SmellySperm:
means "release the funds and have the kpekus" in a subtle way

WoundedLamb:
You guys should stop the policing and give these girls some breathing space. I've read this exact statement on many platforms. Your lady did not originate it, and she definitely shouldn't lose the right to share it just because she's dating you.

TushiPree:
as long as you keep saying "when can i see you" instead of "lets go out for launch" we will forever say "i will let you know when i'm free"


The above was posted by your fiancée on her WhatsApp status.

What message is that passing indirectly to her male contacts ?

I need your honest interpretation.

TushiPree:



Well, there are certain posts that are wrong for some certain categories of people.

What’s the essence of such a message is my question?

Is she not telling guys on her contact list she’s available for hangouts?


We don’t just share posts for the sake of sharing them. I feel everyone needs to always asks this question: “what is the essence of this post of mine?” Before releasing it to public space. Because from what a lady posts regularly, guys can tell what type of a lady she is.

Imagine, this same lady who is addicted to always posting videos of herself leaving her cleavages open, under the pretense that she’s doing tik tok skits, feeding her contact list with such unholy content.

A say after correcting her and she agreed to change, she came up with this kind of a post.

What would you think as her fiancé to this type of a lady?

This is just not right for any serious minded lady and for a lady that respects the personality of her fiancée.

WoundedLamb:


I don't know why you guys place so much restrictions on ladies. Everything bruises your ego. We actually share posts for the sake of sharing them. We actually share posts cause they are trending. We actually share posts on behalf of other members of our groups, gender, class, etc. In fact, we actually share posts for the fun of it. Everyone does this once in a while and if the OP was a woman, we all would have been shouting "women and their insecurities". During the End Sars protest, men were typing "na women wey follow us protest we go marry". We all understood that was just trending and not like anyone was about to dumb his girlfriend cause she didn't protest. Everyday, women and men share posts on social media, each telling the other gender how to approach or handle them. It doesn't mean they are all single and searching. The "we", "us", etc represents the gender class and not necessarily the person typing. Only insecurity would make someone worry about such things. Trust your partner and give her some breathing space.

TushiPree:




You should understand something. A behavior that calls for questioning isn’t an act that’s suggestive of insecurity.

A lady or a man doesn’t need to put himself or herself in situations that would make others profile him or her as what he or she’s not.

Wether we like it or not, your words and actions say a lot about what you are as a person.


Pushing that away and pretending like they don’t matter is pretty unwise.


There are reasons why whores put on revealing cloths.

There are reasons behind why body builders have huge biceps.


When you see a ruffian and a violent individual, their behavior easily sells them out.


You see: in this life whatever we do really matter and this really will determine how others see us.


A lady who’s not needy and has so many responsibilities to catch up with won’t have the time to be posting stuff that reflect she’s a LovePeddler.

Posting videos revealing her unclothedness and everytime her posts surrounds men matter.

What message is she passing?

Or a guy that posts about party here and there. This carries strong messages.


Don’t say ladies can share or post whatever they like without any reason behind the post.


It’s only animals that I know do things without any reason.

As much as I won’t conclude about the personality of someone based off what they post, but to a reasonable extent what you say and post is who you are at the end of the day.

TushiPree:




You should understand something. A behavior that calls for questioning isn’t an act that’s suggestive of insecurity.

A lady or a man doesn’t need to put himself or herself in situations that would make others profile him or her as what he or she’s not.

Wether we like it or not, your words and actions say a lot about what you are as a person.


Pushing that away and pretending like they don’t matter is pretty unwise.


There are reasons why whores put on revealing cloths.

There are reasons behind why body builders have huge biceps.


When you see a ruffian and a violent individual, their behavior easily sells them out.


You see: in this life whatever we do really matter and this really will determine how others see us.


A lady who’s not needy and has so many responsibilities to catch up with won’t have the time to be posting stuff that reflect she’s a LovePeddler.

Posting videos revealing her unclothedness and everytime her posts surrounds men matter.

What message is she passing?

Or a guy that posts about party here and there. This carries strong messages.


Don’t say ladies can share or post whatever they like without any reason behind the post.


It’s only animals that I know do things without any reason.

As much as I won’t conclude about the personality of someone based off what they post, but to a reasonable extent what you say and post is who you are at the end of the day.

idomalord:
Its another way of saying" anything for the girls "