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Marriage Assumptions by vivsravine: 5:17pm On Apr 08
MARRIAGE ASSUMPTIONS

There are lots of assumptions associated with marriage, most recently I took a survey on some of the trouble in marriages in our generation and below are some of the listed.

READING MINDS:
Most partners have chosen to be mind readers in their relationship, rather than discuss with their partners they chose to read their minds and eventually fall into big trouble with their spouse as a result of  negative assumption.

NOT HELPING OUT:
Some relationships are in shambles as a result of the fact that one of the partner carries all the load while the other finds it difficult to lend a helping hand and as such, their relationships becomes a shadow of its self.

CARRIED AWAY:
There are lots of things that makes either one of the partner or both to be carried away in their relationship, what ever the reasons are which of cause is unlimited to count its always better to align your thoughts and action and not allow them bring trouble in your marriage.

REVENGE GAMES :
Certainly, there must always be issues coming up in any given marriage relationships but it's so sad that forgiveness is driven to the mud while so many adhere to revenge instead, many marriages are no longer existing due to the fact that partners are now involved in revenge in their relationships.

INSENSITIVITY :
Insensitivity comes to play when partners ignore their roles, play dumb to the needs and concerns of their partners and act selfishly in marriage, this brings about unresolved issues and breakage in marriage.

DISTRACTION
In this aspect, it could appear as being unwanted or being ignored in marriage, this type of distraction can lead to separation, most especially when one of the partners feels cheated due to a consistent trait from their partner.

COMMUNICATION :
Here is another pointer, most couples who have lived for long or not but find it so hard to effectively communicate,, this act alone has broken so many marriages and brought about unnecessary situations in marriage.

There is true happiness that loves brings in marriage, make sure you find it, make ammends and keep striving to make your marriage work, despite the challenges that comes with it.

Think it through between working out and working away, there is no one person who is perfect yet we all strive to become better people as the process comes along.

Vivsravine speaks

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Re: Marriage Assumptions by airminem(f): 5:19pm On Apr 08
Nice piece vivi

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