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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by TheGreatIYANU: 8:23am On Apr 08
Carchoice:
look for some cool sad music to enjoy in the comfort of your room. Lock all doors and windows. Don’t entertain visitors because they’ll notice something is wrong and start asking you questions. Make you nor go burst cry when explaining to them.

Also try to cry while remembering her smile and all the styles you used on her. Before you start the crying phase, go and buy bitter kola, take a bit and chew while crying. Don’t ask me why. Just do it.

2 to 3 days max, you’ll be alright. At most, one week, she’ll delete out of your system.





...lol bros this was so hilarious! grin grin
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Nicklaus619(m): 8:42am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

Believe me bro, u have just taken the best decision yet, this situation u got your self out from I have been in your shoes before, and since I got my self out for good, it has been success story left, right and center
.p.s we broke up for good and she still beg for us to come back, but it ain't happening I have moved on.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Rockyrascal(m): 8:53am On Apr 08
This heartbreak go reach everybody
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Rockyrascal(m): 8:56am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.
good decision you took, your mental health first.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by naijacovid(m): 9:39am On Apr 08
liveyourlife007:
You no be small pikin, for you to know this song. Shey you don marry?
will get married this year sha. 30Years no be Beans
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Athiefku: 10:32am On Apr 08
4 years!!!! Na university course?
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Afriifa(m): 10:32am On Apr 08
BluDesk:
Brother. You did the right thing. Have fun. Enjoy life.
Affirmed
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Afriifa(m): 10:33am On Apr 08
Carchoice:
look for some cool sad music to enjoy in the comfort of your room. Lock all doors and windows. Don’t entertain visitors because they’ll notice something is wrong and start asking you questions. Make you nor go burst cry when explaining to them.

Also try to cry while remembering her smile and all the styles you used on her. Before you start the crying phase, go and buy bitter kola, take a bit and chew while crying. Don’t ask me why. Just do it.

2 to 3 days max, you’ll be alright. At most, one week, she’ll delete out of your system.




Good recommendation
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Afriifa(m): 10:35am On Apr 08
mosdii:

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Lol Ebena-Owei

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by ictjobber: 10:50am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.


Yu are obviously broke.. Behind every successful man appears a woman."
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by braunny(m): 10:54am On Apr 08
Mixedfruit:
A woman's Loyalty is like Italian Army During the second world war;--Non
Existence.....
Mussolini s errors
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Ghedo99(m): 10:57am On Apr 08
Another Ozo Spotted grin
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by UwaMmebii(m): 11:01am On Apr 08
Carchoice:
look for some cool sad music to enjoy in the comfort of your room. Lock all doors and windows. Don’t entertain visitors because they’ll notice something is wrong and start asking you questions. Make you nor go burst cry when explaining to them.

Also try to cry while remembering her smile and all the styles you used on her. Before you start the crying phase, go and buy bitter kola, take a bit and chew while crying. Don’t ask me why. Just do it.

2 to 3 days max, you’ll be alright. At most, one week, she’ll delete out of your system.





Hahahaha guy u funny
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by liveyourlife007(m): 11:18am On Apr 08
Good. Marriage will favour you. IJN
naijacovid:
will Iget married this year sha. 30Years no be Beans

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Michelle55: 12:13pm On Apr 08
Congratulations

Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Mcslize: 12:45pm On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

Go and cook a delicious pot of soup and eat. I don't know why you guys always carry relationship for head like gala.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Mcslize: 12:47pm On Apr 08
mosdii:


Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

grin grin grin mad man. Abeg I am your fan. Nigerian Girls are useless, all of them. Not even a fraction. grin grin

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Mcslize: 12:48pm On Apr 08
Kiaso:


My own don dey reach 5 years
But I don tell this girl make she leave me go marry person hold money pass. She no gree

She say I tick all the boxes of what she wants in a man

Na wa o. You don enter be that o. Your piping skills must be topnotch I guess.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by OriginalOmoOgun(f): 1:03pm On Apr 08
Always take care of your physical and MENTAL health. If she's not good for either and refuses to even acknowledge such, my brother, face front. You will get through this
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Judybash93(m): 2:15pm On Apr 08
Kiaso:


My own don dey reach 5 years
But I don tell this girl make she leave me go marry person hold money pass. She no gree

She say I tick all the boxes of what she wants in a man

LMAO!!! You guys aren't joking
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Faber(m): 2:57pm On Apr 08
Rockyrascal:
This heartbreak go reach everybody

I tell you. My own was in 2018. I be small pikin for woman matters then...I was crying as if my papa die. Chai I Bleep up that time.

One yeye girl left me then, and went and co-habit with one guy claiming the guy don marry her, the guy even called me then warning me to leave his wife alone. My people dt girl still dey single now, pounding fufu for her mama kitchen.

Each time she sees me in town, she bows her head in shame cos man don mature and progress well well beyond comparison.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Faber(m): 3:07pm On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

I will not bore you with too many advice. But take this from me:

Never you put ur eggs in one basket. If you are seriously dating a girl. Keep like 3 girls as subs. Chat with them, flirt with them. Dont let them know you're in a serious relationship. In a situation like this you just switch to one of them as a sub for the meantime...then when transfer window opens you look for a good girl that suits you taste. The transfer window of bitches usually opens between October and early November. During this period many of them are desperate for a boyfriend to spend the Xmas with.

The good side of this is, you will just move on immediately and also start uploading the pics of ur new girl on ur status(if you so wish) your ex will realize that you have moved on asap. It will hurt her the more. She will even accuse you of cheating on her while the two of you were together.

During that time, we recruit new promising young girls. By Easter we don sample and bleep them enough...then we start looking for new players to join our team.

Never you give one girl your heart. Chat and flirt with like 3 girls. Go on dates with them secretly. Make it as platonic as possible only kisses...they will be waiting patiently for the day you will start dating them fully. Don't spend on them o
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by wiseone28: 3:38pm On Apr 08

Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by VanillaIyce(f): 4:24pm On Apr 08
Mixedfruit:
A woman's Loyalty is like Italian Army During the second world war;--Non
Existence.....
grin grin
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by naijacovid(m): 5:31pm On Apr 08
liveyourlife007:
Good. Marriage will favour you. IJN
Amen
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by 2rez: 5:56pm On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

Better luck next time. That said, get stoned bruh & let it restore the sanity. It's magical, the creator created it for times like this. I bet u 'll feel cooler than mere cool words afterwards.
Caveat; smoke with sense. Easy does it aiit.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Rockyrascal(m): 9:15pm On Apr 08
Faber:


I tell you. My own was in 2018. I be small pikin for woman matters then...I was crying as if my papa die. Chai I Bleep up that time.

One yeye girl left me then, and went and co-habit with one guy claiming the guy don marry her, the guy even called me then warning me to leave his wife alone. My people dt girl still dey single now, pounding fufu for her mama kitchen.

Each time she sees me in town, she bows her head in shame cos man don mature and progress well well beyond comparison.

some girls this days usually do not see beyond the present.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by DaInferno(m): 11:23pm On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.
break up the go round, e dn reach you,e go reach everybody grin
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Faber(m): 3:46am On Apr 09
Rockyrascal:
some girls this days usually do not see beyond the present.

My brother. Anyone with an ambition for good life should forget about Nija girls for now.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Nephilim: 8:42am On Apr 09
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.
next time, do a calculated break up.. Stir up a friendship with someone else before you then go ahead to break up with the other.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by michaelpop50: 4:25pm On Apr 09
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

Zombie, so you think say na only you dey ffuucckk her abi?

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