end up dying a short lived life all because they were good and not about to introspect their relationships. Many times, when women come and tell stories of how the ex left them, it is good to always wonder why would any sane man not want to stick to a sweet woman. It's long, but it's for educational purposes so that others can learn too. One last thing, emotionally abusive people hardly change. They didn't really choose to be that way, it was a defensive coping skill they learnt over the years. You'll remember someone told you this in a faceless forum when the going starts getting worse. 1 Like |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Cree: 10:41am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Okay sorry about everything but the story is not complete. What did your wife do repeatedly to offend you? What disability do you have? |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Agbebakun22: 10:47am On Jan 12, 2021 |
MondayOsunbor: Bro you're the one not getting my point never said you're the one or related to the person just surprise that someone know or have same name with the man |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Rockyfancino(m): 10:59am On Jan 12, 2021 |
worworbabe:You didn't read the part where he said he has complain, tired |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 12, 2021 |
One sided story...let us read her own side. Besides, how do you move to the other side of town to punish her and think it will solve anything? Don't you know the wife you married? The both of you should iron out any lingering issues and make adjustments. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by bigl: 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
CrescentMoon: Please learn to express yourself physically ...talk . That's what women understand ... Keeping things bottles up kills faster bro ... I used to be like that some years back but I had to change |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Obarofrederick(m): 1:45pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Ilekokonit:You are really redpilled. I like that 1 Like |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Onyxunlimited(f): 4:38pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
She said those hurtful words to you to get your attention. I really cannot explain it but it happens like that amongst some females. Now she's got your attention and also has you bearing a grudge (which is very understandable, she insulted you after all). You talked about talking to her and she not listening, it seems like there is a communication gap between you two. It is a red flag if she doesn't listen to you and also if she has to insult you to get your attention. You both need to learn to communicate with each other effectively and learn to listen to each other. I'd recommend seeing a good, non biased marriage counselor so as to prevent issues from communication gap in the future. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
CalliDora1: Lol. Only this comment made me laugh in the whole thread. He shouldn't have put "you". He should have used "someone". What if I tell you my wife initially had problem conceiving? Being a serious Pentecostal Christian, I knew she won't welcome idea of herbal solution from the village. So, when she kept crying always, I told her a primary school classmate, who is now a celestial church prophet has the answer. She reluctantly followed me to the celestial guy in a faraway town. The celestial guy earned my wife's trust because the prophet didn't request for a dime. Wife told me cele prophets are greedy and didn't know why the man didn't collect money. The cele guy told wife that she's special in God's eyes... being reason he won't charge us. Wife conceived successfully that same month. Now wife would say something like "not all cele churches are diabolic.". |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
CrescentMoon: I'm glad it made you laugh. Thank God for your miracle baby. Happy for you guys. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by femmoy(m): 8:55pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Shokoloko: if you weren't a liar that her brain is malfunctioning,you would have stated there that you donated the blood bit by bit,not saying you donated 5pints of blood. that's an incomplete statement. besides are you married/engaged to a sickle cell partner? I fear for your reason of donating blood intermittently. get sense and get a life, don't just come up here and spill trash. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Godwin5766(m): 9:01pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Husbands must not be seperated from their wives...bible |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by deltateam: 2:37pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
CalliDora1: You mean if he calls you for a hangout, you won't go? |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
deltateam: How many time?? He's tried so many times but I kept turning him down. Eventhough he's married o. I'm not that kind of girl. once I'm done from my heart's of heart, I'm done. |
Re: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by tarantino1: 5:40pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
foyeks2001: You're my kind of person. |
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