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Young man, kindly carry your children go for DNA test. That woman na big player, and she's already playing with your balls!

Put your emotions in check.

at least I am sure you are a pathological story teller


first you said your wife is against your growth as a Christian that she does not want to blah blah
https://www.nairaland.com/6286940/wife-against-growing-christianity


in this tread you were claiming 11 years of married and you already have an affair with a fellow church member and during 4 years you were chatting
https://www.nairaland.com/6322004/cut-off-completely#97223298


and it is not surprising that your wife started acting up 5 years ago?
and you are throwing trantums?

abegi

Xenry:
Young man, kindly carry your children go for DNA test. That woman na big player, and she's playing with your balls!

I'm mixed blood and my children are exactly like me.

Praise God say I'm not yet married!
Imagine getting married and losing my peace of mind.

baralatie:

at least I am sure you are a pathological story teller


first you said your wife is against your growth as a Christian that she does not want to blah blah
https://www.nairaland.com/6286940/wife-against-growing-christianity

no stories in either of these posts, they are true experiences, the one about the Christian stuff has been resolved since time I posted here.

onyxo76:
no stories in either of these posts, they are true experiences, the one about the Christian stuff has been resolved since time I posted here.

not your experiences

baralatie:

at least I am sure you are a pathological story teller


first you said your wife is against your growth as a Christian that she does not want to blah blah
https://www.nairaland.com/6286940/wife-against-growing-christianity


in this tread you were claiming 11 years of married and you already have an affair with a fellow church member and during 4 years you were chatting
https://www.nairaland.com/6322004/cut-off-completely#97223298


and it is not surprising that your wife started acting up 5 years ago?
and you are throwing trantums?

abegi

that affair was before I got married and she was not a fellow church member, kindly read the post again and her the facts.
I would not be here cooking up stories for the sake of it, I'm too busy for such. if you have any good advice, then offer it, all these references to past posts and distorting the information is not doing me any good, I believe we are mature people here.

onyxo76:
I've been married for 12 years now with 3 kids.l accidentally stumbled on a WhatsApp chat between my wife and her faculty dean, my wife is an administrator in the same faculty. the chats dated back to December last year and contained a bit of over friendly conversations though work related and had these romantic emojis.
my wife does a lot in the faculty for the dean and she's highly appreciated and recommended.
where I was uncomfortable was the chats are late at night and early in the morning.
my wife even sends morning devotional to him when saying good morning, looking like he is the last person she chats with and first in the morning.
I confronted her with my findings and she assured me that she was a bit carried away by the chats and there is nothing between them since even her father works in the same university and she cant afford an infidelity scandal. she promptly deleted the chats in my presence and we had a heart to heart talk where we discovered that we had drifted apart due to work etc. I told her to be careful with the dean as he has adultery issues and I can't stop her from reporting to him or chatting with him.
subsequently we made amends and we have the best of times now as it is as if we are courting again.
my problem now is that I feel that she's hiding something from me and I made her know this but she gave her word that she can never cheat on me, she gives me good sex, checks up on me at work, calls me periodically just to inquire about me.
now each time she chats the dean she deletes the conversation once she is done.
now I feel as she's doing something behind me, she does not go out anyhow and I can verify her movements if she goes out. each time she chats I get a feeling that she's up to something, I know she is not capable of extramarital affairs but somehow I just have the fear of her being involved in such.
I think I need to get some help or are my fears justified based on my findings last month?

So you're worrying about your wife messaging a colleague, but you are messaging and send money to ex girlfriends who you cheated on your now wife with?

You're only concerned because your guilt is burning you.

It's paranoia.




She innocent man.





You just scared.

Truthabulabula:
It's paranoia.




She innocent man.





You just scared.

I tend to believe you...thanks.

HappyCreative:


So you're worrying about your wife messaging a colleague, but you are messaging and send money to ex girlfriends who you cheated on your now wife with?

You're only concerned because your guilt is burning you.

hmm, I've cut off from all ex for a while now, besides the affairs were before I got married. so I can't say I cheated on my wife.

onyxo76:
hmm, I've cut asideoff from all ex for a while now, besides the affairs were before I got married. so I can't say I cheated on my wife.

But you cheated on her whilst you were in a relationship did you not? Are you saying you wouldn't have care if your current wife slept with someone else the day before you got married?

I think sending an ex girlfriend money multiple times, regardless of whether you have now stopped, whilst you're married is worse than your wife sending her colleague a bible verse in the morning. Maybe it's just me.

HappyCreative:


But you cheated on her whilst you were in a relationship did you not? Are you saying you wouldn't have care if your current wife slept with someone else the day before you got married?

I think sending an ex girlfriend money multiple times, regardless of whether you have now stopped, whilst you're married is worse than your wife sending her colleague a bible verse in the morning. Maybe it's just me.

hmm I like your analysis, many thanks

nothing de happen just take it cool. if I may ask, why all ds fear that a man may phuck ya wife'? did u marry her from a bad home or what or u just looking down on her kowai?Remember, nothing breaks a relationship more than suspicion.

: no stories in either of these posts, they are true experiences, the one about the Christian stuff has been resolved since time I posted here.not your experiences