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Valentine Aftermath: How To Overcome Ghosting by tripua: 1:51pm On Feb 15, 2021
Ghosting is when someone you are dating or have a friendship with goes AWOL. It is the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.
If you were ghosted, you might not know why all you know is that there are no incoming calls, no text messages, and when you call, the person is unreachable or unresponsive whether online or offline. The effect of being ghosted can be very challenging, especially when no clue or traces of why he or she left.

WHY DO PEOPLE GHOST?
The one who ghosted you may be avoiding uncomfortable situations as a means of covering up trails, whatever reason people ghost, ghosting is now more common than ever.
Ghosting is a silent treatment which can be termed as emotional cruelty. You are confused, don’t know what could have happened and have no opportunity or medium to express your feelings. As a result, confusion, embarrassment and grief sets in. at the end, you might want to fault yourself and question yourself for what you may have done right or wrong.

HOW TO OVERCOME GHOSTING
- Though it can be challenging, stop blaming yourself. You need to understand that ghosting is cowardly and it is therefore not about you but them. It is good to take a break from dating or activities, but you must know that you shouldn’t blame someone who walked away without explanation.
- Look after yourself. To move forward, pay attention to yourself. Be compassionate about self-care and self-love. Go for activities that make you happy and surround yourself with friends and family who care about you and always support you.
- When thoughts of your ghoster come to mind, remind yourself that they shouldn’t be given the right to take your joy with them. Remind yourself that your ghoster lacked courage, mutual respect, thoughtfulness and emotional maturity required to have a healthy relationship. They probably never deserved a place in your life.

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Re: Valentine Aftermath: How To Overcome Ghosting by Godada(m): 2:53pm On Feb 15, 2021
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