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Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Bizma2474(m): 2:16pm On Mar 29
I don't need to be told, I know pretty well that am jealous and it's affecting my relationship. so I am asking for you guys opinion on how to stop being jealous. my girlfriend told me it's killing her feelings for me and nobody can change her mind if she stop loving me, and I don't want to loose her.
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Godada(m): 2:20pm On Mar 29
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Skullano(m): 2:21pm On Mar 29
Get busy bro.
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Jashub: 2:22pm On Mar 29
My dear brother, does your girlfriend do things that make you suspicious of her on a regular basis? If yes, then both of you should have a heart-to-heart talk ; but if no, then I suggest you find time to see a counselor, or preferably, a psychologist who is in better position to advice you on how to handle your dilemma.

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Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by LeeSantos(m): 2:44pm On Mar 29
your question should be how to make money to drive in a G-wagon with your mom, dad, sis or brother to your new house on the island this year. go make your life useful jare
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 29
Bizma2474:
I don't need to be told, I know pretty well that am jealous and it's affecting my relationship. so I am asking for you guys opinion on how to stop being jealous. my girlfriend told me it's killing her feelings for me and nobody can change her mind if she stop loving me, and I don't want to loose her.

the energy you put in love put it in searching of money that's the only solution to your problem...

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Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by thatsleepboy1: 2:56pm On Mar 29
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Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by uwa1(m): 3:38pm On Mar 29
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Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by SILENTandSMART2: 3:48pm On Mar 29
Honestly you can't change it


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Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by iRepNaija1: 3:56pm On Mar 29
Skullano:
Get busy bro.

This. You need to go focus on your job, get a new hobby, focus on your friends, focus on extracurriculars to take your mind off what you're girlfriend is doing. When couples give each other that space to concentrate on their own things, when they come back together or meet up, they appreciate the time they have together even more. No one likes a significant other whose entire focus is on what their partner is doing. It makes him or her look clingy, unattractive, and boring. Good luck.
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Cerebellum: 4:01pm On Mar 29
Let me help you

You just gimme her number and trust me that spirit of jealousy go commitgrin
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by SmellySperm(m): 4:02pm On Mar 29
apparently your love for her kpekus is great than her love for your rod..
as a guy, never date gal wey her love no big pass ur own
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Nazgul: 9:15pm On Mar 29
Do you trust her?

Has she proven beyond every reasonable doubt that she can be trusted?

If yes...then relax and stop worrying yourself over nothing.

If no...leave her so you can have peace of mind.

The ball is in your court.

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Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by Wittyglam(f): 10:14pm On Mar 29
I have a well detailed video on this topic, check it out.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=es1Yiq6y3O4
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by paulolee(m): 10:38pm On Mar 29
ask fire boy......naim sing " am getting jealous already"...he may have a better opinion than us
Re: Please How Can I Stop Myself From Being Jealous? by pansophist(m): 11:04pm On Mar 29
When a man is jealous, it communicates to her that he is insecure, and as you know, men do not have the privilege to be insecure. Its an attraction killer. You must be confident. But the catch is that before you can be confident, it has to come from your value.

Seeing her as a trophy you don't want to loose is not value to her, if anything, it gives her the impression that she can do better, and not stuck with a man she perceives to be beneath her class. So to be confident, the formula is the same. Which is that you should improve your life overall that you'll have options of girls, that she will perceive it, which will cement her bond with you, knowing fully well that you're not a lucky looser dating her.

All these I outlined are the dynamics that occurs subconsciously, so play to that tune. Is not something to discuss or negotiate, it's something you have to be. If the relationship with her is the centre of your existence, then you've lost her from the beginning. The countdown to the end has already begun.

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