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| How Can I Quit by Dexlomo(op): 9:57pm On Jul 10, 2007 |
Can someone please help me. It all started with my neighbour back then in Secondary school. He lured me into having sex with me and since then whenever I see a male, my dick rises especially if I can view the dick form the trouser. I want to believe I am not a full gay because I like girls and besides, I do not like the gay sex. However, my major problem is that I have a small dick about 6" when on. There is a girl I am dying for and yet I cant open up to tell her because I feel insecured about my penile size and that is what is making me remain in this funny gay mood. Please how can I quit being gay? Please, I need good responses and not curses. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by PTBNaija(f): 10:10pm On Jul 10, 2007 |
I thought you said you are not gay? Are you insecure about size, or you think you're gay? You don't seem gay because you said you don't enjoy gay sex, and you are aroused by females, so I am a little confused on why you think you are gay. And why does size matter? If she likes you, she'll like you for you. You shouldn't assume things about the girl that you might ask out. And besides, she might not even want to have sex. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by bri: 1:10pm On Jul 11, 2007 |
hi to u dexlomo my advice is do not rush things, just allow things to flow naturally. talking about the gay issue! gay is like an illness if not treated well it results into something else. u just v to take a deep breath and decide what u want in life. it all depends on ur destiny and decisions. i v a friend who once told me about been gay, i asked him if he wanted it, he said he loves it becos he doesn´t love female type and don´t want to be treated anyhow. so i told him to take a try in the world of women, if he does´nt like it he continue; the girl he finally met gave his life a turn around and today they are both married. So my lovely brother dexlomo, love is not all about having small penis or what size it is but it comes all the way naturally and nothing can stop a natural love. If u think or u know u love his girl be bold and approach her b4 it gets to late. i bet u, u wont regret doing it. and u will finally be free from the depression of been a gay or not. , ONE LOVE BROTHER!!!!!!!! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by arianne(f): 1:44pm On Jul 11, 2007 |
@poster: u are soooooooooooooooo gay like yesterday! and i think ur looking for some logical explanation to your situation becos honestly size has nothing to do with gay vibes (we all have our insecurities). i guess your past has really messed up and ur now trying a reverse therapy, did u still indulge in that lifestyle or is that one xperience that altered your natural config? as for the girl u are dying for, ask urself if its for real or ur trying to straighten up, cos ur door can't swing both ways. check urself bro and seek counsellling and prayers |
| Re: How Can I Quit by iice(f): 3:27pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
Wonders shall never end! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by 2dye4(m): 3:45pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
@poster: really shocking! u have gone to a place no man should eva go and u think ur life will be the same? lai lai. i think i dentifying that you have a problem is a step in the right direction but u need to get some truths rite: - your door cannot swing both ways, ur either gay or not. - your urge for men has nothing to do with d size of ur manhood. - suddenly trying to hang out with a chic won't transform u. proposed way forward: - drop that lifestyle, its abominable - do some soul searching as to why u feel this urge (what u xpose urself to) - serious prayers and cleansing - counselling P.S: dont drag any innocent chic into this ur wahala o! else she will castrate u 4life. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by PHBABE(f): 5:21am On Jul 13, 2007 |
My advice is that u realize that its not size that matters all the time. some gals have confessed that it depends on how well a guy can use his magic wand that counts. some guys have it big but cant use it well. But for now, 4get about sex till u r married. Plus, go to church and pray to God to renew ur mind byt changing the way u think. one love! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by k0be: 5:26am On Jul 13, 2007 |
Can someone please help me.what the Bleep you silly gay. Don't you know Dicks are for chicks. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by busygal(f): 3:03pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
@ Kobe which one is Bleep and SILLY gay! Its people like u that discourages people from sharing their problems with people that could end up helping them. I GUESS HE REALISED THAT WHAT HIS DOING IS WRONG, THAT IS WHY IS CALLING FOR HELP. so plz spare us kobe! and stop this holier than thou attitude. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by 2dye4(m): 4:43pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
busygal: |
| Re: How Can I Quit by Gamine(f): 4:48pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
LOL Only God can help u!!! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by ikamefa(f): 4:49pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
@ topic you are prolly bisexual  |
| Re: How Can I Quit by 2dye4(m): 5:00pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
@Ika:do u really believe that? because i don't. its either white or black, no grey! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by Gamine(f): 5:03pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
No one is Gay Bisexual or wateva they r just pple tryin to get their own vile ways |
| Re: How Can I Quit by 2dye4(m): 5:55pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
Gamine:unique theory, pls explain. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by Gamine(f): 6:22pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
Wats unique abt pple commiting sins and fighting to get away wiv it Someone who lie- A Liar someone who steals- A Thief somone who engages in homosexual activities- A Gay Finish! but i dont see pple who tell lies fighting to have rights!! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by texazzpete(m): 6:27pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
now you're preaching again, sissy girl  as for gay people, like i always say, to each his own! |
| Re: How Can I Quit by osereka(m): 6:39pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
men! u no no wat u are missing by thinking gay. ha! with all the beautifal babes and big boobs in town, those guys wey be gay are kolo mental if u dont know. omo notin like sucking booobs o! I MEAN BIG BOOBS |
| Re: How Can I Quit by Joey82(m): 6:44pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
Gamine:Gamine, U said this and Gamine:So why are u contradicting urself |
| Re: How Can I Quit by k0be: 1:30am On Jul 14, 2007 |
@ Kobeyou are mad. you should have pressed fast forward if you didn't like the response. what exactly have you said now to help him. |
| Re: How Can I Quit by 2dye4(m): 11:52am On Jul 14, 2007 |
@Gamine: i'll excuse ur contradiction, but the guy aint asking for his rights to be acknowledged, he says he wants to stop. @kobe: language! also what u posted was damaging rather than helpful. |
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