Shelumiel:
Control and temptation are two different schools o

Nato008:

control and temptation.....so when u are tempted u just fall like saggy breast abi, no control over yourself.....even baba Jesus after forty days fastening still had self control to rebuke the devil..

humilitypays:
bia nwokem abi ogbeni, no go use this your choir master style fvck her again oh, I no trust you guys at all....all of you are suspects

Queenslander:
okay,. Sorry sir!!

Queenslander:
I'm fine hun, hbu?

LMS1:
Op You Just Lack Life Expirience.
Don't You Atleast Watch Nollywood Movies?
There Are Lots Of Scenes Like This
To Learn From.
You Are Just A Newbie Into The Dating World.
But It Isnt All Your Fault As You Taught He Was Heaven Sent
Thats Why You Dine With Him.
Just Keep Your Cool And Dont Always Hang Out With Male Friends No Matter How He Flatter And Spoil U With Gift.
Not Untill He Walks U Down The Isle.
Something Similar May Happen To You Again Except You Avoid Men As Much As We Avoid You. Gudluck!

Trailblazer8:
It's not your fault dear.
Please don't hurt yourself. I'm a consultant psychologist if you need to talk. But remember that you've got alot worth living for.

Mart1994:
How ladies always fall for this type of guys remain a mystery to me. Am sure the guy resemble justin bieber na why she fall for am like a pack of cards.

If na me chyke am na she go dey kpono.

Anyways... My condolences.

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

Nazgul:
Rule 1. if you stay alone avoid letting guys know that. Many will try to rape you.

Rule 2. Don't fall for a guy because he's got good looks and sounds romantic, look beyond the physical and you'll see the real him.

Rule 3. You fell for the wrong guy, the signs were there but you choose to ignore it. If vibing together was the only connection you felt with him, then he certainly wasn't the right guy for you. Cos players know how to vibe with different girls, it's what they're good at.

My advice....you can report the case at the police station, the earlier you report the better. The more you delay, the more irrelevant the case would be cos they'll surely ask you why you delayed.

There's no need to involve your parents cos you'll end up making them feel worried. Handle it yourself by reporting to the nearest police station.

And try to be wise, a single girl staying alone should be security conscious. Your doors shouldn't be opened to anyone you come across.

You've learnt your lesson, next time you'll be more careful.

richmond500:

OP, u dont have to report him to any police.

Here is what u will do, try talk to him and ask why he raped u, make sure u have hidden camera or a voice recorder, record everything he said without him knowing it.
Find all those street touts, play the record to them and ask them to do whatever they feel with him, dont feel remorse no matter what happened to him after that.

2nd advice, after recording it, stab him to death, report urself to the police, tell them he tried to rape u again and u killed for self defence. He is already death, they wont take his own statement except the one u recorded, its a win win situation

Only God forgives people, u are not God, but it will be wise to send him to God

MODIFIED
To all those quoting me, u think I give a rat ass about the life of a heartless rapist? If OP was my sister, I'll not even need touts, I'll put a bullet right though his skull

Girl9999 do whatever u want with him.

ozodigboo:
It's partly your fault, dear.
You told him no sex before marriage.
Now, you're saying you PLANNED to have sex with him, soon.....but before marriage.
You gave him mixed signals.
Girls should learn to come clean.
It's very difficult for a guy to agree to a no - sex relationship, when you already told him you're not a virgin anymore.

Isokoson1:
Op, u Bleep up gan, I no say Nah ur type dey always look for fine boys and the one way dey put trouser for yansh, I believe say better guys come you shun dem base on say, you go dey select dey look for Mr cute


Now e don sup, you dey cry, well d guy Bleep up, him no be real niggar and you too Bleep up bcus u dey happy take alcohol


Sorry anything way you wan do, do am because I no know who I go belive make I hear from the guy first, I dey fear women,dey can fabricate lies
Utterly nonsensical comment!

SHOCK7:

What nonsense, if you don't have any sense of empathy just shut up!