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Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
I hear a lot of persons talk about inner beauty being that vital prerequisite for choosing a spouse and that physical looks should be considered last or not considered at all. is this true? or what would be ur opinion on the topic? where would you place physical appearances in ur list of the qualities u will be looking out for? |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by pansophist(m): 12:45pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
For me, it matters. Your appearance speaks about how you respect yourself. If you're a lady with multiple layers of potbelly that could be confused with pregnancy, doesn't seems like someone that pays attention to their overall sophistication and appearance, then it doesn't matter if you're a good woman, I'm not interested. I want to be physically attracted to you. My male brain is geared towards finding a curvaceous, beautiful, and sexy woman attractive. Me myself, I'm like that. I can see my six pack clearly, and take what I eat and sport seriously. So my woman have to be like that. Beauty is the power of the feminine, and she must use hers well. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Cerebellum: 12:51pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
I believe everyone is beautiful but if you as a lady worwor for face, you no dey take care of ur physical appearance, everything dirty waah waah waah A no go near you at ol I rest my case 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Gentle0wavez: 1:05pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
One girl always comes to my house to ask me to come for church services, na so my mama warn me seriously one day say make I no marry that kind girl oh. Say if my wife no fine she no go gree. I say mommy what of inner beauty, she say make I find the one wey fine inside out, but as for worwor girl, she won't take that my wife must be fine. I ask why, she say so I want to disgrace her, I just dey smile. She was dead serious, she say I be like person wey no go mind marry worwor girl. 8 Likes |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Reex12(m): 3:21pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
These scandalous recommendations is ideal for ice cold reptiles or randy yahoo boys... No right thinking homosapien with a human heart will adopt such clues of vicious madness in to his life !!! |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
it matters bro |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nazgul: 9:56pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
It matters. Looks draws a guy to a girl, character makes him stay with her. So looks is as important as her character. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Erojepromise(f): 10:11pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
matters to me, l have to be physically attracted to you before I can even try to get intimate with you after then comes the scrutiny that is checking if you tick my boxes... 2 Likes |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Silentgroper(m): 10:19pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
richmond500:Can u take a break 4 fvcking pete sake .. i feel like ripping ur throat out. |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Silentgroper(m): 10:22pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
Erojepromise:It's just d way it's suppose to be. |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by debaj10: 12:45am On Mar 13, 2021 |
BadRadio:it's the primary cause of broken homes. not all that glitters... |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by debaj10: 12:46am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Silentgroper:stop enabling him or her. |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by debaj10: 12:50am On Mar 13, 2021 |
pansophist:may u not learn the hard way. I knew a girl with a congenitally bad foot. with almost mannish looks. and build. boys flocked to her because of her personality and character- no single forming, always cheerful. had a choice of 3 doctors I knew of, plus other professionals. married one of the docs. be wise. 1 Like |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:53am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Looks aren't everything, but they matter particularly for the intimacy and romance part! Inner beauty/personality may not suffice in the other room. BadRadio: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by leksite120(m): 12:57am On Mar 13, 2021 |
It's important but not essential. One get fed up of everything about ones spouse with time but at least if she has a pretty face, you'll still see something to look at and it'll take time to get fed of it, but if na one ugly gal u carry enter, u go just gbadun ha for highest 6months bfr u go don fed up with her. It's not essential in the sense that, if u end up being with a very good gal and the next thing you're thinking of is that she's not beautiful, u might end up being with a bitch of a gal later. Who knows if the most evil girl has the prettiest face. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by TSBO: 1:17am On Mar 13, 2021 |
I won't say looks don't matter.. But note, beauty disappears in the presence of bad character; and appears in the presence of good character. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 1:21am On Mar 13, 2021 |
It matters for some It does not matter for others Just go for wat makes u happy 1 Like |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Tajbol4splend(m): 1:38am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Ugly lady no fit me, I too fine comot 1 Like |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Michelle55: 3:39am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Just be you and every other thing will fall into place.. The looks may fade away or be tampered with by unforseen circumstances, what will you do then if you only got married because of that? If I'm happy with you, the rest would take care of itself. I need not worry. 1 Like |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by cooooooks(m): 4:12am On Mar 13, 2021 |
'Beauty' should not be a consideration because beauty is relative. What if she or he is beautiful to you but your friends or/and family think they are not? Do you then mortgage your happiness for 'what will people say'? As a guy, beauty is probably not the consideration for vain people, rather, it's your money. As a lady, the vain people will use beauty, 'assets', etc. Some ladies then tie their stomachs, undergo for expensive and dangerous surgery, waste money on slim tea and whitening cream. To what end? What happens as you get older? What if you lose your money? Will your so called love stay with you? Marry who you are happy with, who makes you laugh. 'Beauty' should be irrelevant. |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by falcon01: 6:44am On Mar 13, 2021 |
looks matter to me Not just facial but over all body physique. The way I work hard to maintain my body when I'm not gyming I'm doing several pushups squats and Ab crunches sometimes I have to Force myself not to take Soda or any carbonated drink its pretty. Now after going through all that, you expect me to like your fat ugly ass? God forbid you don't deserve me, I deserve better. You might Not have a pretty face no problem but There are things you can take control that will make you Attractive, Hygiene, weight and Body structure. So yeah.. Looks Matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by J4JUVENTUS(m): 8:50am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Yes. Why marry someone you can be free to go out with any day ,any time? Even if not too fine,at least average... 1 Like |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by femi4: 9:26am On Mar 13, 2021 |
BadRadio:Looks matter, women grow old quickly as they age |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by sunshineV(f): 9:29am On Mar 13, 2021 |
do u want to spend the rest of ur life with a male face partner? |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
pansophist:See as you take sell yourself out,if to say you get money we for don marry tey tey. |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by phemy36(m): 8:25pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Zzor: Hummm. Point of attraction. There's a connection |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
richmond500:Keep lying. |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Zzor:Is he poor? |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
HellVictorinho:lol,you all should stop taking my comments seriously |
Re: Does Looks Really Matter In Choosing A Spouse? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Zzor:Ok. |
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