i have been dating this girl 4 more than a year.well known by her family and friend.of which i never offend her once,i always provide her needs even with abundance sex but guest what?just yesterday she confessed to me that for the past 3months she has been dating a guy of which i use to warn her about and now all she use to hear from the guy is treat to scatter her relationship with me just bcus she decide to end that relationship.now i see her like a realcheat,she is begging me to forgive and trust her once again.advice pls

Nothing to abvise you about. Seems you're already on the right track with your statement

now i see her like a realcheat

. That's

what the woman is. If you want advise as to whether to remain with her, that's you decision. At least you now know what she really is.

it's really hard for me,am short of word cus it seems all this while i trusted her that much even thinking she could never hurt a flie am so confuse man.feelme.

Regardless of how YOU feel, regardless of your emotions, the woman has shown you what she's about.

Good luck with you next relationship.

u know d answer but still want expo

Ure correct

Good luck wit ure next rela,

The decision is up to u pal. Be sure to be wise; a cheat is a cheat and most likely, will always be a cheat.

@ poster, ppl change nd they deserve a 2nd chance. Don't make dt decision nw,when u kul off have a rethink

Those people who's crying for second chance will do the same thing too.The fact is that those people, men and women who will always cheat even if they're in a great relationships. No cheater ever cheat once. That's the one you know. Have you ever imagine there might be others you don't know? Once a cheater, always a cheater.These people, and you read their comments here in Nairaland, do not see cheating the way you and I see it. They know its bad but its something that just happened and can be changed. I hope you're not the type that reason and make decision with emotion. Good luck and I wish you and your cheater girl friend well

No need repeating what others have already said, you've been well advised and know what to do - kick her skanky arse to the curb

@ poster Jesus Christ said when ppl offend us we should forgive them for 77 * 7 times so you should forgive until she complete that figure.

I guess I have 77 x 6 more of forgiveness to do huh?

Lol ms chima 77 * 6 so one gone already?