Ok I met this guy on facebook through mutual friends and we began sending casual messages like family, school etc, then we exchanged skype info and we began talking. I appeared a lil shy but he laughed it off and when we hung up, he sent a good night message with a smiling smiley.

Then we spoke another day on skype and this was much longer and a lil detailed. we talked about our tribes, cooking, which he jokingly said, if he comes down my area, he would eat my food. We teased, he even said i should stand up so he could see me, then i jokingly told i was shy,

After we finished, we both said good night and even to hang up, I was fidgeting which made him smile/laugh.

My question for you guys is being a guy, what would or could you be thinking. Me acting all shy, showing eagerness to talk to you in a way, is it wrong? Should I act differently? Or there's nothing absolutely wrong? Please would love your opinions,

Come on guys

Your story is the same Ive heard from hundreds of other girls when they are in an E relationship with a guy online. The guys all act the same like you guy and the girls all behave the same like you so I guess its normal.

In my world, you had be classified as a child that needs nurturing instead of dated.
BTW, being shy is attractive but excessiveness can become irritating.

jay bee:

In my world, you had be classified as a child that needs nurturing instead of dated.
BTW, being shy is attractive but excessiveness can become irritating.

Why the sentence in bold?

MzDarkSkin:

pending. . .

*ready! 

Let me tell you Lala (do you mind if I call you that?  )
Guys for the most part love shy women. I am a talker and a loud mouth
once I get to know someone but upon meeting I am terribly shy!
Only a few members on here know me and can vouch for that.
The thing is men like shy girls because it gives a hint of innocence and is
in a way, ironic as it sounds, inviting. It says "come, chase me" 
but don't OVER do the shyness no matter how uncomfortable you feel
because it can be a sign of weakness and vulnerability and some men
are not attracted to it and others will take advantage. It will wear off
through time I am sure but you cannot make him see you sweat too much 

Yeah feel free to call me that
I wasn't excessively shy but somewhat, i think 'cos I like him. At the same time, I'm thinking I hope I'm not appearing that I like him like that too fast, It could be a turn off, so I think

Ms. Potato:

Your story is the same Ive heard from hundreds of other girls when they are in an E relationship with a guy online. The guys all act the same like you guy and the girls all behave the same like you so I guess its normal.

Alrite just don't want to appear desperate especially when we are just skyping.

Poster,

just be yourself and dont try to be too good to be true for him cause eventually if you two are serious, he is bounfd to know your true colours. Whatever he doesnt like about you now, let him have that than at least you will know if he is the guy for u or not.

Ms. Potato:

Poster,

just be yourself and dont try to be good for him cause eventually if you two are serious, he is bounfd to know your true colours. Whatever he doesnt like about you know, let him have that than at least you will know if he is the guy for u or not.

Thanks Ms Potato

Lacrissa:

Why the sentence in bold?

Emphasis is on "In my world", and that was what happened when i experienced something like that. Stopped taking her seriously cos frankly how was she going to be able to overcome that shyness when we meet in person? (my thoughts at the time)

jay bee:

Emphasis is on "In my world", and that was what happened when i experienced something like that. Stopped taking her seriously cos frankly how was she going to be able to overcome that shyness when we meet in person? (my thoughts at the time)

Noooo lol the type of shyness isn't the irritating one, Maybe you tell me stand, I say no, not yet, not now, but we still had our convo

Lacrissa:

Noooo lol the type of shyness isn't the irritating one, Maybe you tell me stand, I say no, not yet, not now, but we still had our convo

Oh i ceeeeee but still though, why are you shy about hving to stand or what not? Do you know it can be termed wrongly, You should have just commented along the line off "I don't wanna be showing you my whole self just yet" instead of acting all shy.

shyless!,