ProphetofOdin:
Most guys have been caught in the middle on how to handle situations where a lady leaves behind her personal stuff in their house, some of the common places are panties hanged on the shower, earrings on the TV, ribbons on the shelf, shoes, bras and robes in the wardrobe and so on.
This may be also relevant for those of you who are into building relationships with women, whether long- or short-term, casual, or significant. You’ve probably experienced women “forgetting” stuff at your place. It is not uncommon, especially if they like you. Most of the time, it’s by accident, but some women leave stuff at guys’ places with ulterior motives, and i am going to tell you about them.
1. Marking her territory: Have you heard of how ladies mark their territories? Now it is something similar to what dogs do; dogs mark their territories by peeing all over their neighborhood to make other dogs realize that that's' there territory and nobody should trespass. To an extent ladies have this kind of instinct too, when they leave their stuff behind they are trying to inform other ladies that this is their territory and no trespasser is allowed, women are instinctively territorial in nature.
2. They could be testing your commitment and faithfulness/loyalty: As funny as this might sound women deliberately forget their stuff in your house to test if you are worth their trust and commitment. For instance if a woman forgets her stuff in your house and you hide or throw them away, she immediately becomes skeptical and start asking questions, and that may cost you the relationship if you want something long term with her.
3. To show that they love you and are committed to you: When a woman starts forgetting her stuff in your house it is a sign of openness and that they are ready to be loyal and committed to you.
4. To get a reason to have another date with you: When a woman is fond of you, one of the deliberate things she does to get another date with you is to forget her stuff in your house so that she can have an excuse for another date.
HOW TO HANDLE THIS SITUATIONS
If you want to build a serious relationship with her, keep this personal belongings where she kept them, so that she can see them exactly where she left them on her last visit.
But if you don't want anything long term with her courteously call her attention to it, and then send them via courier to her, she will immediately get the message.