I have always feared being with her alone even before dad died, she has always been a selfish person, i remember back then when she and my dad were fighting because she refused to support the family, she had a boutique that my dad actually opened up for her anyway and it was doing very fine but she still wouldn't want to take care of my little two sisters school fees while dad took care of me and my immediate younger brother whose school fees were higher obviously!
All she wants to do is buy good things for herself and look good every now and then, she always felt the bills should all be on my dad! Back then all she wanted to be responsible for was the food we eat even when it was very obvious she could take care of a lot more even more than my dad because she was even doing better but lets not forget the fact that my dad gave her the capital for that business.

Well years has passed now after dad died and things are not familiar with the way it used to be...

sorry

Pele, but u can't hate your mom, mayb u should try talking to her

You dey mahd o

Sorry bro, things must be very difficult for you and your siblings. I can never seen to relate, though, when anyone says he or she hates their mother, because I feel I have the best mom in the world.

OK

Use this una condition as stepping stone...no go marry woman wey dey stingy & selfcentered. That na if u choose to marry oh. Cuz e suppose be choice, no be must.

A lot of things has dropped especially financially and now we have to depend on very little but to cut to the chase, what i'm really furious about right now is that fact that i got this smartphone(Tecno spark 5) after over 5 years of using an outdated phone(tonosobe) when i brought it home guess what she did? she seized the phone from me and started talking spiritual like my village people directly sold the phone to me, she also added that the phone i just bought was connected to my late dad, can you imagine the nonsense?

After so much fight with words that day i left the phone with her thinking that one of these days she would reason and let me have my phone because i'm 20 years old and i'm very sure if it were left to her, she would NEVER get me that kind of phone!

Mine ain't perfect but I love her

Anfield247:

Debbydams, how your side? your boy dey loyal to your government! I dey find were I go fit learn to drive truck oh

wetin u wan make I do? I no sabi drive normal vechicle sef.. Wo leave me abeg

She took the phone everywhere she went(the full phone pack) and most times she would tell me she had smashed it to the ground but still i never relented to ask her about my phone every night.
I really broke both in and out when she brought the phone back one night without the pack and the phone she would always say she smashed out of anger was still in good condition! I asked whats going on and she said her sims and memory card is now inside and that she would be using the phone henceforth!

WTF?? Is she serious? all this time what she was really showcasing was her greed!
She had to lie and blaspheme spirituality and even dishonour my late dad's grave because she wanted to use my phone!

She said it to my face "I cannot be using a button phone while i let you use this kind of phone"
This woman still has a tab in her room she dumped because of a minor fault!

I HATE HER SO MUCH!!

debbydams:
wetin u wan make I do? I no sabi drive normal vechicle sef.. Wo leave me abeg

debbydams:
wetin u wan make I do? I no sabi drive normal vechicle sef.. Wo leave me abeg

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Jmw2kblogposts:
She took the phone everywhere she went(the full phone pack) and most times she would tell me she had smashed it to the ground but still i never relented to ask her about my phone every night.
I really broke both in and out when she brought the phone back one night without the pack and the phone she would always say she smashed out of anger was still in good condition! I asked whats going on and she said her sims and memory card is now inside and that she would be using the phone henceforth!

WTF?? Is she serious? all this time what she was really showcasing was her greed!
She had to lie and blaspheme spirituality and even dishonour my late dad's grave because she wanted to use my phone!

She said it to my face "I cannot be using a button phone while i let you use this kind of phone"
This woman still has a tab in her room she dumped because of a minor fault!

I HATE HER SO MUCH!!

calm down o

Jmw2kblogposts:
She took the phone everywhere she went(the full phone pack) and most times she would tell me she had smashed it to the ground but still i never relented to ask her about my phone every night.
I really broke both in and out when she brought the phone back one night without the pack and the phone she would always say she smashed out of anger was still in good condition! I asked whats going on and she said her sims and memory card is now inside and that she would be using the phone henceforth!

WTF?? Is she serious? all this time what she was really showcasing was her greed!
She had to lie and blaspheme spirituality and even dishonour my late dad's grave because she wanted to use my phone!

She said it to my face "I cannot be using a button phone while i let you use this kind of phone"
This woman still has a tab in her room she dumped because of a minor fault!

I HATE HER SO MUCH!!

Don't let her get to you, or else she might tempt you to fight her with the way you're going.
Just calm down, when she least expects, take your phone and remove her sims and SD card.
The phone is yours, and you're no longer a child!

Jmw2kblogposts:
She took the phone everywhere she went(the full phone pack) and most times she would tell me she had smashed it to the ground but still i never relented to ask her about my phone every night.
I really broke both in and out when she brought the phone back one night without the pack and the phone she would always say she smashed out of anger was still in good condition! I asked whats going on and she said her sims and memory card is now inside and that she would be using the phone henceforth!

WTF?? Is she serious? all this time what she was really showcasing was her greed!
She had to lie and blaspheme spirituality and even dishonour my late dad's grave because she wanted to use my phone!

She said it to my face "I cannot be using a button phone while i let you use this kind of phone"
This woman still has a tab in her room she dumped because of a minor fault!

I HATE HER SO MUCH!!

No matter how angry you may be, never you give in to hate for your mum, or anyone.

Sundrus:
Use this una condition as stepping stone...no go marry woman wey dey stingy & selfcentered. That na if u choose to marry oh. Cuz e suppose be choice, no be must.

I SWEAR!

falcon01:
Mine ain't perfect but I love her

I'd probably be cool too with your mom but not with mine! nobody likes her, nobody!
People would always say they see my late dad especially in me and my brother and they reason with us but they detest that woman's behaviour(I don't feel good calling her my mom anymore)

mariahAngel:


Don't let her get to you, or else she might tempt you to fight her with the way you're going.
Just calm down, when she least expects, take your phone and remove her sims and SD card.
The phone is yours, and you're no longer a child!

I'm considering this advice because i know she would never burst such amount of money on someone else, we have to fast and pray before she would realese my sister's school fees now because she's already bring up the idea of my sister quitting secondary school

Bodydiialect57:


No matter how angry you may be, never you give in to hate for your mum, or anyone.

You haven't met my mom before thats why you can talk like this, i am expressing a piled up anger here

Your mother is stingy. Blame your late Dad for choosing her.

Jmw2kblogposts:
You haven't met my mom before thats why you can talk like this, i am expressing a piled up anger here

Pls be patient. Be wise. Don't take decisions based on sentiments or anger. Prove to be a wise, self-controlled and calculative person. Most importantly, don't let anyone manipulate you. May God be with you.

Jmw2kblogposts:
You haven't met my mom before thats why you can talk like this, i am expressing a piled up anger here

Control yourself man, control yourself. It's better to walk away when provoked than to give in to raging anger and end up a fool.


Control yourself for anger lies in the bosom of a fool.

Guy plans to leave that house, if you not comfortable

Jmw2kblogposts:
I have always feared being with her alone even before dad died, she has always been a selfish person, i remember back then when she and my dad were fighting because she refused to support the family, she had a boutique that my dad actually opened up for her anyway and it was doing very fine but she still wouldn't want to take care of my little two sisters school fees while dad took care of me and my immediate younger brother whose school fees were higher obviously!
All she wants to do is buy good things for herself and look good every now and then, she always felt the bills should all be on my dad! Back then all she wanted to be responsible for was the food we eat even when it was very obvious she could take care of a lot more even more than my dad because she was even doing better but lets not forget the fact that my dad gave her the capital for that business.

Well years has passed now after dad died and things are not familiar with the way it used to be...

please don't hate your mother, it is an abomination. When she was vommiting because of you in her belly, she would have cut you open and throw you away just like other women do. Zagga dat

It is the duty of your dad to ensure he gets married to a suitable woman good enough to be a role model to his children. Unfortunately,he was blinded by her physical appearance which she so cherishes more than her children.

Do not completely exonorate your dad

Women sha ... My mom sef did something 2 days ago. Make i no talk

Sorry Bro but what caused your Father's death?

Some parents can be very toxic even to their own blood and partners.