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Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Karleb(m): 4:38pm On May 16, 2021 |
CharisEleos: All of you are like that until you land in Canada then you forget your home training. 4 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 4:39pm On May 16, 2021 |
Twoclans:Your second paragraph is understood. But what stops her from initiating divorce as we dey talk now now ehn? he would still lose a lot, shey u know. He is completely at her mercy. Anyways, unless he has no other option sha. Your last paragraph had me guffawing. My love my love, money is not everything o. Shebi u go sha gimme food or na hunger galore? 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 4:41pm On May 16, 2021 |
CharisEleos:Your second paragraph is subject to debate. Back in the olden days, young men marry based on recommendations from parents and such o... |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Twoclans(f): 4:42pm On May 16, 2021 |
luminouz: LOL I will give you food.It is never a good thing to starve a fellow human being just because you have more money than the person. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Nobody: 5:20pm On May 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:FRANKLY speaking that woman never loved him. That's means my wife is a rare gem. You don't know what you have until you lose it. I had about 3M when I was marrying my wife. After marriage she personally gave me 7M to support the project I was doing back home. Although she's based in the States. I joined her few years ago. Despite joining her, her character hasn't changed for one bit, she keeps performing wonders. She clears bills without any altercation. Although I give full scale support now. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Nobody: 5:21pm On May 16, 2021 |
luminouz: You said back in the day. Not anymore. Karleb: Don't generalize. Everybody is not the same. I will never do such to someone I love and agreed to spend the rest of my life with. |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 5:26pm On May 16, 2021 |
CharisEleos: Awwwwwn...so you are a good geh abi? Yinmu |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Nobody: 5:26pm On May 16, 2021 |
Karleb:Abroad based LADIES who visit Nigeria to marry Men have better prognosis in marriage when compared to MEN who visit Nigeria to marry Home based Ladies. I was home based before my wife married me. Most of my Nigerian men who came in like me are still married to their wives, although a few had issues and parted. Most Ladies find it difficult managing sudden Freedom and wealth. 7 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 5:27pm On May 16, 2021 |
Twoclans:Thanks darling.... If you can give the man food and understanding, trust me, such a man won't rest on his oars till he becomes successful as before. And guess who he will trust more than before? YOU!!! |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 5:28pm On May 16, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: Does your wife have an unmarried younger sister abroad? I'm available for pickup biko |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Nobody: 5:35pm On May 16, 2021 |
luminouz:She has but my wife & I wouldn't recommend her to you, for her madness knows no bounds. She has gone haywire. She can run her mouth on your entire family just like the Black Americans. Although I believe she can still be revived if the right man clinches her. 4 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by pocohantas(f): 5:41pm On May 16, 2021 |
Twoclans: Hmmm. You want him to die of depression or high BP? 6 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 5:46pm On May 16, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: I'm the right man, bro. Verbally abusive? Lmaooooo... I eat girls like that for a living na. Have you seen where girl go abuse you and after she finish, you just let some farts rip and watch as she flees from you? I'm fuqin crazy that way. Anyways, I'm just clowning with the visa stuff. Anyone man or woman who wants to help me is free to do so. I'm too old to be lying to a woman about marriage so I can get visa Biko. |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Bodyodour: 5:52pm On May 16, 2021 |
QorQe:@sokkatua, run for your life,na like this dem go finish you kpatakpata if care is not taken. And any spirit telling you to come back,let it die immediately. Pick up yourself and continue in Canada. 6 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by UDUJ(m): 5:52pm On May 16, 2021 |
Stories like these makes me happy being single. Na wah 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 5:53pm On May 16, 2021 |
UDUJ:You better goan marry, old pumper!!! |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by UDUJ(m): 5:55pm On May 16, 2021 |
luminouz: Hahhahhahahha Lumi the pressure from parents and the ladies is heating up everyday but I am not ready to give up my peaceful and happy single life yet 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 5:58pm On May 16, 2021 |
UDUJ: Lol...I can imagine. Take your time and be sure bro. Marriage is no child's play Biko 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by QorQe: 6:13pm On May 16, 2021 |
Bodyodour: Smiles. I run an enterprise of my own and my annual returns in nine digits Envy will kill you lots. What's my own with helping anyone. Mtcheew |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by crackhaus: 6:25pm On May 16, 2021 |
sokkatua:That right there is the only problem I can detect in your marriage. You tolerated too much, and women will always be women – give them an inch, best believe they're gonna take a mile. The moment she started doing things you didn't like was the moment you should have acted by calling her out on them. She would have tried to gaslight you by calling you names such as "insecure", "immature", "too jealous"... she may have even gone as far as comparing you with other men who act more manly than you do (in her opinion) because they don't complain too much. The point is, you allowed her get away with a lot because you were trying to be the calm mature husband. Tolerating a woman's bad behaviour will never get you anywhere with her – it won't make her love you more, it won't make her stop misbehaving either... what it simply does is make her bolder. And look where bottling up all those negative emotions got you – a three-day jailcation. I suggest you let that woman be – she may even be right and that child you share with her is truly not yours, you never really know with these women. You don't need to go back to Nigeria either... but out of curiosity, what exactly is your reason for considering such a move? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Optimistdude: 6:29pm On May 16, 2021 |
sokkatua:Guy, contact @toyosigodwin on Twitter |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by sisisioge: 6:32pm On May 16, 2021 |
Wow! Please be careful who you connect with to help hook you up. The 25k usd you mentioned makes you an easy target for swindlers o. Meanwhile, may God help your situation. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by irijuola: 6:37pm On May 16, 2021 |
sokkatua: I hope help locate you soon. Be careful of scammers who hide under the guise of helpers. Be very careful so you don't lose the $25K to scammers. Think wisely. Personally, I'll advise you to stay in Canada, maybe change province. Pick yourself up and turn your lemon into lemonade |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Twelfthman: 6:38pm On May 16, 2021 |
Pathetic |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by brownemmanuel43(m): 6:41pm On May 16, 2021 |
UDUJ:My brother no bi only u ohhhhhh, things I do see and hear scare the shot out of me Marriage wahala mehnnnnnn I might end up killing person pikin that's why is not in my agenda at all |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by OyinNurse(f): 7:09pm On May 16, 2021 |
sokkatua: Haaaaa! This narrative gave me goosebumps. As a woman I cannot even imagine a married woman having the boldness to make declarations of love to another man in the presence of her husband. She no dey fear? If she no fear her husband, she for fear his 'eleda'. What she did will provoke any man, with blood in his veins BUT at the same time there is absolutely, irrevocably, and zero percent excuse for domestic violence so, Oga, you no try at all. I cannot speculate as to whether she ever loved you but from this story it is obvious that she does not currently love you. Most women cannot love a man they do not respect and she no longer has respect for you. Marriage is a mystery so nobody here can tell you wether or not to divorce her but I will advice you to separate from her for now, until tempers calm down for the sake of sanctity and safety. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Richy4(m): 7:48pm On May 16, 2021 |
Before relocating to Nigeria, You should ask questions first.....You should relocate to another province in Canada if u don't want to see her again or if you were allergic to the air she might have exhaled in that Province.. Haba!!!! Back to Nigeria? who gave you this kind of idea?.... If you don't have a connection in Nigeria to help facilitate a job for you in a fast pace, you may die of depression thereooo..... You are better off in that Canadian province that speaks only French instead of going back to Nigeria.. at least with the language barrier you will be nodding your head and smiling sheepishly while you have something doing... This story just made me sad after my earlier happiness of Liverpool and Westbrom match |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by GboyegaD(m): 7:55pm On May 16, 2021 |
sokkatua: What province are you? Move out of province, request paternity test for your daughter and pay child support if she's yours. You necessarily need not stress yourself and leave because of this. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by GboyegaD(m): 7:59pm On May 16, 2021 |
luminouz: She just came in 2019 so she isn't done with her licensure. Even at that, is that a sufficient reason to cheat? Apparently, he didn't see the writing on the wall early enough. |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 8:05pm On May 16, 2021 |
GboyegaD:Yeah... No sane doctor would leave her husband over job loss alone. |
Re: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by luminouz(m): 8:07pm On May 16, 2021 |
GboyegaD:If you dey canada, link up with that bro and help save his mental life. Unless the story as usual here,is a fuqin fake N.B: See what I learned from his past posts below sokkatua: This na why i never bring my wife to Canada, no come put sand for my garriThis is your post of 2020.... Yet in your new story, you said you brought her to Canada in 2019. Which kain confusion be this na? 2 Likes |
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