Xenry:
She wants to rebreak your heart. RUN!!!

valentineuwakwe:
Give him a chance. ..hear what he wants to say n if ok by you push forward.....life is somehow bro

KitKatAn:
Oh no, it's a pity to hear this. As for me, I like that I can freely chat with interesting people online. Maybe you will try it? It is interesting and you can get to know a lot of interesting people. I am using interracialdatingsites right now. There I can freely chat with interesting people, to communicate etc. It is a good solution to start new relations, maybe to find a good person etc.

crossfm:
Just a friend request and you are already panicking.

I know it hurts to break up the way you guys did,but I will advise you move on.She was sincere enough to let you Know she found another guy and I respect her for that.Some would have been giving you a lot of hope even when they know it's no longer possible you guys can still be together.

If I were in your shoes,I will accept her friend request and see what she has to say. Mind you it doesn't pay to have a lot of resentment in your heart.If it's possible you guys can still be friends.

Cerebellum:
Nah the "sever pain" funny me most

But why Facebook request con become matter now ntori oloun


Aswear to slap this OP dey hungry me

Darkprime:
Two months ago (on valentine's day to be exact), I broke up with my girlfriend of four years. We started dating in 2017, then she and her family moved to Ghana a year later and it became a long distance thingy. We kept in contact for a very long time up until 2020 during the COVID-19 lockdown period.

Then I noticed she started becoming more bored and distracted anytime I called her, and I was always the one to initiate contacts. She later confessed that she found a new guy in Ghana. Things led to a boiling point in February and we called it off. As I was in severe pains, I unfriended/blocked her all over social media, blacklisted her numbers and removed everything that reminded me of her. I remember she blamed it on us being very far apart and also claiming that I stopped "giving her vibes".

Just yesterday, I was browsing through my Facebook when I saw that she sent me a friend request. I'm struggling to come up with reasons as to why she must have done this. I am yet to respond to the request as I type this. What could have motivated her to send a random friend request?

Darkprime:

We ended things on a very very bad note. I didn't imagine we'd ever be speaking again and that's what informed my surprise when I saw her friend request. Either way, I accepted it already but I'll leave it at that for now .

Same thing she is doing. She knows that you've accepted but she is going to leave it at that for now.



A step at a time.

Darkprime:

We ended things on a very very bad note. I didn't imagine we'd ever be speaking again and that's what informed my surprise when I saw her friend request. Either way, I accepted it already but I'll leave it at that for now.