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I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 10:51am On Apr 18
I dated a girl from 2006 till 2011, I helped her through school, she broke up with me 2 month to her final exams.

She started dating the guy she was rumored to be dating during our relationship, I felt betrayed and told her she will be used and dumped @35.

She got married to the same guy @35 and I got another heartbreak @35.

No relationship has worked for me since my last relationship, no girlfriend and I easily get bored when a girl stay too long in my house, some girls have told me I won’t get married because of my intolerance.

I have made peace with my ex and we are cool now, but relationship still doesn’t work for me.

Do I have a problem or what I wished her is coming back to me.

Advice pls
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by WorkDesQ: 10:54am On Apr 18
If you want candid advice, ditch this thread. Create another one that highlights your highs and lows, work, financial ability, tolerance and intolerance, hobbies. And social life details and then ask how to work around these to build a relationship.. You won't get tangible honest helpful information which this content that demarcate you seriously. I advice you hurriedly take it down

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Qatar2022: 10:59am On Apr 18
You're using what she did to you against others so it is holding you back, forgive and forget

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by falcon01: 11:01am On Apr 18
so you swear for her e come land for you!! grin sweet!!
and As for the Relationship part, Relationship is not meant for everybody. Don't beat yourself up.

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by larryking540: 11:01am On Apr 18
Naija147:
I dated a girl from 2006 till 2011, I helped her through school, she broke up with me 2 month to her final exams.

She started dating the guy she was rumored to be dating during our relationship, I felt betrayed and told her she will be used and dumped @35.

She got married to the same guy @35 and I got another heartbreak @35.

No relationship has worked for me since my last relationship, no girlfriend and I easily get bored when a girl stay too long in my house, some girls have told me I won’t get married because of my intolerance.

I have made peace with my ex and we are cool now, but relationship still doesn’t work for me.

Do I have a problem or what I wished her is coming back to me.

Advice pls

dating your age mate some times doesn't ends well , forgive and let go of your past man ,
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:02am On Apr 18
WorkDesQ:
If you want candid advice, ditch this thread. Create another one that highlights your highs and lows, work, financial ability, tolerance and intolerance, hobbies. And social life details and then ask how to work around these to build a relationship.. You won't get tangible honest helpful information which this content that demarcate you seriously. I advice you hurriedly take it down

Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by chatinent(m): 11:04am On Apr 18
Finally, bush meat don catch hunter.
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:05am On Apr 18
larryking540:


dating your age mate some times doesn't ends well , forgive and let go of your past man ,

She is even 2 yrs older than me
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by larryking540: 11:08am On Apr 18
Naija147:


She is even 2 yrs older than me
bro your case is critical ,ask an average lady or female if they will give a go ahead to their brother dating an older lady ,you will get a proper reply Bec they already know how the relationship is going to be ,my guy that lady is not only older than you with 2 years but 4 years mentally but physically it is 2years

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by larryking540: 11:09am On Apr 18
Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.
see my guy ,u need to compromise ,I no go lie ,if you no fit tolerate or ignore some things u can do on your own physically ,e go hard you o ,

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:11am On Apr 18
larryking540:

bro your case is critical ,as an average lady or female of they will give a go ahead to their brother dating an older lady ,you will get a proper reply Bec they already know how the relationship is going to be ,my guy that lady is not only older than you with 2 years but 4 years mentally but physically it is 2years

She is married with 2 kids now, me never even get person wey I dey discuss relationship with not to talk of marriage.
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by WorkDesQ: 11:15am On Apr 18
Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.



Then you're intolerant. You should learn to hide the things you hate that other people do and should give people the chance to come into your life and be useful


Relationship is meant for people to come in and fit into our lives even non romantic relationships.


Your psyche is damaged. That's where the adjustments needs to start from. If you change your thoughts, perspectives, give up your " RIGHT ", you'll be doing yourself alot of good


Do you think a woman with all the bad memories she suffered till age of marriage wants more drama? The energy we sow is what makes us attractive to people. If you sow peace and exude calmness and contentedness and patience and good will ladies should be chasing you


Last year over 12 ladies were having me everywhere. Top tier women o. Multinational women. Why? I exuded peace and radiated the atmosphere I stepped into with so much zing that in my absence everyone complains about it in our social gathering

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by larryking540: 11:16am On Apr 18
Naija147:


She is married with 2 kids now, me never even get person wey I dey discuss relationship with not to talk of marriage.
see there is age to school
there is age to make money
there is age to shoot shot

if you have pass tru the first 2 successfully ,no prob ,this is the age to shoot shot keep shooting ,and don't feel bad if a lady throws her shot at you ,it's normal ,we are all human ,some day quick fast forward while some are shy about it ,

just keep what shooting your shot ,and tolerate ,we all have different background growing up so some time yours was juicy while others had it rough ,
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by PrimeWatermark: 11:16am On Apr 18
Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.

Does your month of birth fall between June and July?
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Hayee(f): 11:17am On Apr 18
WorkDesQ:
If you want candid advice, ditch this thread. Create another one that highlights your highs and lows, work, financial ability, tolerance and intolerance, hobbies. And social life details and then ask how to work around these to build a relationship.. You won't get tangible honest helpful information which this content that demarcate you seriously. I advice you hurriedly take it down
Word!
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:17am On Apr 18
PrimeWatermark:


Does your month of birth fall between June and July?

August and she July
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:19am On Apr 18
larryking540:

see there is age to school
there is age to make money
there is age to shoot shot

if you have pass tru the first 2 successfully ,no prob ,this is the age to shoot shot keep shooting ,and don't feel bad if a lady throws her shot at you ,it's normal ,we are all human ,some day quick fast forward while some are shy about it ,

just keep what shooting your shot ,and tolerate ,we all have different background growing up so some time yours was juicy while others had it rough ,

Thanks bro
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by PrimeWatermark: 11:23am On Apr 18
Naija147:


August and she July

I see
Just try to work on yourself. It's gonna be very hard for any lady to break your defence. And then, learn to trust people, even if it's just little.

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by larryking540: 11:23am On Apr 18
Naija147:


Thanks bro

as you say shoot ,you go spend money sha oo,don't forget that aspect ,if the money part comes very very early it's always a big red flag for me ,I will just ask you straight am I paying for the love ,...25years above are most times ready ,bug below that age brother ,no waste your resources and time abeg

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:30am On Apr 18
larryking540:


as you say shoot ,you go spend money sha oo,don't forget that aspect ,if the money part comes very very early it's always a big red flag for me ,I will just ask you straight am I paying for the love ,...25years above are most times ready ,bug below that age brother ,no waste your resources and time abeg

Bro I sabi give well oo, but the thing be say before we see twice or talk for 2 months in the case of distant relationships I don tire
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:31am On Apr 18
PrimeWatermark:


I see
Just try to work on yourself. It's gonna be very hard for any lady to break your defence. And then, learn to trust people, even if it's just little.

Thanks sir God help me

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by AfroKnight: 11:33am On Apr 18
Your mind is playing tricks on you.

Your relationships don’t work because you are disenchanted by the concept of relationship. It appears you don’t have time for nonsense behaviour from women. Your taste has grown peculiar and that makes you quickly dismiss those who don’t possess certain qualities.

If you still want a relationship/marriage you should open up some more. Be more tolerant of women.

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by larryking540: 11:33am On Apr 18
Naija147:


Bro I sabi give well oo, but the thing be say before we see twice or talk for 2 months in the case of distant relationships I don tire

yeah , distance relationship no easy ,that's y u have to make time for each other ,if you con day where there is a time difference ,my brother you go value the one way day next state to you I swear ....create time , weekends are there travel over,you need to tolerate o

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by austine4real(m): 11:34am On Apr 18
It seems u are an introvert

Work on ursef first


Forget marriage now

Learn how to sustain a friendship/relationship that's how u will be able to build ur home.


Marriage no be moi moi

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:44am On Apr 18
AfroKnight:
Your mind is playing tricks on you.

Your relationships don’t work because you are disenchanted by the concept of relationship. It appears you don’t have time for nonsense behaviour from women. Your taste has grown peculiar and that makes you quickly dismiss those who don’t possess certain qualities.

If you still want a relationship/marriage you should open up some more. Be more tolerant of women.

You are right but how do I start loosening up? A girl once asked me what I do for fun I said lone distance drive, listening to news and reading then she said I can’t date an introvert.

I don’t party, I don’t club, I drink when I really want to, I don’t smoke, I don’t keep friends.

NB: I wasn’t like that growing up, I don’t know how it changed. I had friends though we still keep in touch once in a while because we are in different countries.

Honestly this thing is giving me serious concern
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by AfroKnight: 11:56am On Apr 18
Naija147:


You are right but how do I start loosening up? A girl once asked me what I do for fun I said lone distance drive, listening to news and reading then she said I can’t date an introvert.

I don’t party, I don’t club, I drink when I really want to, I don’t smoke, I don’t keep friends.

NB: I wasn’t like that growing up, I don’t know how it changed. I had friends though we still keep in touch once in a while because we are in different countries.

Honestly this thing is giving me serious concern

You just have to be more tolerant of women especially when they start their nonsense excesses. Just look the other way.

Also you may have to date multiple women at the same time to speed up your selection process. If you put all your eggs in one basket, Nigerian girls will surprise you.

Then go for mature women not these unserious under 26 babes who don’t have sense.

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 11:59am On Apr 18
AfroKnight:


You just have to be more tolerant of women especially when they start their nonsense excesses. Just look the other way.

Also you may have to date multiple women at the same time to speed up your selection process. If you put all your eggs in one basket, Nigerian girls will surprise you.

Then go for mature women not these unserious under 26 babes who don’t have sense.

Thanks bro, I’ll make do with your advice

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by AfroKnight: 12:03pm On Apr 18
Naija147:


Thanks bro, I’ll make do with your advice

All the best bro.

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Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by 1Alex: 12:28pm On Apr 18
Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.
you have to give up on all these things you mentioned to be able to keep a woman as it concerns marriage.
Re: I Said She Will Be Heartbroken At 35. by Naija147: 12:32pm On Apr 18
1Alex:
you have to give up on all these things you mentioned to be able to keep a woman as it concerns marriage.

Thanks bro I’m trying
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