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|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:11pm On Apr 08|
PoliteActivist:there is simply one creation story
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:15pm On Apr 08|
demmymoney:LEAVE THAT GUY ABEG. HE IS TRYING TO SOUND GREAT
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by sapphiere(f): 4:16pm On Apr 08|
Akuruoulo:How many offline have approached you for marriage?
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:18pm On Apr 08|
demmymoney:JUDGING FROM HIS MONIKER , HE WILL ONLY ACCEPT ANY LIE IN FAVOUR OF WOMEN
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:22pm On Apr 08|
sapphiere:OH NOW I KNW YOU AREN'T ANSWERING BASE ON THE THREAD. THE THREAD ISN'T TALK ABT WHO APPROACHES WHO, BUT RATHER IT ASKD A SIMPLE QUESTION THAT DESERVES THE TRUTH. I HAVE NEVER SEEN U GIVE A FAIR ANSWER REGARDING BOTH GENDERS. WHO DOESN'T KNW THE TRUTH ON THIS MATTER BT U TRIED TWISTING IT
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 4:28pm On Apr 08|
Instead of resorting to insults why not carefully read my posts. Maybe you'd learn something.
Here is one of my posts. Argue from it:
My friend Adam couldn't have been created a second before Eve. He was given a penis; where was that supposed to go?? Look throughout nature - a positive can't exist without concurrent existence of a negative.
Also, see your non sequitur - God who knows everything suddenly REALISED he made a mistake - and the type of mistake that even a child won't make!
And also this - God who created the whole universe with just His words suddenly became a sculptor when it came to Eve. He could not create her with just His words! Please discern the difference between myth and God's logic.
Read your bible.
27 So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”
In the day that God created man, He made him in His own likeness. 2 Male and female He created them, and He blessed them. And in the day they were created, He called them “man.”
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 4:28pm On Apr 08|
See my post above. Get it now?
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 4:30pm On Apr 08|
And that's the one that says man and woman were created same day. See my post above
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by BLOODYSPERM: 4:30pm On Apr 08|
I'm a pragmatist and I deal with truths, facts and harsh uncomfortable realities of life especially our ancestral pasts
Slavery has been an historical fact for most cultures throughout civilization whether black or white cultures
Among our black ancestors we had slaves let's not be hypocritical because white men took our people as slaves, before they took them we were using our own people as slaves and they also were using their people as slaves too, but our ancestors were not wise enough to develop their own society like white men ancestors, these is facts, what were they using their time for, while at the same time white men were sailing the world, developing their Societies and reaching enlightenment era ,while our black ancestors were primitively worshipping idols , practising rituals and engaging in conflicts among each other tribes , using conquered enemies as slaves just like white men , why weren't they developing their Societies like white men? , why didn't our ancestors leave their dogma and discover the new world, why didn't we colonize other cultures
Our ancestors were not as intelligent as white ancestors because they chose to dogmatically follow tribalistic rituals and traditions, white men had left tribalism and moved towards scientific enlightenment and progress
See the state of Africa with it's leadership and even the people , has anything changed since post-colonization , nothing ,facts is that collectively speaking even after receiving enlightenment and information age in these 21st , the tribalistic primitive instincts of our ancestors still exists unlike in Western Societies that have risen above tribalism, we still choose to be incompetent and we don't seek out intelligence or even apply intelligence like the white men , still blinded by religion and Cultural dogmas, even black women even have an inferiority complex of their skin seeing themselves as less attractive hence they bleach to become fairer
Black America communities have the worst mordern statistics with regards to social issues like family, marriage,
fatherlessness , the statistics even during segregation were better than now,and most blacks vote for Democrat whose politicians and media platforms manipulate your emotions with trigger words like systematic racism and white supremacy, police brutality when the statistics shows that all these are cultural marxist tools to polarize you from whites and make you all loose focus on more pressing issues like black to black violence , fatherlessness which are more systematic than any racism post civil rights
If black Americans like you who live in Progressive western societies , who ought to be more intelligent than us based in Africa can be fooled by leftist politicans and manipulated with racism to make you loose focus from your main community problems , then what hope do native black Africans have when our colored folks in the west are pawns of liberal elites
As I said , I'm a pragmatist and I work with data , facts and statistics, I don't like to judge people based on their group with identity politics because I believe societal problems must be solved on an individual level with emphasis on family building and entrepreneurial creativity of individual applying practical knowledge ( wisdom) to solve complex societal problems, I don't lament about things I couldn't control like the ineptitude and incompetence of my black ancestors but rather I make use of my intelligence to Better develop myself and Society as an individual unlike most members of my society who are dogmatic with religion and culture and can't apply critical thinking and deductive reasoning to solve our current economical and political problems
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 4:32pm On Apr 08|
Read the creation story that starts Genesis 2:4. Compare to the one in Genesis One. Tell us how they are same!
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:33pm On Apr 08|
PoliteActivist:Hahahaha joke of the century. I read ur logics already bro, bt its filld with blunt falacies. I wish am at home near my bible. I must pick back on ur when am home. HAVE A NICE DAY
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:34pm On Apr 08|
PoliteActivist:Bro when i get home i must pick on u bro
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 4:37pm On Apr 08|
Starts Genesis 2:4 not 2:2. Already corrected it.
Do so. Then buy me origin for teaching u something
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 4:38pm On Apr 08|
Do so. But don't fail to get back to me to thank me for teaching u something
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by sapphiere(f): 4:49pm On Apr 08|
Akuruoulo:The thread says women see marriage as huge achievement. I asked how many women have approached you for marriage?
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Famousdex1: 4:53pm On Apr 08|
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 5:23pm On Apr 08|
First, those aren’t facts.
But more importantly... Why are you focusing on Black Americans? Look at the statistics in your own country. Look at the rates of domestic violence, rape, adultery, murder, robbery, kidnapping, starvation, female genital mutilation, child rape, child mortality in your majority Black country. The “Black on Black” crime can be witnessed in your own country lol
Look at the statistics of Black Africans in the UK, your people aren’t doing well there. 3% of the population representing about half of the criminals...
Stop obsessing over us. Focus on you.
Why should Black Americans be “smarter” than Africans? You believe Black people in a country that banned Black people from even reading for 250 years and then kept Black people for another 100 years from attending white educational facilities should be smarter and more educated than African people (males at least) who have always had access to education?
Your belief in white supremacy is astounding, more disturbing than your hatred for women...
I’m almost certain there is a white incel behind this account.
There is a difference between the presence of slaves and a slave economy. It’s sad you don’t understand this basic concept. In the West people were stolen and forced to be slaves generation upon generation upon generation... and slaves were the primary mode of production and the driving economic force of nations. Differing totally from slavery in Africa. There was no such system in Africa and slaves in Africa were more akin to serfs in Europe of the same time period.
“slavery as a mode of production was not present in any African society, although some slaves were to be found where the decomposition of communal equality had gone furthest.”
“In Africa there were social formations represent hunting bands, communalism feudalism and many positions intermediate between the last two.”
“The weakness in Africa seemed to have been the lack of a professional interest in acquiring more scientific knowledge and in devising tools to lighten the load of labour as well as to transform hostile environments into areas suitable for human activity. As far as agriculture in Europe was concerned, this professionalism was undertaken by the class with a vested interest in the land — namely, the feudalist landowners and later the capitalist farmers”
“Under communalism every African was assured of sufficient land to meet his own needs by virtue of being a member of a family or community. For that reason and because land was relatively abundant, there were few social pressures or incentives for technical changes to increase productivity” [/b]
You don’t have a basic understanding of ancient history, modern history, or science.
And who even mentioned slavery? You just ramble on like a crazed person.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 5:31pm On Apr 08|
Wats the lie?
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Philevade(m): 5:42pm On Apr 08|
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|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by BLOODYSPERM: 6:07pm On Apr 08|
Proving my point that our Black ancestors unlike the white ancestors were not intelligent to develop their Society rather they were dogmatically using rituals and traditions while at the time white men were progressing
Slavery is evil whether it's slave economy or ordinary slavery, it against human right no matter the level of babarism or civilization of the society that practices it
let's not rank the victimhood of slavery as it is inherently wrong
I'm not a white boy , I'm yoruba based in South West Nigeria , I'm a black man, these shouldn't even be debated
I love and respect women from my mother, female cousins, even including you, I see women collectively from my own subjective opinion not based on deductive reasoning as soft, sensitive, emotional creatures who are very vulnerable in the society and should be protected via strong masculine Patriachal authority , women and children equally
I still don't understand how I'm a male supremacist, I believe in equal opportunities for men and women when they are given freedom to make their individual choices as we are all equally human under the law and should be treated with equal rights, privileges and dignity but what I don't believe is equality of outcomes and using legislative means or quota policies to attain such result
I will always state facts that biologically and evolutionary women and men are fundamentally different and this differences affects the decision and choices each gender makes
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 6:46pm On Apr 08|
sapphiere:MAKING APPROACH ISN'T A FEMININE THING, BT I HAVE SEEN SOO MANY WOMEN BREAK UP WITH A GUY BECAUSE HE DOESN'T WANNA SETTLE DOWN YET. TRUE OR FALSE ? APPROACH DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING .
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 6:48pm On Apr 08|
PoliteActivist:I will never fail bro. Just get ready bro
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 6:50pm On Apr 08|
PoliteActivist:I have heard you. I will u proves that shows they aren't creatd at the same time.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by benji93: 7:56pm On Apr 08|
Why the bolded, when i clearly mentioned that my argument doesn't go beyond that. Besides, I never said people in their 20's. I said it's until 20. 20 is an the upper limit. I do apologize for making such an assumption with respect to your knowledge. That was an assumption based on past history. I clearly mentioned that. I used the first article for the 20 upper limit. You could certainly find another article that suggests an age lesser than 20, which I wouldn't argue with cos it's clear for these developmental periods are not quite specific. You will always have a plus or minus, but i would appreciate it if you post one, so we know your argument at least has support. Now there's certainly the issue of reliability of a source, which can be ignored as we don't have lots of journal publications on the subject. The second article does suggest that the catching up occurs by late high school, but does not indicate the age while another suggests it narrows. Perhaps classifying the argument as correct is a little too confident but the 20 years cap is quite reasonable, considering the age problem. For the last bolded, i cannot argue with that. It is certainly disingenuous. The guy made a lot of points, the ugly part was clearly not the only one. We could go back and forth on what his end was, but that's beside the point, cos he did make multiple points, even though they probably shouldn't belong in the same test. However, when I first mentioned you I clearly indicated which of those points I was supporting, so again bringing up the "ugly" thing is definitely not on point, but again it could have been cos you misinterpreted my initial argument.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 2:40pm On Apr 09|
First I have to say, when a grown man says a girl is ripe he is NOT talking about her brain maturation! Let’s be honest here. And that’s why I am confused again at you trying to win points for the man who was talking about maturity in terms of being marriageable, in terms of physical appearance.
Kids complete puberty about the same time and young men and women’s brains are BOTH considered fully matured at the age of 25.
“Meyer said boys catch up to girls in development by late high school. Males and females don’t finish brain development until about age 25”. https://shine365.marshfieldclinic.org/kids-health/boys-girls-maturity-gap/
Your source above describes “late Highschool” as the time at which boys and girls are caught up with one another re: brain development and as you said Nigerians leave highschool by 17 these days. In most countries kids are 17 & 18 upon completing highschool.
So, the sources you shared described boys and girls catching up to one another by highschool and you are using the age 20. But that doesn’t mean that either boys or girls are fully developed by highschool or even your preferred age of 20. Your previous assertion that because a 17 year old girl finishes highschool that she’s “ripe” for marriage is particularly disturbing especially when you consider her brain is 8 years away from maturing.
The Newcastle study talks about brain activity, neurons that are removed to optimize said brain activity as the brain matures... the articles then deducts “this is probably why girls mature faster than boys”. When we’re talking about maturing we are talking about better overall cognitive and emotional responses. that doesn’t mean a girl is “mature” or should be considered no longer a child or ready to marry. And again, girls mature earlier in this way but boys catch up with girls by their late teens and both take up to the age of 25 to reach fully matured brains.
Girls are raised in societies that expect women to behave responsibly. Girls as soon as disgusting predators find them “ripe” will be expected to marry soon, whereas boys will have until their 30’s even 40’s to choose to settle down. Therefore boys are usually allowed to be kids longer. Girls are pressured to *act* mature.
I’ll say again, the topic me and that guy were discussing was not about matured brains when he described girls as ripening early. That’s what pedophiles regularly use to justify preying on kids. Girls enter puberty a year or two before boys but they both complete the process around 16. They also complete brain maturation at the same age.
maybe you were just looking to argue with me, which is fine and I’m used to it, but you jumped in to change the context of what we were discussing...
On psychosocial responses being the same at 16 between girls and boys
“But significant differences in maturity, favoring adults, were found between the 16- to 17-year-olds and those 22 years and older, and between the 18- to 21-year-olds and those 26 and older. Results were the same for males and females, the authors said.”
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