@op, you need to loosen up, you are still hurting from what she did to you, living in self denial, let go of all the grudges else you'll still remain the way you are, you said you don't allow girls do this and that in your apartment, well thank God you've not met someone like me, cause I'll so frustrate you so that your so called principles would be thrown away through the window, that would loosen your uptightness, you better start opening your heart towards people, i hope you get the right girl that would be your better half, treat you right and be part of your healing process

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Thanks so much sister

Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.

These traits you noted and other similar ones are your problem.

As a man you must learn to overlook some things especially inconsequential stuffs. That's one of the ways you and your partners can feel comfortable together.

I mean why on earth will you drag a kitchen with a lady, even if you're the best chef in the world. I can't, and I won't.

Naija147:


Bro I sabi give well oo, but the thing be say before we see twice or talk for 2 months in the case of distant relationships I don tire

Same here ooh

Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.

With what you have explained you have obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Get help bro

ruzell86:


I mean why on earth will you drag a kitchen with a lady, even if you're the best chef in the world. I can't, and I won't.

This is wisdom thank you sir

Naija147:
I dated a girl from 2006 till 2011, I helped her through school, she broke up with me 2 month to her final exams.

She started dating the guy she was rumored to be dating during our relationship, I felt betrayed and told her she will be used and dumped @35.

She got married to the same guy @35 and I got another heartbreak @35.

No relationship has worked for me since my last relationship, no girlfriend and I easily get bored when a girl stay too long in my house, some girls have told me I won’t get married because of my intolerance.

I have made peace with my ex and we are cool now, but relationship still doesn’t work for me.

Do I have a problem or what I wished her is coming back to me.

Advice pls

You swear for person wey get dapada jazz. OYO is your case

Naija147:


Bro I don’t think there is much to talk about me, I’m an introvert, loving, caring and a good listener.

What they see as the bad side of me is really not bad for me, I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.

Typical of a Virgo; Perfectionist.

Karlifate:


Typical of a Virgo; Perfectionist.

Can you tell me more please ? That’s truly my zodiac sign

Girls after reading this

Naija147:


I don’t allow a woman cook for me cos I’m a good cook, I don’t allow a woman wash my clothes because I believe she won’t wash clean, if a woman uses my bathroom I go in almost immediately to clean the bathroom myself because I think she won’t clean as much as I would.

I hate to see strings of hair in my bathroom or bedroom.