Magnoliaa:
Who defined b.itch.es as being available to all men, though?

And those... those lists are very well "attitudes" any one can have, even the women you'd term 'bad.'

chronian:
I'm among the bad ones though but, a very good gal. It's all individuality.

If I were you, I won't say a lady is crazy cause she's putting on crazy pants or shorts.

SmellySperm:
I prefer a God fearing cardi b

PrimadonnaO:


Can't say, to be honest. But from observation, that's what people mean when they refer to bad bitches.

What do you think more wholly defines a bad bitch?

PrimadonnaO:
This good girl/bad girl narrative is being given too much attention. Today it's Lilo saying men only go for bad girls. This is someone who's an influencer.

I worry that young undiscerning good girls will start trying to become bitches...

Dear young girl, don't become a bitch. Bitches are available to every Tom, Dick and Harry, but that shouldn't be you. This is what I know works, and makes a young woman balanced;

1. Be approachable but not available to everyone.

2. Have standards but don't be unreasonable.

3 Be conscious of your worth but don't think too highly of yourself.

4. In a relationship, you'll have to make compromises, but know what compromises are worth making.

5. Don't stress people for fun because you think it makes you more desirable - hard-to-get syndrome.

6. Being rude isn't classy or admirable. Be civil and sensitive in how you communicate with people, whether or not they're chyking you.

7. Don't make everything about you. Your chyker/significant other has needs, feelings and preferences, too. Stop expecting him to always be the one shifting grounds for you.

8. Check your feelings of entitlement.

9. Feel free to be expressive. State how you feel. Ask for what you want. There's nothing demeaning in that.

10. Understand that all men have ego. Sometimes you may need to shine his ego, but so long as he isn't unreasonable and inherently insecure.

11. Don't let any man use you to do "sarewagba" Avoid men that praise you for being a "low maintenance chic." It's a psychological tactic.

12. Don't be the babe that goes to a man's house to start sweeping full house and compound, doing his laundry, pounding yam. (I personally don't have a problem with cooking, but wisdom is profitable to direct).

13. Be strategic in how you date. Don't just date a a person because he's asking you out and texting you regularly. Do you personally like him? Does he have values that appeal to you? Does he largely check the boxes with regards to the things you want in a man?

14. Don't be too hasty to quit on people. You may let a relationship go and realise in hindsight that you could have fixed it. If the relationship is worth it, make it work, give it your best shot. Y'all will have fallouts now and again, but don't feel too important to be the bigger person. But again, wisdom is profitable to direct.

As for what people call "bad bitches" or "bad girls," I'll actually struggle to define or enumerate enough characteristics of those ones, but it certainly has something to do with having loose morals.

Feel free to add, subtract, and modify for better clarity on this matter.

bukatyne:


Points 1 - 14 on point!

Magnoliaa:


I'll leave this to semantics and all of that, though. My stance is there are different kinds of women who subscribe to different things. A 'b***h' can be used and played as well as a good girl. I mean, you have churchy girls who are going through hell in the hands of men. That you're conservative doesn't mean he'll respect you, but that is not to say being religious and conservative is a bad thing.

From my observation, I know women people term 'bad b***hes' who act exactly the way you've described up there. I know women who call themselves bad bitches and don't allow men walk all over them.

Any woman can exhibit a denial of herself to please men...

offset67:
leave ma bitch alone!

chronian:
I'm among the bad ones though but, a very good gal. It's all individuality.

If I were you, I won't say a lady is crazy cause she's putting on crazy pants or shorts.

PrimadonnaO:


True. There will always be exceptions in every class.

And I think nobody is wholly good or wholly bad. But for context and popularity of usage, let's agree that bad girls are people who promiscuous, or easily available to all men.
I hate to reference Bobrisky, but there was a time he made a video that was trending... in the video, he was bashing good girls, saying they were foolish for having a vagina and being broke... that their mates are balling and cashing out steadily. I saw that post on Instablog9ja and it corroborates that people generally refer to bad girls as sexual-flolicking girls. There was also a post where a guy was saying bad girls marry very quickly and cited an example of a girl he knew to have slept with so many people getting married to a colleague of his.

Good girls are not necessarily churchy girls... good girls are generally understood to be people with socially acceptable moral standards. But the problem is that they sometimes lack social IQ, too agreeable or playing too-hard-to-get, etc.

PrimadonnaO:
This good girl/bad girl narrative is being given too much attention. Today it's Lilo saying men only go for bad girls. This is someone who's an influencer.

I worry that young undiscerning good girls will start trying to become bitches...

Dear young girl, don't become a bitch. Bitches are available to every Tom, Dick and Harry, but that shouldn't be you. This is what I know works, and makes a young woman balanced;

1. Be approachable but not available to everyone.

2. Have standards but don't be unreasonable.

3 Be conscious of your worth but don't think too highly of yourself.

4. In a relationship, you'll have to make compromises, but know what compromises are worth making.

5. Don't stress people for fun because you think it makes you more desirable - hard-to-get syndrome.

6. Being rude isn't classy or admirable. Be civil and sensitive in how you communicate with people, whether or not they're chyking you.

7. Don't make everything about you. Your chyker/significant other has needs, feelings and preferences, too. Stop expecting him to always be the one shifting grounds for you.

8. Check your feelings of entitlement.

9. Feel free to be expressive. State how you feel. Ask for what you want. There's nothing demeaning in that.

10. Understand that all men have ego. Sometimes you may need to shine his ego, but so long as he isn't unreasonable and inherently insecure.

11. Don't let any man use you to do "sarewagba" Avoid men that praise you for being a "low maintenance chic." It's a psychological tactic.

12. Don't be the babe that goes to a man's house to start sweeping full house and compound, doing his laundry, pounding yam. (I personally don't have a problem with cooking, but wisdom is profitable to direct).

13. Be strategic in how you date. Don't just date a a person because he's asking you out and texting you regularly. Do you personally like him? Does he have values that appeal to you? Does he largely check the boxes with regards to the things you want in a man?

14. Don't be too hasty to quit on people. You may let a relationship go and realise in hindsight that you could have fixed it. If the relationship is worth it, make it work, give it your best shot. Y'all will have fallouts now and again, but don't feel too important to be the bigger person. But again, wisdom is profitable to direct.

As for what people call "bad bitches" or "bad girls," I'll actually struggle to define or enumerate enough characteristics of those ones, but it certainly has something to do with having loose morals.

Feel free to add, subtract, and modify for better clarity on this matter.

Liposure:
name one quality of a good bad girl like you, if you don't mind.

PrimadonnaO:
This good girl/bad girl narrative is being given too much attention. Today it's Lilo saying men only go for bad girls. This is someone who's an influencer.

I worry that young undiscerning good girls will start trying to become bitches...

Dear young girl, don't become a bitch. Bitches are available to every Tom, Dick and Harry, but that shouldn't be you. This is what I know works, and makes a young woman balanced;

1. Be approachable but not available to everyone.

2. Have standards but don't be unreasonable.

3 Be conscious of your worth but don't think too highly of yourself.

4. In a relationship, you'll have to make compromises, but know what compromises are worth making.

5. Don't stress people for fun because you think it makes you more desirable - hard-to-get syndrome.

6. Being rude isn't classy or admirable. Be civil and sensitive in how you communicate with people, whether or not they're chyking you.

7. Don't make everything about you. Your chyker/significant other has needs, feelings and preferences, too. Stop expecting him to always be the one shifting grounds for you.

8. Check your feelings of entitlement.

9. Feel free to be expressive. State how you feel. Ask for what you want. There's nothing demeaning in that.

10. Understand that all men have ego. Sometimes you may need to shine his ego, but so long as he isn't unreasonable and inherently insecure.

11. Don't let any man use you to do "sarewagba" Avoid men that praise you for being a "low maintenance chic." It's a psychological tactic.

12. Don't be the babe that goes to a man's house to start sweeping full house and compound, doing his laundry, pounding yam. (I personally don't have a problem with cooking, but wisdom is profitable to direct).

13. Be strategic in how you date. Don't just date a a person because he's asking you out and texting you regularly. Do you personally like him? Does he have values that appeal to you? Does he largely check the boxes with regards to the things you want in a man?

14. Don't be too hasty to quit on people. You may let a relationship go and realise in hindsight that you could have fixed it. If the relationship is worth it, make it work, give it your best shot. Y'all will have fallouts now and again, but don't feel too important to be the bigger person. But again, wisdom is profitable to direct.

As for what people call "bad bitches" or "bad girls," I'll actually struggle to define or enumerate enough characteristics of those ones, but it certainly has something to do with having loose morals.

Feel free to add, subtract, and modify for better clarity on this matter.

PrimadonnaO:


True. There will always be exceptions in every class.

And I think nobody is wholly good or wholly bad. But for context and popularity of usage, let's agree that bad girls are people who promiscuous, or easily available to all men.
I hate to reference Bobrisky, but there was a time he made a video that was trending... in the video, he was bashing good girls, saying they were foolish for having a vagina and being broke... that their mates are balling and cashing out steadily. I saw that post on Instablog9ja and it corroborates that people generally refer to bad girls as sexual-flolicking girls. There was also a post where a guy was saying bad girls marry very quickly and cited an example of a girl he knew to have slept with so many people getting married to a colleague of his.

Good girls are not necessarily churchy girls... good girls are generally understood to be people with socially acceptable moral standards. But the problem is that they sometimes lack social IQ, too agreeable or playing too-hard-to-get, etc.