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Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Benard5050: 1:09am On Apr 08
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by bigpicture001: 1:14am On Apr 08
...better luck next time

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Mixedfruit: 1:25am On Apr 08
A woman's Loyalty is like Italian Army During the second world war;--Non Existence.....

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by BareFacedLies(m): 1:35am On Apr 08
Sorry kid, better luck next time

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by BluDesk: 1:36am On Apr 08
Brother. You did the right thing. Have fun. Enjoy life.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by TheUndercover: 1:38am On Apr 08
Visit the Red Pill thread and save your life.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Carchoice: 2:11am On Apr 08
look for some cool sad music to enjoy in the comfort of your room. Lock all doors and windows. Don’t entertain visitors because they’ll notice something is wrong and start asking you questions. Make you nor go burst cry when explaining to them.

Also try to cry while remembering her smile and all the styles you used on her. Before you start the crying phase, go and buy bitter kola, take a bit and chew while crying. Don’t ask me why. Just do it.

2 to 3 days max, you’ll be alright. At most, one week, she’ll delete out of your system.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by sanity12(m): 2:18am On Apr 08
All is well
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Kobicove(m): 2:23am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

So you tied down the lady for a whole 4 years without defining where the relationship was going...you're a wicked person angry

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Youngpo413: 2:30am On Apr 08
Your greatest achievement since the beginning of this year....I wonder how u stick with one bitçh for a whole year talkless of 4......all of them are the same,so why waste time with one when there are so many to be sampled?

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Skullano(m): 2:33am On Apr 08
Plan a 3some this weekend and feel alright my guy, life no pass enjoyment so no go dey limit yourself.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Duplexxx: 2:49am On Apr 08
My guy you took the right decision and i wish you stay safe
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by yomi007k(m): 3:22am On Apr 08
TheUndercover:
Visit the Red Pill thread and save your life.

He won't do it. He is not ready to learn.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Staphylococcus: 3:47am On Apr 08
Calls for celebration!

Where the party @?
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by aroundtheearth: 5:27am On Apr 08
undecided
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by zoeA: 6:20am On Apr 08
Carchoice:


Before you start the crying phase, go and buy bitter kola, take a bit and chew while crying. Don’t ask me why. Just do it.


This got me thinking...why kolanut?
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by tosik(m): 6:22am On Apr 08
abeg where is mosdii??this guy is needed here.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by naijacovid(m): 6:25am On Apr 08
Four years don waka
We still dey carry go
Nobody waka nobody go solo
Baba God o our case e oo na Your grace o
Adupe o

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by positivevibez: 6:37am On Apr 08
Quit as soon as disrespect starts. That's why you don't spend money you will regret later on a partner free her.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by mosdii(m): 6:39am On Apr 08
tosik:
abeg where is mosdii??this guy is needed here.

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by qtguru(m): 6:41am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.

Find a hobby to distract you, for me I like to study on topics and write articles along the line, you will get over it. But you're a Man, Suffering and Disappointments (not a curse , but an eventual outcome) await you so you should be able to know how to pick yourself up.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by positivevibez: 6:45am On Apr 08
Relationship especially woman na liability invest in yourself love yourself treat yourself better. Thank me later.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Kiaso(m): 6:48am On Apr 08
Mixedfruit:
A woman's Loyalty is like Italian Army During the second world war;--Non
Existence.....

John Snow spotted
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Kiaso(m): 6:48am On Apr 08
Carchoice:
look for some cool sad music to enjoy in the comfort of your room. Lock all doors and windows. Don’t entertain visitors because they’ll notice something is wrong and start asking you questions. Make you nor go burst cry when explaining to them.

Also try to cry while remembering her smile and all the styles you used on her. Before you start the crying phase, go and buy bitter kola, take a bit and chew while crying. Don’t ask me why. Just do it.

2 to 3 days max, you’ll be alright. At most, one week, she’ll delete out of your system.






Wise Person spotted

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Ginaz(f): 6:49am On Apr 08
So sorry dear . Peace of mind is better so while you are healing, cut off any form of communication from her. You will get over her with time.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Kiaso(m): 6:51am On Apr 08
Kobicove:


So you tied down the lady for a whole 4 years without defining where the relationship was going...you're a wicked person angry

My own don dey reach 5 years
But I don tell this girl make she leave me go marry person hold money pass. She no gree

She say I tick all the boxes of what she wants in a man

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by Onyenna(m): 6:55am On Apr 08
Congratulations....... Your sanity is very important....
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by boxer022(m): 7:00am On Apr 08
Congratulations on the successful break up with her, at least you can now save your self from the said emotional stress.

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by NACE13: 7:20am On Apr 08
Mixedfruit:
A woman's Loyalty is like Italian Army During the second world war;--Non
Existence.....

Italian Army:

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Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by liveyourlife007(m): 7:38am On Apr 08
You no be small pikin, for you to know this song. Shey you don marry?
naijacovid:
Four years don waka
We still dey carry go
Nobody waka nobody go solo
Baba God o our case e oo na Your grace o
Adupe o
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by dnawah(m): 8:05am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.
it only hurts when u are breathing,so hold ur breath to forget,you are free again.
Re: Just Broke Up With My Gf Of Four Years by femi4: 8:12am On Apr 08
Benard5050:
Just decided to free myself from the emotional abuse I've been passing through for over 3 weeks now.

We've been together for four years but we started having issues when she started copying her friends and when I say anything she'll take it with anger and starts acting funny, no calling, no texting, and lots of dehumanizing words via WhatsApp status.....I called her and have a robust conversation with her but yet nothing change...Ive decided to call it quit so i can regain my sanity back cos d emotional abuse is making me unhappy and going crazy.

This hurt cos I dnt know where to start from again after four good year's but at d same time I need my sanity back..

Pls, I need cool words or advice at this time, thank u.
4yrs of learning
Take your time, learn from the past and move on.

You are going to choose and do better in your next relationship cos you now know better

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