What of Mpko Dede? Abi dem wan open Beer Parlour? Guy man abeg go find another wife

[quote author=MejiLoyon post=98955181]Marriage is for men not boys
That being said E no mean say make them butcher the guy na. A certain person I know was given a list longer than that. The guyman just called the father of the lady and they started adding and subtracting. Last last the list slim down. Even the parents of the girl sef go slim am. Unless them wan keep the lady for house till she turn Spider woman...because her punna go don get cobwebs.



That aside na so their list be and dem still dey promiscuous? One for my estate here na for general consumption. The husband dey China na so boys start to shine her China.[/quote

There is nothing special about marriage, even idiots get married.
But I agree with you the list doesn't make sense

juman:
I believes it is joke list.

Just imagine a lady that already became "gutter" o.
Probably she was aristotle babe in university o.

They should marry her themselves.

no be joke o!
shit is real
qui serai serai
a colleague of mine just empty his life savings of over eight hundred thousand on his traditional marriage list too. same akwa ibom state girlie o. the girl mother insist no deduction o. Now the guy is working like an elephant but eating like an ant. but the girl na virgin sha according to my guy.

Una wan use drink wound unasef??

Chai!!!for common akwaibom girl
Na waoo

the man is not man enough u bargain for those things with ur kinsman let him go is not ready for marriage

Mikecold:
All the family members would just be requesting for their fantasy instead of working for it.

There is no way a man would fulfil all these and would not feel like he bought the lady as an accessory

this is pure extortion out of greed under a confused cultural right
this the reason for many domestic violence btw newly married.
shit happens

The first list,No,10 And No,16 go make anybody run,Big Tower?where him want get that kind from and No,16.The Make him give them the country Holland?even Nigeria fit buy Holland?Na waooo

slowice:


These things aren't always known from the onset... What sort of talk is this?

Leave am. You just start dating, and within a month of not knowing the girl's character, neatness, cooking habit, spending habits, etc. You'll go around collecting list. People type without thinking.

Shows it's a kid or one with a kid's intellectual who did that.

Beremx:
Nnam ikot akpan gban nyang!!

Is the girl’s family planning to open a supermarket? I am not understanding

na mall o. Maybe they don't want their union, this us outrageous

pasol4real:
Chai!!!for common akwaibom girl
Na waoo

Are u mentally deranged??

I hope she is president daughter, Governor,minister if No oga go.and look for another wife . After giving all this list and you manage pay for it .when she come house if God didn't help she go the Bleep outside

thorpido:
Abasi mbok!
You're dating a girl and you plan to marry her and yet you have no idea what the marriage requirements are in the place you want to marry?You had to wait till you see list mbok?How naive!
Wasted your time and the girl's time.

The list is outrageous though.

MKPO NDO ETE
I dozen of underwear,half dozen of Bender pant So the papa no dey wear pants before?

simply put, the girls parents and family members are opportunists.

PrinceOfLagos:
Girl that is not a virgin

U are wicked

It is either that they don't want their daughter to marry the guy or they are totally selling her off. If I pay all these amount for a wife, then after the wedding, I will have absolutely nothing to do with the family. Nonsense list

wisdomkid:


Leave am. You just start dating, and within a month of not knowing the girl's character, neatness, cooking habit, spending habits, etc. You'll go around collecting list. People type without thinking.

Shows it's a kid or one with a kid's intellectual who did that.

Haba, sometimes na girlfriend dey turn wife... And you don't just start dating a girl... It takes time to know yourselves abi he dey marry any girl he meet

smoke9910:

Rubbish, I'll rather waste their time than let my money be wasted on a useless list. Which kind dumb tradition be dat?. Them dey find who to exploit.

I think family differs.. though I stand to be corrected...
Then sometimes if your parents are late, those wicked uncle's that contributed nothing to your life want to useless you

Akwa IBOM nsongon

Abasman007:
Nawa o mmè òwo èse nie esit o.... Nsuto mkpo??
Pls it's not general in akwaibom o!!!
This is wickedness not to the man but to their daughter... Plus is their daughter a virgin?.. personally I'm not paying bride price for a girl that's not a virgin... The person that disvirgined you is the one meant to pay your bride price...

That means you no go marry na. Where you wan see virgin for Naija

Do you know how hard it is to get list requirements??

The girl sef won't know. Her family, if it is their first time, won't know how the list has changed from the last family marriage.

thorpido:
Abasi mbok!
You're dating a girl and you plan to marry her and yet you have no idea what the marriage requirements are in the place you want to marry?You had to wait till you see list mbok?How naive!
Wasted your time and the girl's time.

The list is outrageous though.

MKPO NDO ETE
I dozen of underwear,half dozen of Bender pant So the papa no dey wear pants before?

Nmezor:

hello are u free on saturday?

It is usually the extended family chief that comes up with this list.

helinues:
Correct nigga.

I think some parents are just selfish with this ridiculous engagement list..

How are they going to survive after marriage? Does it mean they are selling their daughters?

No chance the things there will be less than 3 million naira.

This list dey learn work where Mbaise, Ngor-Okpala and Owerri dey. U never see anything. Feminists no dey talk for this kan outrageous list but dey want equality. Thunder fire you people there. Ndi ala

MASTAkiLLAh:
As a responsible man, if you love a woman thw wedding list wont deter you. From what i know, those things are paid for gradually and not at once, many at times over years. Lets stop demonising regions and their cultures. What will you say about the people who flog their potential suitors with koboko to test their mánhood and bravery ?

Lol. You are really funny I just want you to know that. Over the years!

They can find a better suitor for her or better still marry their daughter, wicledt selfish people.

Marriage list is not necessary. Simple court marriage and you're married.

OlawaleBammie:
From 1 to 9 is all about beer, kainkain, more beers, pamin, wine and more and more beers

Hope the bride in question is not a drunkard hersef??


No1 to 9 is all about drinks, ahaaa even me sef go jakpa

Awon idile omutin

May be the girl don go boast... But those things are arguinable

Poverty is what I see

smoke9910:

Rubbish, I'll rather waste their time than let my money be wasted on a useless list. Which kind dumb tradition be dat?. Them dey find who to exploit.

You may marry on credit

Abasi mi kikpayong!!!

Make them pity the man na. The worse part is that the girl may not even make a good wife sef, or she might have pass through different "blenders" and nothing will be left for the man to "blend" again.

Anyway, let me just mind my business