Offpoint1:
As long as I'm not officially married... I'm a single guy and I don't need to prove to no one about being straight or gay.

If you think I'm gay cause I choose to be single, then let your girlfriend spend the night with me.. You'll get your curiosity satisfied.

Lol

EXLOVER:
I have been single for a year and some months now, all i do is now is i chat myself with two different whatsapp to tell myself lovely and romantic words.

Being single is fun, but boring at some point, but i prefer being single all my life than dating a broke bitch again.

Don't date broke girls especially nigerian girls they are useless.

Ferrous:
Well, that's a situation I'm into now. God will help us

same too, been single for a year now

Lol, I stay off-campus in school, a lot of my lodgemates keep wondering why I Don't bring girls to my room, upon how good-looking and comfortable I live in schooI . But dem no get the mind to confront me, dem neva born the person wey go come tell me that kind rubbish na, I overhead them gossiping about me in the staircase. and me sef I no kukuma send them,

makanma:
when I got admission, the first thing I promised myself was that I won't do student boyfriend and girlfriend......I always stay in my room.... visiting no one and no one visiting me...a rumour started circulating in my room that I'm a lesbian...well to cut the story short...I traveled home one holiday and met a very handsome hardworking guy....today amongst my roommates.... I'm the only married one.... please oo set your priorities right ...don't listen to side talks

Wow, Congrats.

Two weeks ago, one of my co-tenant asked me if I'm gay. He is a Pastor. l smile and said, no. He asked if he should look for a girl for me. l said, no.


From the way the discussion went, l think he wanted to hook me up with one of their sisters in Christ.

Lol. My uni days. I had no gf thru out my uni days. My guys wont let me breathe.

God go bless you my nigga...i no know your location I for spoil you with small enjoyment

MickzyDonald:
Who cares, if you impregnate her now all of them won't be there again

It's not good to allow peer pressure to ruin ur youthful life u can't accuse a guy who probably for religious reasons or for focusing on his goals in life decided to stay away from girls for the main time a gay?

brownemmanuel43:
I was in that situation years back.
Their was and is still my closest friend infact he is more than a brother to me back then, we did virtually every damn thing together. We hymned, we hand out, we played football together. The only difference then was that he's a bit taller than me, infact people do referred us a twins.
But their was a particular thing that we were opposite which was women, my guy was ladies man while I was totally opposite. It was so until rumor started flying up that I was a gay, that why is it that every time I'm always with guys that they never saw me with a woman before. Some even confronted me and told me about it.
Then, when I came to Lagos, it was the same thing. Even my current location is still the same rumor that ever since I packed in that no woman has ever visited me before and the irony of all the drama is that I'm extrovert to the core and also a joker.
Such is life, waiting man pikin go do.
Life as a single guy sweet die, to me I see lonely guys as
1. Introvert
2. Broke guys
I only feel lonely when I'm broke but if I'm damn bouyant mehnnnnnnn na to dey chop life dey go bi that. Even if I'm broke niggars will always like me to hang out bcs i make it rain whenever I'm with niggars but with bitches I gat nothing to say

things will change this year

The Person And The People That Responded By " Are You Gay"? Accusations By Inviting A Girl Or Sleeping With A Girl Are Bunch Of Less Than 25yrs Old Individuals. When You Hit 30Yrs And Above, What People Think About You Won't Even Matter To You Anymore. How Do I Get A Job? How Do I Pay My Bills? All My Colleagues And Neighbors Are Doing Well And Not Me ? How Do I Invest My Money, Will Be The Only Thing You Will Be Thinking. By The Way.. Having Sex With A Woman Doesn't Prove That You Are Not Gay. Even Marriage Doesn't Prove Anything.
If You Are Gay, You Are Gay. If You Are Not, You Are Not.
So, Young Fellows, Relax. Reality Will Soon Come Knocking.

21savages:
same too, been single for a year now

Mine is even more than a year. Sometimes, people feel as if, I can't approach a woman

22 years, never get a G.F
My friends really trolls but I don't give a damn
Because I'm not a p**y ass Niggarrr

Xenry:
Good day to y'all!
Quick question, have you ever been single for so long that your hommies starts to wonder if you are gay, then you decided to prove them wrong by inviting a girl over?
Lol, share your experience.
For me, I haven't, but I know a guy who has been in that situation before, and when the trolling becomes too much, he decides to prove us wrong by inviting a girl over. Let's hear from you!
The meme below will help you to understand this thread more!

I have been called gay plenty of times, even on Nairaland (because I opened a thread about why being gay is not a choice, scientifically proven), but I don't care, if I am gay, I should at least bring the guy home too, so if I am alone how does that make me gay.

The kind of things people worry about this days amazes me, my Aunt will say, this one you are cooking like woman, will you marry so? I just feel that is what happens when there is nothing bad they can counsel you about, you have no bad habit, so they try to invent something, and then make it a very big deal, same with mom, "did you go to church?" and then big deal about it, madam, some mom bail their children from police custody almost every other weekend, they go out cause trouble and you will have to call family meeting to resolve some of it, and you will make little thing a big deal.

When there is nothing to complain they make something up, that is why I want to learn to drink, at least, they will have a vice to complain of.

U don't have to prove anything to morons. Stop communicating with them.

DrDax:


It's human nature to be curious when you are different.

But if your reasons for not interacting are because "you are slightly shy" or "you don't want disrespect for area", I promise you,

YOU WILL REGRET opportunities not taken.

My 10 cent sha.

This is so ridiculous, this is the argument they always come up with, OPPORTUITIES not taken, ladies are not some kind of gods or trophy, they are human, there is nothing special about sleeping with one, except the thrill that you get when you take something that doesn't necessarily belongs to you.

I learnt something growing up as a shy person, nobody can make you happy, you are either happy or you are not, if you think the presence of a lady will make your life worthwhile then you don't really have a life.

And finally there is a bunch of pretty ladies out there, the rush to catch a lady because she's the prettiest girl in your street is just stupid. Everything looks good is tight jeans or clothes, until you remove the covering that you know, this is just a load of crap.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


Lol, so funny !
I remember when we were coming back from a shoot and I was just telling the director, that I don't find ladies attractive anymore. I told him I can crush on her and the next month am crushing on another one, NB, I don't ask the girls out neither will i strike a convo. He was like you will be label as gay soon. The moment he mention that, I was like what ? very irritating stuff. I told my self that I will get one bea, even it's not for relationship purpose, just friends sake !



To be honest, I got a bea and finally we were dating, to cut the story short, it ended.
We moveee, Guys dont make ladies your priority!!


���
Example of girls that should never be your priority.
E pain her

Enjoy your likes


Cheers

Gays marry too, to please the society

BBBells:
They said MOSES was a magician


MOHAMMED PBUH was a mad man

and that GOD Himself doesnt exist


so what else did you expect people to say about you wey you no fit holy like them.


PEOPLE AND THEIR MOUTHS

mouths they use to smoke cigarette, weed, eat , suck toto,

so can anything good come from their mouths?

bro you geh sense

Eh! Not gay, they will only think maybe you are an 'impotent' not gay. Gay is not our culture.

ikillbrokegirls:

Don't date broke girls especially nigerian girls they are useless.

Very Very

Cringe... grown men gossiping like ladies about being single ... yuck, Beta vibes

sparko1:


This is so ridiculous, this is the argument they always come up with, OPPORTUITIES not taken, ladies are not some kind of gods or trophy, they are human, there is nothing special about sleeping with one, except the thrill that you get when you take something that doesn't necessarily belongs to you.

I learnt something growing up as a shy person, nobody can make you happy, you are either happy or you are not, if you think the presence of a lady will make your life worthwhile then you don't really have a life.

And finally there is a bunch of pretty ladies out there, the rush to catch a lady because she's the prettiest girl in your street is just stupid. Everything looks good is tight jeans or clothes, until you remove the covering that you know, this is just a load of crap.

So it's because you are shy. That's okay.

Your response is too loud. Me thinks you're protesting too much.

Nobody says you should bed all the ladies in your area.
Flirt with them, get to know them. Don't be stand-off-ish.

Social skills is an important component in building a complete man.

Don't brainwash yourself into thinking you know the opposite sex.

Don't be that awkward man when it's finally time to open up to the woman you love.

Many have lost their LOML to childish shyness disguised under morality and religion.

I see lots of socially awkward 30 year olds and I just shake my head.

The major reason many of you throw money at women to get their attention.

Okay, after getting that attention, what next? Crickets.

Don't be that boring person.

PS: Practice makes perfect.

Onebaddest01:
God go bless you my nigga...i no know your location I for spoil you with small enjoyment

i won't mind if you send the little

No

Blesyn22:




True talk


BTW I need a hookup within the age range of 20 to 23 living or working in Ogbomoso or its environment. Serious relationship intended

��� Guy just stay outside your house or go Brent for mosho you go see babe you go tire Na you di** go pain

DMCY:


Follow dem lautech babes roll na

If he get money na them sure pass for this world

kalu61:
Two weeks ago, one of my co-tenant asked me if I'm gay. He is a Pastor. l smile and said, no. He asked if he should look for a girl for me. l said, no.


From the way the discussion went, l think he wanted to hook me up with one of their sisters in Christ.

You should have answered him yes and ended it with a "fvuck you pastor"

What is his business with your sexual orientation
Does sexual orientation put food on the table.

IbrahimSkiba:




Enjoy your likes


Cheers

Lol !
Likes??
That sounds chidish coming from a big girl like you. The only thing that comes to your mind is likes?

Forget likes, I can't never make a lady my priority till I marry her .

DrDax:


So it's because you are shy. That's okay.

Your response is too loud. Me thinks you're protesting too much.

Nobody says you should bed all the ladies in your area.
Flirt with them, get to know them. Don't be stand-off-ish.

Social skills is an important component in building a complete man.

Don't brainwash yourself into thinking you know the opposite sex.

Don't be that awkward man when it's finally time to open up to the woman you love.

Many have lost their LOML to childish shyness disguised under morality and religion.

I see lots of socially awkward 30 year olds and I just shake my head.

The major reason many of you throw money at women to get their attention.

Okay, after getting that attention, what next? Crickets.

Don't be that boring person.

PS: Practice makes perfect.

Firstly, there's no LOML, as far as I am concerned, love doesn't exist.

Guys like you are the ones that requires validation from ladies hence the throwing money to get approval and to keep up the fake standard you have set up for yourself.

90% of Nigeria ladies can hardly keep up with intellectual discussion, so you resolve to discussing irrelevant and mindless conversation with you refer to as social conversation, I can talk to ladies fine, I just don't waste my time trying to make a conversation with every lady I see, if you call that social awkwardness, that is your opinion.

The mistake you make is, shy guys make better husband, ladies prefer them for their intellectual and listening capabilities. Note by ladies, I don't mean those teenager you run around with, I mean mature ladies that are ready to settle down.

Selah!

Dey are not serious. most of them are childish