A woman revealed why men lose interest in their wives after a few years in marriage

When we newly found a lover or married to someone, the thought of the relationship fading away in time to come does not show up until the reality of life sets in.

At the point when it looks like the partners are no more romantic the way they used to be, they need to apply discipline and look for a means of renewing the love on daily basis.

A woman who identified herself as Faith B. China made wife took to her Twitter page to reply to a man who asked "Why do men lose interest in their wives after a few years in marriage?

Her reply to the question appears to be the real reason why men don't pick interest again after staying with their women after some time.

The issue of men losing interest in women after staying with them for some time is giving many a lot of concern.

Both men and women have been asking to know the root cause of this act because it doesn't reflect the days gone by when one cannot be comfortable without seeing his or her partner.

Faith B. revealing the cause of lack of interest in a woman after staying with her for a few years, she at the same time told those suffering from that, what they should do to keep the love on.

She said, "People lose interest in people when stayed together for some period of time It's called over-familiarity. That's why there's a need for couples to always engage in some activities that will renew their love".

From: https://efogator.com/china-made-wife-reveals-why-men-lose-interest-in-their-wife/

All these psychological theories and other counselling are trash!!

stupid talks.

unfortunately the women will not agree that they are first to begin the decline and yet first to disagree when confronted with the truth!
they have a ton of excuses to throw around but blame the man for everything! so... we just sit on the fence and wait...

Wild pussy is part of it..

Forget what you typed up there..

change factor and law of diminshing returns comes to play....those are the two fact of nature dt u cnt avoid..

I think some people are just unrealistic or immature. They really expect their marriage, job, and etc. to be a fantasy come to life.

If you're bored with your girl, do some new stuff. And accept that your relationship will evolve over time. Every new phase in life brings something different.

You can't continue eating the same soup every day and not get bored at some point

Womanizer:
You can't continue eating the same soup every day and not get bored at some point

Soup doesn't change, people do. ¯\_( ツ)_/¯

People dont just loose interest because of Familiarity. Why didn't you lose interest in your friend after several years of being Friends?

You must realise that most times we are the cause of Our Problems. Imagine a Lady who used to be Fun and Loving after Pregnancy begins to:

Deny Her Husband Sex;
Begins to Nag the Man anytime she is observing her Period;
She shouts on the Man anytime;
Complains about everything;

The man gradually gets tired of the Nagging and find solace in something/someone else and gradually they become Live-in strangers and Love become lost between them.
We must also realise that with Children coming into Marriage alot of things usually change and sometimes the Only way forward is to Remember Our Pledge to "For better; For Ever".

Pleasure and Sweetness and Enjoyment in Anything Including Marriage, is from The Lord and it is Only from and at His Hands that it is Obtainable!

It can not be bought while the fake will always die out in a short while!

life is in phases and its only natural to loose interest in things along the line ...people change as they grow, interests change, priorities change. The person you married today wont be the same person 5 or 20 years from now. You have to be willing to accept that these changes are part of life and establish a good communication base with your partner so that you can evolve together instead of fighting against the change.

Ayam not married.what do i know?

Why won't we loose Interest when after pounding fufu she no go bath, she go carry same body come meet we for bed or after using the restroom she no go clean yansh come still meet me for bed..

Most women as soon as they get married become complacent about their bodies, personal hygiene and their overall appearance. Those that are fat will become fatter and smellier. Those that were of manageable figure will explode to yokozuna after marriage. Be tying smelling wrapper and keeping bushy armpits and pussy. The man must surely loose morale.

I created a topic on this.
https://www.nairaland.com/6445041/love-addiction

See finish syndrome

Na only men dey “lose interest”?

Very sexist hypothesis.

This can only happen When people don't understand what marriage is all about.

Most people see marriage as a medium to satisfy their sexual desires and that is why you see many men attracted and getting married to a lady because of her shape. When she goes out of shape, the Interest is gone.

Some see marriage as a means of survival. So when they become comfortable, they lose Interest in the providing spouse.

While some go into marriage due to societal pressure only to get in and realize they dont know what and why they are in the marriage. Or if marriage is actually for them.

If you want to understand the real meaning of marriage, study the life of Christ and his relationship with the Church ( the saints in the body of Christ). Until I find a man who understands this last point, Ill gladly remain unmarried. All we have these days are halfbaked men who know little or nothing about marriage.

Another negative thread.

efogator:


A woman revealed why men lose interest in their wives after a few years in marriage

When we newly found a lover or married to someone, the thought of the relationship fading away in time to come does not show up until the reality of life sets in.

At the point when it looks like the partners are no more romantic the way they used to be, they need to apply discipline and look for a means of renewing the love on daily basis.

A woman who identified herself as Faith B. China made wife took to her Twitter page to reply to a man who asked "Why do men lose interest in their wives after a few years in marriage?

Her reply to the question appears to be the real reason why men don't pick interest again after staying with their women after some time.

The issue of men losing interest in women after staying with them for some time is giving many a lot of concern.

Both men and women have been asking to know the root cause of this act because it doesn't reflect the days gone by when one cannot be comfortable without seeing his or her partner.

Faith B. revealing the cause of lack of interest in a woman after staying with her for a few years, she at the same time told those suffering from that, what they should do to keep the love on.


She said, [b]"People lose interest in people when stayed together for some period of time It's called over-familiarity. [/b]That's why there's a need for couples to always engage in some activities that will renew their love".

From: https://efogator.com/china-made-wife-reveals-why-men-lose-interest-in-their-wife/

Couples with purpose don't get to the point you mentioned. Purpose erases over-familiarity.

From my research, you can hardly get two people with same purpose these days. Everyone has his/her mind. However, it seems people of the same faith tend to still have same purpose in life. Religion gives purpose in this present world. Couples of same religion with the same or almost same level of faith at advance stage tend to have same purpose. This is my observation. Career is the greatest opposite. Career tears couples apart.

Study the lives of faithful believers (preferable christians) and you see couples with same purpose. You see couples with leadership skills even assisting and counseling young couples how to navigate through. TRUST is the KEY.

TRUST is taking initial RISK. You just trust the person, but not blindly...even after initial misunderstanding or mistakes, trust should still be there. But when your default is to doubt or distrust, believe me...you are falling down soon. And the worst part is: loneliness will set in soon. Married couples live longer. Singles die faster out of want for companionship. When you are "too careful" and you choose not to trust at first, it is DANGER. TRUST is having same purpose.

Goodluck!

KanwuliaExtra:
Na only men dey “lose interest”?

Very sexist hypothesis.

It's like you're the only person who knows the difference between 'lose' and 'loose' in this thread

Klass99:


I don't see it that way, I see it as an avenue for learning something new.

I prefer to learn from those who get it right.

Klass99:


I don't see it that way, I see it as an avenue for learning something new.

it’s just another woman-bashing thread. Nothing to learn here. Nothing but women this, women that. Bla and bla oh bla

The man gradually gets tired of the Nagging and find solace in something/someone else

Ask them to congregate let’s discuss what makes women loose interest and maybe even consider seeking solace outside, then the world will literally start to end on this thread

No we can’t have that. It’s only the husband man that’s allowed to get bored and take his attention away from the wife.

cococandy:
it’s just another woman-bashing thread. Nothing to learn here. Nothing but women this, women that. Bla and bla oh bla


Ask them to congregate let’s discuss what makes women loose interest and maybe even consider seeking solace outside, then the world will literally start to end on this thread

No we can’t have that. It’s only the husband man that’s allowed to get bored and take his attention away from the wife.

No try am o!

pocohantas:


No try am o!

they are not ready to talk to women. They are just busy talking at us

Klass99:


I am open to learning one or two useful things from a male perspective. I like what that user Theophorus shared, it was valuable information.

I'm looking forward to a female perspective as well and hoping Kanwulia or others share their experience. And I am truthfully not seeing it the way you and Hathor are.

that’s cool