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This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 5:43pm On Apr 28, 2021
Real Life Experience That you should learn from

Am here to share with you all what I experienced some years back that actually got me trapped into a net that refrained me from various life pleasing opportunities.

It's not a fallacy....All the things I will give a snappy run down on are the things that affected me in particular and is also affecting many guys today.

It all started in 2013 when I finished my secondary school.

One faithful morning,I was the only one at home....as I was glancing through some posts online...I decided to download some games.

I typed in the name of the game I want to download and I was redirected to a particular site...As I was scrolling up..An advert popped up and It was very 3rotic in nature....it captured my attention...I tried to resist it but ended up clicking on it...I was taken to the site..from there I downloaded stuffs that lead me into masturbating at the end of the day.

This particular act lingered for so many years in my life....I tried avoiding it...but the urge kept on coming....from 2013-2018...I was living in it.

It took hold of me completely that even thoo I was born into a christian family that nutures her offsprings with the word of God...I do present myself each and every altar call made in the church.

The bond was too much for me that I nearly strapped off my genitals...I became prone to it that I always engage myself in it daily....it wasn't an easy road for me.

I started looking for solutions....I read many articles online.

Some do backup masturbation while some will give hints on its side effects...I started to see the negative impacts in my life when I became of age..Back Then;

➡️ I do have backaches
➡️ alzheimer issues thrived much in my life
➡️ My life moved in the wrong direction as everything I do think of is always s*x based.

I came across a video on youtube of a man that gave a full testimony of how he got of from the net if masturbation..I was inspired by it.

I took it upon myself to follow his path...I started looking for solutions within myself.

Day 1-7 trial wasn't easy for me as the urge do come per minute whenever am alone...but I found a way out...I engaged Myself in some extracurricular activities that even helped made me what I am today...I applied as an apprentice in a mechanical workshop near my house.... after everyday's work... I will go home and will be very tired to even chat or think about any other thing.

As I was growing up into a full fleshed man..I had encounters with many married people...Many married women have actually opened up to me about their husband's inability to satisfy them...many said that their husband can't last up to 3-minutes.

I was filled with fear when I read an article online that gave a hint on how masturbation can make One Impotent and less effective via bed matters.

Many things started going through my mind...what if I end up becoming Impotent as I have mastrubated more than 5 years with just 2 days off interval.

I started looking for solutions on how to reinforce myself for the task ahead...I got intouch with my friends that are health practitioners...They gave me a list of the things that I need to be taking so as to enhance my sexual wellness so that it won't affect my marriage as wife do nag and complain about my weakness.

Now let me ask you all this...does satisfaction matter most in marriages?
Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 5:53pm On Apr 28, 2021
Quick Question

As a young guy....before you started masturbating....you do last long on bed right?

Have you ever bothered to ask yourself why you can hardly last up to 15 minutes since you started masturbating unless you take all these over-the-counter sexual enhancers like Tramadol,Viagra and co ?
Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 6:10pm On Apr 28, 2021
Based On A Verified Research conducted recently

It was Confirmed and deduced that 75% of Marriages/Relationships crash or have alot of issues due to the fact that many men are incompetence..

Many of the men out here today cannot last more than 5 minutes...this inturn have caused Infidelity on the part of women as they tend to explore more outside their matrimonial homes.

Masturbation and Over-the-counter drugs or enhancers causes Premature ejaculation and Watery sperm
Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Pierocash(m): 6:28pm On Apr 28, 2021
I can disagree with anyone that masturbation does not cause impotence,neither does it cause quick ejaculation. All the side effect they do talk about ,I don't feel any of them. In bed,my fiancee do cry and complain that I am too sexually active ,and too energetic...

The only reason I have been trying to stop masturbation is because I believe it is a sin,and grieves the Holy Spirit.

Any other reason they are giving,are all lies. I have been in it for 17 yrs,and I am doing just fine.

Note: if you don't eat good food,and exercise well, masturbation will have a side effect on you. You will lose weight, always exhausted,and will have weak erection.

Aside these,if you eat good food,and exercise well,it has no effect
Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 3:37pm On May 03, 2021
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Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 4:00pm On Jun 23, 2021
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Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 11:08am On Jun 25, 2021
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Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 8:13am On Jun 28, 2021
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Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 4:07pm On Jun 29, 2021
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Re: This Particular Thing Affects Marriages (one Of The Reasons Most People Cheat) by Nuelito: 9:58am On Jul 04, 2021
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