Chrizoby:
The worst that happened was when a new shirt she bought for me on my birthday,which she knew I hv not worn for one day,she saw the shirt on my brother. And the truth is that my brother didn't even ask me before putting on that shirt. Pls house, is it proper or not?

Chrizoby:
Back to the case this 2022. I'm happily married now and my younger brother is still with us. But that entitlement mentality is yet to stopped by him. I hv called him severally to talk to him about some of the things he was doing when I was still dating my wife,that he is still doing even now we re married. And he doesn't want to change.

Chrizoby:
He doesn't like being served food. He prefers to dish out food for himself after my wife's cooking. He doesn't wash plates after using them,knowing too well that my wife n I are not always at home because of the nature of our jobs. He will leave everything unwashed till we come back n do the cleaning. He will be comfortable seeing us doing chores he was supposed to do and he is always at home.

Chrizoby:
Back to the sharing of clothings. That hasn't stopped now that i' m even married before people will come with their SIMP stuff. My wife has been complaining that at least a line should be drawn on that. What I did was to dash him all my clothes he loves sharing with me. Yet he still put on my new collections without asking. Remember he doesn't lack cloths of his own in the first place.

Chrizoby:
The most annoying part now is that my foot wears re not even exempted. Knowing too well that he is size 44 and i'm 43. He will remove the inside soles of my shoes so that he will be comfortable wearing them. He has uncountable shoes and he normally buys his accurate sizes. This last Sunday, the particular shoes I hv in mind to wear to church. I went to clean and to polish them and discovered he went to 6am mass with that shoe. I discovered he removed the inside soles as well. I was so hurt n my wife was so annoyed and wanted to confront him herself. Though I stopped her and when he came back from church and brought the matter to him. His only response was that he didn't know I want to wear the same shoes. I practically brought out all his shoes and him what happened with them. He became mute n silent.

Chrizoby:
I m careful here because of one thing. And that is my wife. Any action I take now,people will misconstrue it that my wife is the problem. That see someone living comfortably with his brother, he married n pursued his brother from his house because of his wife.

Chrizoby:
You can see what some nairalanders commented when I first raised this issue

Chrizoby:
The most annoying part now is that my foot wears re not even exempted. Knowing too well that he is size 44 and i'm 43. He will remove the inside soles of my shoes so that he will be comfortable wearing them. He has uncountable shoes and he normally buys his accurate sizes. This last Sunday, the particular shoes I hv in mind to wear to church. I went to clean and to polish them and discovered he went to 6am mass with that shoe. I discovered he removed the inside soles as well. I was so hurt n my wife was so annoyed and wanted to confront him herself. Though I stopped her and when he came back from church and brought the matter to him. His only response was that he didn't know I want to wear the same shoes. I practically brought out all his shoes and him what happened with them. He became mute n silent.

Chrizoby:
The most annoying part now is that my foot wears re not even exempted. Knowing too well that he is size 44 and i'm 43. He will remove the inside soles of my shoes so that he will be comfortable wearing them. He has uncountable shoes and he normally buys his accurate sizes. This last Sunday, the particular shoes I hv in mind to wear to church. I went to clean and to polish them and discovered he went to 6am mass with that shoe. I discovered he removed the inside soles as well. I was so hurt n my wife was so annoyed and wanted to confront him herself. Though I stopped her and when he came back from church and brought the matter to him. His only response was that he didn't know I want to wear the same shoes. I practically brought out all his shoes and him what happened with them. He became mute n silent.

Chrizoby:
The most annoying part now is that my foot wears re not even exempted. Knowing too well that he is size 44 and i'm 43. He will remove the inside soles of my shoes so that he will be comfortable wearing them. He has uncountable shoes and he normally buys his accurate sizes. This last Sunday, the particular shoes I hv in mind to wear to church. I went to clean and to polish them and discovered he went to 6am mass with that shoe. I discovered he removed the inside soles as well. I was so hurt n my wife was so annoyed and wanted to confront him herself. Though I stopped her and when he came back from church and brought the matter to him. His only response was that he didn't know I want to wear the same shoes. I practically brought out all his shoes and him what happened with them. He became mute n silent.

Chrizoby:
That is not funny ooo

ImaIma1:


@ Rubbiis, how is your sharing senselessly method now? I guess it's still the wife's fault. She is trying to separate the family, right. The younger brother is only bonding.

Rubbiish:

I don't see any issue here
The poster is nothing but a wimp & blowing this out of proportion. If a sibling has done something as stated by the poster, he should explain to his brother. What is wrong in telling his brother he wanted to use the shoe for that Sunday, in case of next time, he can jokingly say it & they will laugh over it. Instead he is coming here to paint his brother bad over an issue as small as this! I can't remember the last time I drove my car, my younger brother is the one driving it around town & he doesn't need to take permission before doing that. Same apply to every of my property.

Rubbiish:

Aren't u ashamed of yourself?
What sort of a man are u?
If your brother has done something u don't like, shouldn't u explain to him instead of coming here to cry like a wimp?

Chrizoby:
Still waiting for more advises. Because i really need them now more than ever. He likes going to pot to fetch food for himself even when my wife is at home.