Kuns84:


You think Nigerian youths are any better because they practice their own dysfunction (lesbianism and homosexuality) secretly in boarding schools.

If anything, homebased young people are worse than their diaspora counterparts.
At 14 the average nigerian girl has already been fuccked mercilessly, the average boy engages in violence, scheming and scamming. wickedness & corruption is inbred in their hardened hearts. Flogging only teaches kids how to better hide their bad behaviour so as to not get "punished" again - this is why we are such fantastic hypocrites and pretenders.

Be deceiving yourself.

Lol... I was wondering how he typed that with a straight face without remembering that his country's case is much worse.

nairavsdollars:
One of the dangers of raising kids abroad and the yeye man is blaming his cultural upbringing here in Nigeria

Imagine blaming the best way of training a child that is fully backed by the Bible. Even the white says ”Spear the rod and spoil the child”


I'm not talking about those that will use blade, pepper and hot water to abuse. But giving punishment and cane is the best way not talking upandan and explaining. Those that didn't discipline their child, are giving the society a hell of problem

Enugupikin:

Can that equate to his actual pay, half baked knowledge

Half bread is better than none.You are the one with half baked knowledge.

Untainted007:
What kind of silly child protection right is that? Are they not empowering their kids not to adhere to parents' strict instructions. Abeg Africans get culture. If cane kills ehn, me I for don die cos wetin flogging did to me back then was to reset my naughty ways of life.

For those quoting me, I never said children shud be kicked, but even Bible is in support of cane to be used on children but with love. Imagine an American kid telling her mum that "mum dont be silly" and they will laugh over it there. Come and say that to an African mother. It's then u will knw that slap pass slap.

That is still better now. You haven't heard, "you are crazy dad!" and the dad will be smiling.

Hmmm.its like America and UK b like 5/6.Not a conducive environment to train a child.

Enugupikin:
This is actually ridiculous. They're trying to protect the child but suspended his father who's a bread winner to their home. Won't the child be affected too from the financial downtime?

It doesn't work that way bro. Education for his level is taken care off by the uk government.

samsard:
You can discipline your kids, just not like an animal.

Well, flogging ur child doesn't make u an animal. As long as you aren't being abusive, it's part of ur role as a parent to discipline a child.

The bible says "spare the rod and spoil the child". Unless we all know more than God's word.

Baba40:


What does Christianity do to you? Better or worsen ? It betters Nigeria especially the southwest.

Islam is the reason the North is still under-developed

As if Dubai,Saudi Arabia,Malaysia not muslim countries?I think the reason for underdevelopment in Nigeria is because we practise slavery version of religion both Islam and christianity called religious cultism.

i was laughing when i read this

nairavsdollars:
One of the dangers of raising kids abroad and the yeye man is blaming his cultural upbringing here in Nigeria

Really no one here is seeing that what this guy did is inhumane, Africans are really dull

Mindlog:


The son was temporarily put in foster care. It is not Nigeria where that is always the argument in defense of an abusive parent/spouse even in the face of what the Nigerian law considers as an abuse.

the kick is the only thing that looks abusive there, the rest accusations are nothing but mare exaggeration to make the accusations weighty, just imagine if such child is not corrected the hard way probably he would end up a rapist or worse and the people would tongue lash the man, they would be the first to troll the boy who would have ended up a criminal.

Send him back to Nigeria to complete his highschool under the supervision of one of his aunties or uncles that loves you and won't take nonsense from him.

Everyone has their own ways of raising the a child.... Some flog while some don't.... Different approach for different folks.

but they have acquitted him. they say he is free. this people anyway should work in Nigeria. we need these doctos that run away to UK

FalseProphet1:
I see white racial competitors behind this man's suspension, I see them conspiring to pull him down because he's a Nigerian and ahead of them, I see them fighting this case with every penny they have. I see the man not coming back to practice anytime soon. This I have seen.

webincomeplus:

So, your parents never flogged you or gave you punishments in the past? Does that make them maniacs, too?

which training did doctor give the boy that made starting behaving like that that before the canning?

Why did the doctor flog the boy? because he behave like a maniac in school.

If the doctor trained the child well, he will not behave like that in school!

It is parents like this doctor that their children will be molesting and bullying other kids in boarding school.

purpleicious:
Hmmm.its like America and UK b like 5/6.Not a conducive environment to train a child.

Not a conducive environment for maniacs or narcissists to train their children.

Bullshit! The only reason he was reinstated is because of the dire need of medical practitioners to combat Covid-19 that has overwhelmed the UK.

Fvckyouall:
Really no one here is seeing that what this guy did is inhumane, Africans are really dull

Pele o, Gini the genius.... He disciplined his child and you are calling everyone dull... If that child turned a gangstarr, murder, bungler, rapist tomorrow you would be among those hoping he rots in jail... That is the real definition of dull, not doing what you are suppose to do at the right time is something way worse than dull.

King44:
the kick is the only thing that looks abusive there, the rest accusations are nothing but mare exaggeration to make the accusations weighty, just imagine if such child is not corrected the hard way probably he would end up a rapist or worse and the people would tongue lash the man, they would be the first to troll the boy who would have ended up a criminal.

Send him back to Nigeria to complete his highschool under the supervision of one of his aunties or uncles that loves you and won't take nonsense from him.

Everyone has their own ways of raising the a child.... Some flog while some don't.... Different approach for different folks.

While raising your child outside Africa, one has be conscious of laws of the host country on punishing children.

Sending the child to Nigeria for his secondary school education will not be a bad idea.

At this junction we need to forget about culture... There is a saying that, when u are in Rome, you behalf like a Roman. Since he isn't in Nigeria as a doctor, he must learn to uphold the culture of the country he is working for.

nairavsdollars:
One of the dangers of raising kids abroad and the yeye man is blaming his cultural upbringing here in Nigeria

You only attract what you respect.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Doctor which training did u give your son that made him behave like a maniac before the flogging?

If u give your son proper home training, he will not go about behaving like a demon.

Modified:

See them rushing to quote me without understanding, I am not against the correction (flogging).

My grouse is with the behavior of the boy before the flogging. The doctor was not doing his duty as a father by giving the boy proper home training hence the misbehavior.

It is these kind of children that will be molesting and bullying other kids in boarding school here in Nigeria.

I don't understand, how did he behave like a maniac?

King44:
Pele o, Gini the genius.... He disciplined his child and you are calling everyone dull... If that child turned a gangstarr, murder, bungler, rapist tomorrow you would be among those hoping he rots in jail... That is the real definition of dull, not doing what you are suppose to do at the right time is something way worse than dull.

Shut up, there are ways to discipline a child without treating them like animals. you are not ok the thiefs and cultists we have in Nigeria did their parents not beat them up? talking to a child would do better than ever hitting a child, my parents never hit me yet, they only talked to me if I did wrong and I never did wrong cause I never wanted to disappoint them. You and your useless African mentality of child abuse deserve to be thrown in the sewers

He should not have been reinstated. What he did was child abuse. This cultural thing is bringing racism back. If our culture was so good, why are we where we are today? Am not saying our culture is bad. am just saying that when asked about our culture, let us make efforts to explain very well. Wrong is wrong. Let us be careful how we apply this rubbish cultural stuff. Else the outcome will be catastrophic worldwide. I used to work at a place before, and the white guy will always say "how are you" and i would say how are you back. Then he kept trying to establish superiority. And asked me back how i was. I said good, how are you.
In his head, his higher than me because of skin colour. Sure. I almost slapped the idiot.. I tried to figure out why. I figured that an african told him that the answer to how are you was "fine" in african culture. First, thats wrong. It is not true.infact, it is classic racism. I do not know where that nonsense came from. Of course i quit the job. Nobody here should accept nonsense, Claiming its culture. No culture accepts that somebody is higher or better than another because of their skin colour or culture. It was Hitler who started that nonsense. Am saying it here so that people know and know what to do when this kind of thing happens to them. All human beings are created equal... if anybody asks "how are you?, say good, how are you too.. Else, that person will have this superiority mentality. Without understanding what you really meant.. nobody is better than anybody.. all humans are created equal..

Enugupikin:
This is actually ridiculous. They're trying to protect the child but suspended his father who's a bread winner to their home. Won't the child be affected too from the financial downtime?

You prefer nigerian laws right? The UK is a civil society ours is a jungle.

od501:


I don't understand, how did he behave like a maniac?

is that u guys did not read the article?

"The boy got into trouble in school for not submitting homework, lying to other pupils, using the word ‘rape’ and for stamping in any injured girl during PE lesson."

See humiliation abeg! Well the man was wrong for kicking the child while he was standing on one leg cos that's pretty dangerous.
I don't believe he was treated that way by his own Dad. Nigerian Dad will flog or slap u but kicking u while u were standing on one leg, that's a lie.

Untainted007:
What kind of silly child protection right is that? Are they not empowering their kids not to adhere to parents' strict instructions. Abeg Africans get culture. If cane kills ehn, me I for don die cos wetin flogging did to me back then was to reset my naughty ways of life.

For those quoting me, I never said children shud be kicked, but even Bible is in support of cane to be used on children but with love. Imagine an American kid telling her mum that "mum dont be silly" and they will laugh over it there. Come and say that to an African mother. It's then u will knw that slap pass slap.

The Bible does not support cane

nairavsdollars:
One of the dangers of raising kids abroad and the yeye man is blaming his cultural upbringing here in Nigeria

Yes he is right like I’ve said on a different thread most Nigerian parents physically abuse their kids and call it discipline. The kids end up damaged. Most adults in Nigeria can’t own up to the truth because of the trauma they received from their parents as kids. Lying is second nature to them. Most Nigerians are damaged and the sad truth is that they don’t know it and think that they are ok. Look are the state of the country that will tell you what Nigerian parents have bred, Timid kids who are scared to tell the truth and afraid to talk to their parents. Violence is the norm in Nigeria.

There are better ways to bring up your children than beating them every time they err. I personally don't like corporal punishment for kids, especially the type our moms, and sometimes our dads, meted out to us when we were kids. There are cases where kids have lost their lives, or seriously maimed for the rest of their lives, by punishments meted out by crazy parents. And these parents hardly bond with their kids. The only discussion you see them engaging their kids with is "go and buy this, or that, for me," or "come and eat", or "why did you do this, or that?" which invariably invites a trashing session. A kid usually grows into a good adult based on the ethics drilled into his psyche from childhood, by especially, the father. Many parents have failed in this regard. They hardly sit and discuss life matters with their children, most especially, the corporate ones, who are hardly at home, and hand over the care of their kids to house helps and school minders. I strongly recomend the scrapping of corporal punishments as means of correction in our country. There are much better methods of punishing a child for wrongdoings, and have you bothered having a talk with him/her, over their short-comings? When the Bible says, "Spare the rod, and spoil the child", it doesn't necessarily mean the cane. The rod, in scriptures, is always alluded to words. Most parents simply don't talk to their kids, except on basic issues.

Unto wetin nah? The father was updating have brought the child to Naija and let him be in public school where he will trek to school and back, let better sun beat his head allow hunger to wire him small to reset his brain. Normal treatment that most Naija kids get from their parents is what the father gave him in the UK. Bring the boys home and Cain him seriously.

King44:
Pele o, Gini the genius.... He disciplined his child and you are calling everyone dull... If that child turned a gangstarr, murder, bungler, rapist tomorrow you would be among those hoping he rots in jail... That is the real definition of dull, not doing what you are suppose to do at the right time is something way worse than dull.

So you believe that all our corrupt leaders in nigeria were not disciplined by their parents?
Or all the gangster, murderers and rapist we have were never flogged by their daddy's? Is that your point?
Now let's see the difference
The UK is one of the least corrupt nations on earth, it has great educational system, it's crime level is way below ours and it continues to product global innovators and leaders. We have flogged or kids for 100 of years how did it help us get better?
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
Maybe if we change the way we train our kids, we could affect the next generation.

payloader:
There are better ways to bring up your children than beating them every time they err. I personally don't like corporal punishment for kids, especially the type our moms, and sometimes our dads, meted out to us when we were kids. There are cases where kids have lost their lives, or seriously maimed for the rest of their lives, by punishments meted out by crazy parents. And these parents hardly bond with their kids. The only discussion you see them engaging their kids with is "go and buy this, or that, for me," or "come and eat", or "why did you do this, or that?" which invariably invites a trashing session. A kid usually grows into a good adult based on the ethics drilled into his psyche from childhood, by especially, the father. Many parents have failed in this regard. They hardly sit and discuss life matters with their children, most especially, the corporate ones, who are hardly at home, and hand over the care of their kids to house helps and school minders. I strongly recomend the scrapping of corporal punishments as means of correction in our country. There are much better methods of punishing a child for wrongdoings, and have you bothered having a talk with him/her, over their short-comings? When the Bible says, "Spare the rod, and spoil the child", it doesn't necessarily mean the cane. The rod, in scriptures, is always alluded to words. Most parents simply don't talk to their kids, except on basic issues.

You have said it all. Thank you

Some kids just have to be talked to while some wouldn't budge unless you discipline them with cane or any other means. Just don't go overboard else it becomes abuse