Guyman93:
Bro u talk like person wet dey date my ex but we are still cooling , I want to marry her coz I love her , I have two side chick already , u are just a pussyfooting man she never loved you every time we had sex she keep asking me to give her more ,coz she can't get enough bro so sorry for u that u caught feelings for person who don't give a damm about u next time avoid girls that still talks to their ex

Her pussy is sweet and I can never leave her for you ok

gasparpisciotta:
Wise up!!!

Don’t be an assistant boyfriend...

Marshal9:


For your mind na u get sense mtcheew

Guyman93:

I dey catch cruise forget

pozehnani:
The girl is catching cruise with both of you but I think she's more attached to the other guy.

Also for you to be aware of the other guy ( and he's not aware of you) shows shes protecting her relationship with him because she values what they both share more than what you both have. She's only keeping you as option B in case her main doesn't come forth.

Move on already.

The guys knows about me and was even upset with her for saying yes to me.
But I don't know what happened lately cos of the changes she began to display.
That's why I wanted to see their chat which she refused.

Chris525:


She’s confused, leave her be. I’m guessing she’s 26 or thereabouts, at that age it can be tough for women. She feels drawn to the other guy, I guess out of curiosity since they never had sex and all. It could still be genuine, thats why you need to give her sometime to sort herself out. Thats usually the best solution.

1F30M4:
I do not think you overreacted in any way per se.. However, I think she's not totally true to you.. She told you that she left the other guy just to be with you, she just wanted you to feel that there are better chances with you.. The truth is, she's still weighing her options with the other guy hence she's always bringing up topics about him.. She wants to be 100% sure, she made a better choice of being with you.. There will always be a comparison, if you don't meet up with what the other guy is doing/has done/has promised to do, she may have to rethink her stand with you afterall.. I cannot say for sure that she loves you but maybe, just maybe she has some feelings for you, you could wait it out orrr strike it out.. Either way, I don't like having someone make me feel this way like I'm in a competition when no be say na bazaar auction sales lmaoooo.. I meann, c'mon if I'm not treating you right, why don't you just tell me straightup and not tell me that "see ehn, I be spec oo, there are other people also dying to have me, so shey normal or you lose me" , it's so vague.. Tell me what exactly is the issue or what's bothering you then we can talk about it like adults and know what to do about it.. Nobody wey no be spec abeg

Marshal9:
Please nairalanders I really need your help on this one

I have a girlfriend I love to the bones, but before we met she had a man she had known 2 years before me that claims he loves her too and really wants to marry her.

I asked but she assured me that there's nothing wrong. Infact she left the guy for me when all her friends felt she should have stayed with him instead of me.

The truth is I love this girl and I really wanna marry her but I want to be sure she's on the same side with me, cos she once visited the guy without my consent but when I found out she had to apologize which I did forgive.

But lately i discovered she was still chatting the guy and the guy still call her. We can be talking this minute and she might bring up a topic about the plan the guy had in mind for the future, and how the guy claims to even marry her if another guy got her pregnant.

After a while she decided to stay away from sex, saying it feels wrong and is only ready to do it till marriage.

The part that got me most confused was when she jokingly asked me if I could marry someone that assured me she had never being in a romantic affair, but I discovered later that she lied, that would I go ahead to marry her?

This was the case of her and the guy cos I was her first(guess you understand )

Now I was getting confused and insecure and needed to be certain and absolute with whom I'm dealing with.

I called her and told her how I felt and the only thing to make me feel better was to see their chat.

She instantly refused. I got angry and told her is she doesn't show me the chats that she shouldn't bother calling me again, she insisted that she isn't showing it to me

I had to leave her and told her that I'm done, she got angry too and we both haven't talked in a while
Pls forgive my lengthy writing I really need all the advice I can get.

Did I do the wrong thing? Or am I overreacting.

Bola146:
Thank God you know earlier congratulations. Let her go, she can't be trusted

Anfield247:

Good morning Bola146, how are you doing? It been a while, and I have missed you so much. Whatever it is, always know that you mean alot to me, okay! Please take verx good care of yourself for me and always be the best you can be, I love you!

Anfield247:

Madam, Honestly speaking I just have to do it this way to show how I care about my friends on nairaland. Aunty Bola146, I`m extremely sorry for intruding by quoting you out of the main topic. I have been following you up on nairaland for quite some time now. Your comments are educative innovative that is why I followed you up on this particular platform. For some days, I haven't seen you commenting or put up a new post. I was worried, I had to do what I did to know how you are faring. Please, I want us to be friend, I would also want to speak with you on phone if possible. My name is victor!

Anfield247:

Madam, Honestly speaking I just have to do it this way to show how I care about my friends on nairaland. Aunty Bola146, I`m extremely sorry for intruding by quoting you out of the main topic. I have been following you up on nairaland for quite some time now. Your comments are educative innovative that is why I followed you up on this particular platform. For some days, I haven't seen you commenting or put up a new post. I was worried, I had to do what I did to know how you are faring. Please, I want us to be friend, I would also want to speak with you on phone if possible. My name is victor!