Hi. Am very excited to be a member of this club. I would love advice preferably from others who are married. I have a boyfriend whom i have dated for 4years. I really love him and he has proposed to me. The problem is I feel very scared. Its not that i dont trust him coz i do. I just wonder how it will be and if we will be happy.Is it normal to feel this way?

Well. . .I'm not married, but it's normal. Anytime one has to make a life changing decision, it's normal to have doubts and get "the jitters." If you've been with him for four years, things must have been going right. So the fact that there will be a ring on your finger shouldn't change much. You will be happy, but don't expect marriage to be perfect. No marriage is absolutely perfect without any fights. You just have to take them when they come and get through them, and before you know it you'll be at your 50th anniversary or something lol. Just take it one day at a time, remain considerate, and you'll be fine.

@PTBNaija
Word! Couldn't 've put it better.

You trying to displace cute-ass as our relationship expert?

its normal to feel that way when it comes to life time decision.

just pray before taking the bold step. and things will be fine

Bolarge:

@PTBNaija
Word! Couldn't 've put it better.

You trying to displace cute-ass as our relationship expert?

Haha, thanks! I'm not trying to displace anyone. . .just trying to create my own little niche

yea yeah 2 thumbs up to PTB,

Poster so how many kids do u have now

^^
dey wait there for answers!

Sorry poster died in plane crash

Eaaya.

who believe kelvin make the person naked bath tomorrow~~

Kevin that cracked me up big tyme, well dat ans ur question in da oda thread

@marhoskil
Na lie oo that no ans anything just tell mE
@190
That na the truth if i lie make i marry

lmao! marhoskill?

It normal,

Just take a deep breath and RELAX,

Marriage is a beautiful thing when it with the right person,

My husband still BEAMING like a star, (he wears his RING WITH PRIDE)