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Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Manoftheyear: 6:51pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Thank you Nairalanders, I really appreciate all your contributions, and from most of the comments here, I have made up my mind on what do. Thanks once again my NL family . God bless us all. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Stanley12328: 6:58pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Please tell your brother, if you hide this from him then you are stealing from him indirectly... He trust you that's why he asked u to look after his business, don't ruin that trust!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Yampotatocarrot(m): 7:01pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Ft Manoftheyear: You are SO, SO NOT SERIOUS... Putting a girl over your brother's business because she is a single girl... Iru iranu wo leleyi? I wonder if you'll do so if it was a guy that was involved in this. From stealing "small small", she'll start stealing"big big", till your brother's business runs down. So, I'll advice you not to tell your brother, because the girl is a single girl and you'll halt her source of income. Infact, give her better ways of stealing from him so that she'll get more money. You know her child will soon pay school fees and she needs more money. Also, it's a new year and her house rent has expired, which she'll need to pay. So, please and please, show her more ways to steal from your brother Thank you for banking with us. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Yampotatocarrot(m): 7:05pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Bmaster: They didn't even understand NwaAmaikpa was talking in sarcasm... The guy is just too good, seems they don't know him in Nairaland 1 Like |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by blazepascal(m): 7:09pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:u gave the worst advice.. tueeh ..so she should continue to steal ...rubbish ...what if its ur own business nnko |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by fof1: 7:11pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: AM GROSSLY DISAPPOINTED IN YOU FOR SUCH A FRAUDULENT ADVISE. NO WONDER UR APC AFFILIATION IS APT. THIS IS HOW YOU RUN NIGERIA. Are U ignorantly Corrupt or U are Playing with this OP. Being a Single Mother is it an Excuse for FRAUDULENT Acts or Prostitution? What kind of Person are U really,Pls? You do not have any sense of Morality.Covering up Fraud and Conscienceless Stealing is a very Bad LIFESTYLE Pls. She should be WARNED and Plzced under Observation. If no Changes,Fired immediately. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by blazepascal(m): 7:11pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Bola146:nobody would not stop stealing as long as he /she has the chance |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by blazepascal(m): 7:13pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Manoftheyear:guy tell your bro but try dey calm am down that's the best thing oo |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by blazepascal(m): 7:15pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Possiblegee:lol I think say na only me see am . arrant rubbish |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by habsydiamond(m): 7:16pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Manoftheyear:u are welcome sir |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by blazepascal(m): 7:18pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1:the only reasonable comment so far |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:This one can talk so much nonsense that he can't practice. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Originalsly: 7:24pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Bro... your brother put you in charge of his business..... consider it your business... it is now yours to mind. Consider this.... your brother is a strict book keeper and everyday checks his sales and what he has remaining in stock. His salesgirl knows this... and does not risk stealing. He has gone now... and she took advantage of stealing. You say nothing... tell us about what you saw... you don't know what else she stole. When your brother returns.... checks his stock... and calculated that N300K merchandise was sold.... but only N200K is turned over and accounted for. He now knows that he was cheated out of N100k... now tell me who would be his prime suspect?.... and rightfully so? Is it then you will begin to explain? At times we see a guy has several family members but choose a total stranger to run his business .... and we wonder why. Bro... tell your brother... let him make the decision. If she is a single mother and need financial help... then give her out of your pocket. You are just assuming she is stealing to support her baby.... didn't also assume she can be stealing to support her man?... or lifestyle? Something is wrong with you to sit and watch someone destroy your brother's business. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by iykedrizzy(m): 7:34pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
The problems you listed are actually your answers. Problem 1. Mind your business, what your brother does not know will not kill him besides you didn't say his business was doing badly because of her. Problem 2. Forgive yourself. Because Problem 3. She is a single mom who is vulnerable. It is better she is cheating your brother to sustain her baby than she engages into prostitution. If she dies from HIV or her baby dies from malnutrition because you made her lose her job or blocked her access..will you be able to forgive yourself? She is young and attractive....you could as well start a relationship with her so that you can cater to her. That way, what she steals is still within the family. So in summary; Mind your business and don't tell your brother. Forgive yourself for not telling your brother because the culprit is a single mother who needs to do what she is doing if she and her baby will survive. [/quote] as a Christian, you encourage stealing. you won't make heaven |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by grandstar(m): 7:37pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Manoftheyear I feel sorry for the girl, but I very sorry. The truth is if she caught her own sales girl doing such, she won't take it lightly with her. I feel for her but it's best she goes. The best way you can help her is to get her a private security job with a fast food restaurant. She can live off the tips from custimersand save her salary. My worry is that she might start conniving with the staff to steal from the company if she's rely a thief. Poverty and need aren't the reason why some steal. Some steal because their conscience is dead and are painful insensitive to the welfare of anothers persons busibess. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by omoade1890(m): 7:47pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
i will like to see this differently, her being able to pilfer suggest the existence of loophole(s) in the business that she is just exploring. since you are more experience in this particular business, you can advise your brother on measures to put in place that will seal all or most loopholes. If it's a shop that deals with (countable) goods 1. There should be a solid inventory system that only your brother has access to modify 2. Before her pay every month, stock on hold must tally with sales and replenishment on that particular stock monthly and your brother should sign off the old month and the bigining of a new month on the sales book. 3. Multiple record keeping... the sales book for her and excel for your brother if he is proficient. 4. If possible, cash should be discouraged or use as a last resort. Pos and bank transfer should be encouraged... you can give her the sim to receive alert. (don't register for ussd banking on the sim) This way you are saving your brothers business from her, saving yourself from you, and also saving her and her child from her. Everybody win |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Lomprico2: 7:48pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Manoftheyear: it's like you are fuckìng the girl. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by 123papas(m): 7:51pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Report her |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Papadoh(m): 8:08pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
thesicilian:
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Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by taylormed2(m): 8:17pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Op don't tell her oh Tomorrow now she go say you try rape am she no gree na y u de concoct this story to sack am Tell your bros in a coded way or if you tell her record the convo for your safety before saph go open thread with your name tomorrow. Your brother's business is your business, you are your brothers keeper. You can try to increase her salary if you don't want to sack her but if she continues throw her out |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by taylormed2(m): 8:19pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
omoade1890: Words of the wise |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Omogoddy: 8:33pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Report her fast before she sends your bro back to the village. Most businesses gets their capital from loans. And the thief will steal both capital and profit |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Tell ur bro. Don't let her wreck ur brother. Blood is thicker than water. You may leave to regret the aftermath cos it will still come back to you |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Strech(m): 8:34pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Come to think of it, you know weather na your brother get the pikin? |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by kelz991: 8:44pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=97976872] The problems you listed are actually your answers. Problem 1. Mind your business, what your brother does not know will not kill him besides you didn't say his business was doing badly because of her. Problem 2. Forgive yourself. Because Problem 3. She is a single mom who is vulnerable. It is better she is cheating your brother to sustain her baby than she engages into prostitution. If she dies from HIV or her baby dies from malnutrition because you made her lose her job or blocked her access..will you be able to forgive yourself?[s][/s] I think this response is highly misguiding and poorly thought after before dropping it here.. Your predicament shouldn't be an excuse to cheat someone who pays you. If you so need assistance or a salary lift, why not bring it to your bosses attention. Stop encouraging people to steal. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by zoogy2007: 9:01pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: Did you really say this or are you kiding? |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by germaphobe(m): 9:23pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
[quote author=WoundedLamb post=97986106]You caught a thief stealing from your own brother and you're contemplating looking the other way and allowing her to continue? You know that would make you an accomplice right? How do you think your brother would feel if he found out you knew someone was sucking him dry and did nothing about it? Being a single mother makes stealing OK? I've never been in her position but provided your brother is paying her, I'm sincerely shocked by the fact that you're slightly justifying her. How is the well being of your brother's business not your business? Asides the fact that he's your brother, does he not aid you with the money he makes from that same business? What then are you doing there in the first place if you can't report such things? Maybe you'd also mind your business if you caught her slitting your brother's throat. Please, tell him. If not for anything, for the fact that it's right thing to do. nice sense of humour, lol. |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by lekonso: 9:26pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
A thief is a thief. She is not stealing because she is a single mother, she is stealing because she is a thief. One thing i know is that, if you don't tell your brother, she can run down that shop with time, thereby putting your brother into loss, and if your brother gets to know later, and you are now telling him thereafter, he will blame you. So decide what to do by yourself |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by capnies: 9:36pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
[quote author=Manoftheyear post=97977104] Honestly, some friends I have related this to said I should tell my brother[/quote IF you don't tell your brother it means if you see poison you will kill your brother. You must tell him because the girl is killing your brother slowly and God brought you to reveal it, your brother may not be as observant as you TELL YOUR BROTHER NOW |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
No. Don't tell him. Tell her to keep it up |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by culf: 10:44pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
why not call her and advice her?? |
Re: My Brother's Salesgirl Is Stealing from Him, Should I Tell Him? by spiralwedge(m): 11:24pm On Jan 12, 2021 |
Manoftheyear: Collect the keys first and come early to open it by yourself for few days. She will panic and come to see you. When she comes to see you, let her know you are aware of her theft. And that you are contemplating reporting her to your brother or sack her yourself. She would beg. Then warm her that if you notice any theft again, you would report her and she'd be sacked. Then start doing stock out. Find a Friday or Saturday, and tell her to count the whole stock on paper. Then cross-check Every weekend, both of you should count the whole stock and you should cross-check with sales book to know all is well. Any missing item in the stock that is not recorded in the sales book or creditors book (if you have), should be deducted from her salary. Also give her incentives after taking stock on weekends and accounts are balance. Give her something for her kid(s). |
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