I was listening to a podcast earlier this morning, a black american women in her 30s was interviewed, she's almost a PHd holder and a medical practitioner, she doesn't want to marry a man in his 40s, she want a man in his 30s too, however men in these range of age would go for 25, 27 and below women,they rarely go for women in their 30s,this same lady doesn't also want to go for younger men because she believes they won't be able to take care of her.

Funny thing is, this lady is a high earning medical practitioner, yet wants a man that can still take care of 75 percent of the bills even when she already earns very high, you can see the confusing, she's financially buoyant yet she won't marry a modern man who they can both share 50/50 or 60/40 or 45/55, she wants the man to do 75 percent regardless of how financially okay she is.

Women should stop looking for traditional men they can stress, traditional men who would carry 90 percent of the finance of the family, men should also stop looking for traditional women too, except a man has all the money to ensure that his woman or wife remains a traditional wife, without needing to contribute to the home front.

The world is changing and the best couples are the ones who realize that you want your wife to be a traditional woman and modern woman at the same time.

Likewise, women too should stop dreaming and wishing for a man who's both traditional and modern at the same time.

A traditional man might be the type who wants his wife to be all that his mother was, homely, cultured, taking care of the kids, leaving her dreams to focus on the home and him,but in return, the man would be the man financial windshield of the family, however such men might not be open to a lot of liberalism in modern style of marriages these days.

I can't talk too much, just know you can't have both worlds, likewise men who want modern career women ,be ready to home a lot at home ,be ready to be her prince charming ,e.t.c, hold the door for her, do the dishes, all these things are not a big deal for men with liberal outlook on marriage and marital life, however some women can be modern and still expect you to be traditional, this is the current wave of confusion happening in the feminism world..


So should a man carry 75 percent of the financial burden? Is it logical for a financially buoyant woman to still want her man to settle all the bills?

The question now is this, what do financially buoyant women spend their money on, since they want their men to still take up 75 percent of the bills

Marry nigerian girls at your own peril.

Answer:
American Ladies Spend Their Money By Buying All Sort Of Expensive Groceres And 24k Carat Gold And Pets.
As For Nigerian Ladies They Spend Their Money On Data,
Infact According To The Fedral Ministry Of Agriculture,
An Average Nigerian Lady Spends Her Earnings In Buying Data For Instagram And Video Chat,
Also They Buy Cucumber For... Maybe Eating sha,
And Also Buying Armless And See-through Dresses,Cosmetics Etc..

Nor Be Me Talk Am
Na Ministry Of Agriculture.

Nope, not too much. In fact make it 90%

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If men starts to become very calculative in relationship like women in terms of finance,there will be no any family unit.....Gender equality is certainly freedom for men

Mizzyliz:
If men starts to become very calculative in relationship like women in terms of finance,there will be no any family unit.....Gender equality is certainly freedom for men

That is what women are avoiding ,though not all women sha, but majority want both worlds

When you approach an average woman, they weigh you on a scale from afar even before you say "hello"

Only <5% women marry for love., others are hypergamous.

Know this and know peace.

God helping me, I want to be a traditional man and bleep pu*sy without feeling guilt or have time for unnecessary nagging.

Oboy, get money oo

Most women are too selfish for my sensibility.
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They use the money to finance their promiscuous life.
Those kind of entitled selfish women are often very promiscuous and adulterous and at thesame time want to chain and control their husband.
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Their money is used to finance frivolities, pleasure and fvck any diick they want. They are not financially committed to husband. They give him headache for the least financial reason even when they can ease financial stress

Even if your wife is richer than dangote otedola or bill gates all combined
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if you have five naira its our money and if you she has trillions its her money COMPRENDE?


dont be deceived because she is giving you toto no mean say she no go kill you


welcome to nigeria

If men starts to become very calculative in relationship like women in terms of finance,there will be no any family unit.....Gender equality is certainly freedom for men