Hi Nairalanderss, I need your advice plz. Please pardon me for any errors. I only had to rush this post. Please...

I'm a 22 years old 200 level university student. First, I have to confess that I don't have experience with girls, and I think it's largely to my upbringing (This post would be long if I go into the details).

I recently resumed for 200 level and had to relocate to a "face me I face you" room off-campus as school only provides accommodation for first year and final year students.

The upstairs is occupied by the landlord and family while the downstairs, where I stay has 4 rooms. Directly opposite mine is a room occupied by a working lady while the next room to mine is occupied by 2 other girls, students of a polytechnic. I also got to know that the fourth room i.e opposite theirs is occupied by another girl - a student of the same polytechnic who only went for her IT.

To be honest, the fact that I'm the only guy in the building, with a working lady and 3 other female students was the first cause of concern for me. But the real issue is about the two girls.

When I got into the house, I had to introduce myself - at least to be on talking terms and make myself comfortable in the house. But I think these two girls are taking things too far with their weird characters.

Last week, I had finished my class early, came home around 11 am, shut my door, and laid on the bed, which I think is a normal thing to do as a naturally reserved person.

To my surprise, this girl simply opened my door without even knocking. I also found her reason even flimsy: She wanted to ask why I was home early that day.

But since I was new, I only wanted to make friends and not enemies, I had to calm my nerves and pretend as if I wasn't fazed.

A few days later, I had a lecture early morning lecture and had to rush to campus, but I had to pass a message to them about their friend that checked the previous day. So I knocked and I was told to enter.

But I was shocked when the same girl told me that I shouldn't knock before I enter their room. But what shocked that she said it in the presence of the other girl and she didn't say a word.

Are they up to anything I should be wary of or are they are only being nice or welcoming?

I don't know if I should be worried about them. Please I need your advice people.

cc: lalasticlala

So na because of knocking you write the book of John chapter 74

MejiLoyon:
So na because of knocking you write the book of John chapter 74

Lol

MejiLoyon:
So na because of knocking you write the book of John chapter 74

Here it is: The guy thought he needed advice, took the time to write and posted his question to Nairaland...

If u have answer for him, you reply and if not, you don't. That's common sense.

Trying to mock him to get likes is not only inconsiderate but simply petty and slow-witted.

To the OP, I think you should set boundaries.

Doesn't matter if you are new to the house.
The fact is, It's wrong for any neighbor to simply burst into your room without knocking.