kweenfash:
Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this?

helinues:
Are you in the relationship for materials things?

Btw, which car did he use to drive you crazy? Benz or Toyota Corolla

400billionman:
So because (you think) he is wealthy, he should be doling out money to you ?

I think the man wants to give his monevity to his wife.

That's why.

Madam, that guy is not wealthy.

Kobicove:
In your mind you're dating this guy but I don't think he's dating you...

At 22 there's still time for you to make mistakes and learn from them therefore I suggest you look for someone whose age is closer to yours instead of wasting your time with a sugar daddy

kweenfash:
Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this?

Denique:


She's an adult. The age difference doesn't matter as long as you aren't chasing another woman away to occupy her abode.

kweenfash:
Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this?

Dreyton36:
You're 22 and he's 38 what happened to guys in their twenties or in their early thirties

Anyway the guy doesn't even give a fvck about you don't be deceived by ur feelings , abi u no be fine girl?

Cuz if u be fine girl con get Bobby join u no suppose dey date man of 38yrs

And if e con be say u be fine girl and that man con dey do u like this then u get problem , better dump him and come to me, I no dey break girls heart , make I give u updates
I can start by sending you a ticket to meet in Abu Dhabi and the most expensive MacBook make u just they help me pick calls from clients that's all

Weekly $2k fall on you no need for long talk

Are you in or not ?


Lights up my kpoli in peace

SarutobiEky:
big man

Dreyton36:


Boss I'm loyal sir

Chii59:
Older guys are sweet though sometimes the age gap might become a strain on the relationship. One thing I've known with men regardless of any age is "if he loves you, you'll know, if not, you'll be confused".
A man who you called to remind about your birthday the next day, yet managed to forget, isn't looking too good.
BTW, are you REALLY REALLY sure this guy is not married? Do your investigation. Pause any requests for finance (whether as a test or real need) for now and confirm.

SarutobiEky:
because of you I chop ban for one week. Abeg I am not doing again. I want peace. I take back all the horrible things I said to you. I was just kidding. You're gorgeous.

Chii59:

I hold nothing against you.

VictorUSA:
I'm not a gud writer but try ur best 2 undastan.I had a girl who luvd me and does anything 2 pls me.I told her i luv her and she was very joyful."That was a shivering night", she said.Because of the luv she had 4 me,she didnt want 2 believe that i dont luv her despite all the red flag i raised.On 27/12/2020, i sent a letter 2 her that i was only pretending and that i'v neva considered her a galfren.I wonder how she felt.On 19/1/2021, one of my acquaintances who knew about our relationship said she emaciated and looked so sickly(sic).He said her heart was broken 2 the bastard level.I'm not proud of it.But my point is this:men are thesame.when a man doesnt luv u, he create excuses why he cant pls u;but when he does, he create reasons why he want 2 make u happy.My sister, be wise.I'm not saying he dont luv u, he may be acting in certain ways 4 some reasons best knwn 2 him.Finally,if u're a christian, fast and pray 4 GOD's will.I believe everything will be alright in ur life.

baralatie:

you are just making matters worse

you wey break/smash/tear person still dey tell another say pray o! I believe everything will be alright

shuuu

VictorUSA:
Sorry, i'm not proud of it,i regreted and i'm still regreting 4 what i did.But my point is this, the girl i offended didnt take time 2 observe my attitudes 2wards her because of the love she had 4 me.she was blinded by affection.Note:i was disappointed in myself and i'v vowed never 2 repeat that.