Nairalanders out 4 friends I hang out with. I'm the only one that doesn't smoke, party, womanize and do yahoo. My friend keeps tempting me to join them that there is no sin it. I don't know what to do if I leave them I'm going to be loniest man in this world because I am an introvert by nature. What really pains me a lot is that they when I am around with them they call me fool because I don't take part in what they do. Pls help me. I need your advice

Richsteemit:
Nairalanders out 4 friends I hang out with. I'm the only one that doesn't smoke, party, womanize and do yahoo. My friend keeps tempting me to join them that there is no sin it. I don't know what to do if I leave them I'm going to be loniest man in this world because I am an introvert by nature. What really pains me a lot is that they when I am around with them they call me fool because I don't take part in what they do. Pls help me

What do you need gan gan


I can extend my hands of friendship to you if that's ok with you

You don't smoke
You don't party
You don't womanize



To be frank, I can't keep someone like you as a friend. Your type is deadlier than cancer.

Richsteemit:
Nairalanders out 4 friends I hang out with. I'm the only one that doesn't smoke, party, womanize and do yahoo. My friend keeps tempting me to join them that there is no sin it. I don't know what to do if I leave them I'm going to be loniest man in this world because I am an introvert by nature. What really pains me a lot is that they when I am around with them they call me fool because I don't take part in what they do. Pls help me

'Pls help me'? What kind of stupid appeal is this one? How do u want us to help u?

Change friends.
Look for good friends in religious centres
You will find decent individuals.

When I finished secondary school, most of my old friends started yahoo, weed, and other kinds of nonsense lifestyles. I just quietly cut them off. I never informed them whenever I was back home back then during my UnderG. I never texted them but replied when they did.

I saw one yesterday in my area in his car. He even parked expecting me to drop from bike so we both could catch up. I just kept on waving and told the bike man not to stop. We are walking different paths now

Change your friends, it's that simple! Infact, cut all of them off. It's already a problem that you consider them indispensable... you're latching on to them like your life depends on them.

When you let them go, you'll meet new ones.

Your life is in your hands. when your mama born you, na only you she born put, if you now feel that your life is impossible without those miscreants you mentioned in your post then follow them.


plus stop saying you're an Introvert because Introvert don't complain of loneliness, it's their strength rather.

Kriss216:


You don't smoke
You don't party
You don't womanize



To be frank, I can't keep someone like you as a friend. Your type is deadlier than cancer.

Why am I deadlier than cancer

No matter what happens,


Don't Let People Influence You Rather Influence People.

Don't Let People Choose You As Friend Rather Choose Your Friend(s). And lastly,

Don't Ever Forget Your Background NO MATTER WHAT.

HOPE I MADE BRAIN??

Why try to feel AMONG when you can STANDOUT ... you would be surprised that they secretly envy your self control

something is killing you nd u re still doing it...so what exactly is ur problem young man??...weak ass Baby boys everywhere these days...very simple something someone can js wake up one morning nd decide 2 stop..una go js carry am come here dey seek attention...
Boys seek attention pass girls 4 ds forum sef...what nonsense

What will you do if someone calls you a fool for not putting your hands in fire?

Will it pain you or make you feel pressured to put your hands in fire?

The fact that their criticisms is making you feel pained and pressured to join them reflects something likely about you. Your heart is not deeply resolved upon doing the right thing. There's a part of your heart that's not so resolved upon the truth and that part is getting stronger and stronger and may overpower you if care isn't taken.

I don't know why you keep such people as friends. Run away from them and look for better friends.

God help you my son.

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This kind question is what you suppose to being asking your self every morning you wakeup

Kriss216:


You don't smoke
You don't party
You don't womanize



To be frank, I can't keep someone like you as a friend. Your type is deadlier than cancer.

na your type they increase suicide cases...he seeks for advice, whereas you are causing more emotional trauma for me.
must every one live a toxic live?.

Richsteemit:
Nairalanders out 4 friends I hang out with. I'm the only one that doesn't smoke, party, womanize and do yahoo. My friend keeps tempting me to join them that there is no sin it. I don't know what to do if I leave them I'm going to be loniest man in this world because I am an introvert by nature. What really pains me a lot is that they when I am around with them they call me fool because I don't take part in what they do. Pls help me. I need your advice

You just have to change your game ,you will definitely meet team players that suit your style of play.

Richsteemit:
Nairalanders out 4 friends I hang out with. I'm the only one that doesn't smoke, party, womanize and do yahoo. My friend keeps tempting me to join them that there is no sin it. I don't know what to do if I leave them I'm going to be loniest man in this world because I am an introvert by nature. What really pains me a lot is that they when I am around with them they call me fool because I don't take part in what they do. Pls help me. I need your advice

I think you are really a fool who lacks self respect, if not you would have stopped hanging out with them

They don't need to call you a fool. You are already a fool cos you can't think and decide for yourself.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Change friends.
Look for good friends in religious centres
You will find decent individuals.

When I finished secondary school, most of my old friends started yahoo, weed, and other kinds of nonsense lifestyles. I just quietly cut them off. I never informed them whenever I was back home back then during my UnderG. I never texted them but replied when they did.

I saw one yesterday in my area in his car. He even parked expecting me to drop from bike so we both could catch up. I just kept on waving and told the bike man not to stop. We are walking different paths now

Under the hot sun, you're on bike still doing shakara for person inside his chilled Car

Poverty is not something to be proud of, nwanne.

That your guy fit no send you sef!

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Change friends.
Look for good friends in religious centres
You will find decent individuals.

When I finished secondary school, most of my old friends started yahoo, weed, and other kinds of nonsense lifestyles. I just quietly cut them off. I never informed them whenever I was back home back then during my UnderG. I never texted them but replied when they did.

I saw one yesterday in my area in his car. He even parked expecting me to drop from bike so we both could catch up. I just kept on waving and told the bike man not to stop. We are walking different paths now

your last paragraph got me rotfl

Kriss216:

Under the hot sun, you're on bike still doing shakara for person inside his chilled Car

Poverty is not something to be proud of, nwanne.

That your guy fit no send you sef!

Yah, I was expecting such a reply.
You have done well in representing.

Why try to feel AMONG when you can STANDOUT ... you would be surprised that they secretly envy your self control

Dey your dey

Richsteemit:
Nairalanders out 4 friends I hang out with. I'm the only one that doesn't smoke, party, womanize and do yahoo. My friend keeps tempting me to join them that there is no sin it. I don't know what to do if I leave them I'm going to be loniest man in this world because I am an introvert by nature. What really pains me a lot is that they when I am around with them they call me fool because I don't take part in what they do. Pls help me. I need your advice

Bro, I can understand how you feel because I'm in a similar situation as you. Almost, if not all of my secondary school friends and classmates or people we grew up together with are into Yahoo. It's not easy going out and seeing your mates flexing life, wearing nice clothes and getting good girls while you struggle to even buy a T-shirt for yourself. I refused, or should I rather say, changed my mind against doin Fraud not because of morality reason but because doing it will lead me to hanging out with some certain elements in my environment which I don't really want as that's not who I am. There's nothing you can do to curb this feeling bro, absolutely nothing. The only curr is to just go out and find what you can do to start earning. No amount of positive talk will make you stop being 'oppressed'.

Kriss216:

Under the hot sun, you're on bike still doing shakara for person inside his chilled Car

Poverty is not something to be proud of, nwanne.

That your guy fit no send you sef!

Bro I say poverty na disease
Blik say he nor kw say na Nigeria we dey if e lik me e dey do I nor get today I go get tomorrow na so poverty go kill m

My brother, in life, if you are not matured to know the extent you can keep friendship with anyone, there will always be problem with pressure, SO CHANGE YOUR FRIEND CIRCLE, but have this in mind, you will meet another set who don't do your afore mentioned but does other things.

What you need is:

*Let your friends know your boundary
*Be disciplined
*Don't look intimidated, or jittery around them
*Never allow yourself to be influenced but rather be one to influence them.
*Change how you portray yourself, never let your friends know your weakness more than your strength.

Above all, every human has his/her own positive side to benefit from. You can even be their point of stopping/reducing if you act wisely. (My own small pikin advice to you)


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