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Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Vinnie2000(m): 11:12pm On May 07
Please, I did not create this Thread to Bash our Ladies!!
Just being Curious on the reason behind dis Trait I observed!..


TRUE STORY!!
A Female friend of Mine who is a 400level student in one of our Southern Universities got into some Academic trouble recently!!

She Called Me+Other Guys( Chykers, Male friends, Uncle's, Admirers, etc) to save her!!( She personally told me dis)..

She needed N80,000 to sort herself out in some Results Issues which might lead to carry-over and extension!! She said her Mom n sister were also running around to@least give her something in addition to wat d Guys would give!!

Due to her sad situation, I managed to squeeze out N5000 to give her!!@Least let others add dier own!!

Then, she called saying Thank you n dat I tried alongside one or two other Guys+ her Mum who also sent sth big!! Dat she has gotten N65000..Dat she needs more N15000 to complete d Money!! Dat let me Try nah..

I now asked, "How about your Best Friend, Sandra?, Tell her to lend you N10,000 n get N5K from anywhere to complete the money!!

She now said in dis words which I Find Funny "SANDRA DOES NOT HAVE MONEY, SHE SAYS SHE IS BROKE N REALLY, SHE IS"..
Yet dis Sandra is my Facebook friend n Posts Sexy pictures almost every now and Then.. Showing Off Expensive clothes n Bags n Going on Dates!! Her Bank Account balance is Likely Bigger Dan mine!!

So, I Wondered, So You Ran to Ur Mother, Sister, Male Friends for Financial assistance n LET UR BEST FRIEND OFF D HOOK??

What is d Use of Having a Best Friend if d Person can't Help you out in Trying Times?? Always Posting somebody on Facebook/WhatsApp with Captions such as 'My love, My lady boo, My Female Crush',etc but d Person does NOTHING@all wen you re Financially down and It is Very much, ok??!

So Am asking, Particularly to d Females reading, Do you Really assist ur Friends Financially?? Have u given/lent your Best friend money B4??
If No, What re d Reasons!! Let us know..There is always something to Learn in Life!!
Thank you!!

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Ussycool(m): 11:18pm On May 07
YES! They do help.
I have a cousin sis that schooled at Al-Hikmah Uni. During her days at school, precisely 2018 she helped her friend with 50k to pay her school fees. We ran background investigation and it was true.
And i have seen alot of help from ladies to ladies, they are more emotional than men.

May be that your particular girl is also stingy. Karma never sleep

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by poshestmina(f): 11:23pm On May 07
YES!!!
I have helped friends financially and vice versa.
Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Vinnie2000(m): 3:57am On May 08
Ussycool:
YES! They do help.
I have a cousin sis that schooled at Al-Hikmah Uni. During her days at school, precisely 2018 she helped her friend with 50k to pay her school fees. We ran background investigation and it was true.
And i have seen alot of help from ladies to ladies, they are more emotional than men.

May be that your particular girl is also stingy. Karma never sleep


Wow!! Dats nice!!
because what my Female friend did got me wondering whether it is a common/normal practice among Ladies..
Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Vinnie2000(m): 4:01am On May 08
poshestmina:
YES!!!
I have helped friends financially and vice versa.


Wow, Dis is Interesting!!
Are you a Nigerian??
So All of d Assistance you mentioned happened here??
Just asking..
Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Kiddogarcia(m): 4:36am On May 08
They do help each other tho,it is something I have witness first-hand, but na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement tho
Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by TheUndercover: 5:02am On May 08
In most cases, the male figures in their lives render them help. Women are very stingy when it comes to money. They might not be inclined to help if they don't have something to gain from it and they might insult you with it when things go wrong.

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Bola146(f): 9:13am On May 08
Hummmm... Some ladies are lucky while some are not. I don't have female friends from my onset maybe because my siblings are male. I'm not just lucky with female friends, they always betrayed me. Till now, I don't have two female friends, all my friends are male.

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Michelle55: 9:25am On May 08
Yes.. I do give when I have irrespective of the gender involved as long as I have the money, giving isn't an issue.

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by SmellySperm(m): 9:32am On May 08
Yes they do but the whole world always gets to hear of it when they beef each other..

Ameborssssssssss

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Vinnie2000(m): 11:24am On May 08
Bola146:
Hummmm... Some ladies are lucky while some are not. I don't have female friends from my onset maybe because my siblings are male. I'm not just lucky with female friends, they always betrayed me. Till now, I don't have two female friends, all my friends are male.


Aha!! Heard this one B4 too!! Girls who hate to have female friends!!..
There was a Topic about 'Male Bestie' issue on a Warri Radio Station (Crown FM) I listened to!! One female caller said she does not have a SINGLE female friend!!!
Dat wen she ran into a Business Crisis, her friends abandoned her, despite some Having very Rich Husbands!!
Said her Brothers n dier friends contributed d money to help out!! Dats wen she called off Female Friendships!!
Stories like dis is part of d reason I created d Topic!!
In my Female friend's case, She didn't even ask her Bestie!! She left her to CHILL while Taxing Others heavily!! Dat was my surprise!!

Added: All d same, Will still advise that You have more Female Friends!! They can help you with some info(maybe about pregnancy, motherhood, fashion, etc) that we Guys can't give!!
Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by blazepascal(m): 11:27am On May 08
Hard to say but issorite
Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by FalseProphet1(m): 5:16pm On Jun 02
Sandra her best friend is truly broke, truth is most girls live a fake lifestyle.

They pose with clothes, shoes, handbags, wigs... etc, that don't belong to them. When I was schooling, I've seen girls who will borrow wig from their fellow girls to snap studio pics and upload on Facebook, some will display expensive clothes, wristwatch, handbags... etc, with a tag that goes thus "I thank God for the kind of woman I'm becoming" and many other ridiculous captions.

It's all a game to fool their male admirers into believing that they're from Rich homes so they can bill them heavily and compel them to buy them expensive stuffs.

This I have seen.

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by Cholls(m): 5:26pm On Jun 02
poshestmina:
YES!!!
I have helped friends financially and vice versa.
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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by iamyemiakins(m): 5:46pm On Jun 02
The future is female!

But when their fellow female friends needs help from them

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Re: Do Ladies Assist Their Friends Financially During Hard Times?? by debbydams(f): 9:34pm On Jun 02
Sure..

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