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Martinez39s:
Why is losing your meekness and being direct such a bad thing? Why are you judging the effect of the red pill on you through conventional lens? Where is it written that you must be meek, be a people pleaser verbally, or pamper people's feelings verbally? If not being meek and being direct are the way to go, why not follow it? My only advice is that you don't extend being direct to mean being rude and disrespectful as this may cost you opportunities.
@bolded. Tho it's part of the process I'm still working on. Many atimes, my refusal to asslick some people or treat them for who they are without any preferential treatment is seen as being rude and they immediately write me off. This happens with older women though.

Your definition of "healthy relationship" is drawing you back here. What's really a "healthy relationship"? There is nothing wrong is seeing females as objects of sex and sexual satisfaction; as long as you are not raping anyone, or forcing anyone to do what they don't want to do, you are good. Just put yourself first and take what you want from your encounter with women.
Healthy relationship in terms of keeping people around for future benefits, without any strings attached, just casual friends or close friends without any element of sex or Romance in any way is what I mean.

You are worried that you see women as sex objects, yet the same women see men as objects of money, security or sex and they are not bothered.
Sad but true....

Why are you assuming that having a "perfect relationship" means you perfectly understand the red pill? Who told you this? What's your definition of "perfect relationship"? I am sure your definition is rooted in your former blue pill convention. It's just like freed slaves who think way of freedom is wrong if they don't have a master; they unknowingly assumed having a master is the way things should be. Anywhere the red pill takes you, follow it and make peace with it.
See above Sir

stanliwise:
Oooooh my Goodness
You’re nothing a recorder

Spewing contradictions up and down.
Calling gynocentric and other social psychology jargon like you even know what they mean.

I am sure you hear this often in redpill thread so you just saying them like a robot in the most senile way

Opposite of redpill is not feminism.

No wonder I call you men monochrome.

A redpill and feminism see only in monochrome.

No wonder you can’t really see my true color.

All this while you always think I am black. Well can’t blame you. You only see in two colors

stanliwise:
Hahahahahahhahaahahha
Last time I check r/Reddit there is no such subreddit as black pill.

All were on redpill

heartofcity12:
There is black pill. It’s a lot different from the redpill.

angelEmade:
Nairaland is destroying you already obviously. You are a typical example of how the world of social media can lead to miseducation.
One day you will have a daughter and someone else will objectify her for sex how does that feel?
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You really need to start changing your mentality about the feminine gender and opt for the right orientation and education about relationships.
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Someone like you can't live long obviously with this kind of terrible beast you are becoming and how it is now difficult for you to maintain a healthy relationship.
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Again, people like you are one of those being misinformed by,for example...nairaland anti marriage morons and their jargons.
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Better define the right path for yourself and find a true purpose for your life.
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Right now,you don't even have a life.

ubunja:
Enemies of the Red Pill find exceeding joy in posts like this where a man expresses how its philosophy has hardened him and how he's failing to form "proper" relationships with women. But the same haters are silent on threads where men hurt themselves and even kill themselves after being hurt in love. These haters go mute.

It's a cold world. Divorce rates are skyrocketing and women are showing their true colors daily on social media, while it may be comforting to still dream of love, truth is the world has changed. The fact that a man who wishes to marry can not easily find a virgin and has to make do with women who have been sleeping with the whole block must be a wake up call for men worldwide to change how they relate with women and protect their hearts. And Money.

Any man who's hating on the Red Pill in 2021 is hating on the one movement that seeks to save him from harm. And in due course he'll learn the error of his ways when he comes face to face with true female nature.

Ultimately every man will be red pilled but most will seek the comfort of a lie to keep the illusions going.

It you hate the red pill as a man then prove us wrong. Go find a virgin to marry. Since to you women are perfect creatures we're unfairly attacking. Go find a woman who'll love you for who you are without spending a cent. Go find a woman who doesn't have a male beastie she turns to when you fight. Go find a woman fresh between 19 and 25 who's willing to settle down - a woman after 30 who's ready to settle doesn't count unless she's a virgin. Or is richer than you.

Anyways most men who hate the red pill are married guys who are just pained they're coming across the truth a little bit too late. Well that is not the fault of the red-pill. Leave us out of it.

Women are hoes. Whether you Agee or not it doesn't change anything. The red pill can't stop. Hating it doesn't make it weaker or less popular. The many daily red pill threads must show you haters that you're powerless here. Stop wasting your energy fighting the inevitable. You're just prolonging your own suffering.

Independentgbol:
I'm a man in my mid 20s, a natural critique of everything and a philosopher by mind.
My journey into Redpill started when I came across the term here on nairaland. I've been following Ubunja's miseducation which started opening my eyes to the nature of human being. Then I journeyed into the Redpill through one of the numerous threads.
I further read "The manipulated man" book which made me fully aware of the feminine manipulations and their nature. This coupled with the Redpill knowledge gave me so much confidence in approaching females and in successfully evading their manipulations and getting them to do my bidding.
The con of this awareness is the fact that I lost my meekness and I became so direct with females and everyone in general regardless of whoever I'm talking to in terms of status, age or even position. This direct attitude mesmerize some people, intimidates some, and it also outrightly put some people off that they hate me and will refuse to even help me.
Again, the knowledge of Redpill made it almost impossible for me to have a healthy relationship with females without seeing them as object of sex and sexual satisfaction most especially female peers or matured younger ones. I really wish I perfectly understand true Redpill and also able to have perfect relationship with people

ubunja:
Enemies of the Red Pill find exceeding joy in posts like this where a man expresses how its philosophy has hardened him and how he's failing to form "proper" relationships with women. But the same haters are silent on threads where men hurt themselves and even kill themselves after being hurt in love. These haters go mute.

It's a cold world. Divorce rates are skyrocketing and women are showing their true colors daily on social media, while it may be comforting to still dream of love, truth is the world has changed. The fact that a man who wishes to marry can not easily find a virgin and has to make do with women who have been sleeping with the whole block must be a wake up call for men worldwide to change how they relate with women and protect their hearts. And Money.

Any man who's hating on the Red Pill in 2021 is hating on the one movement that seeks to save him from harm. And in due course he'll learn the error of his ways when he comes face to face with true female nature.

Ultimately every man will be red pilled but most will seek the comfort of a lie to keep the illusions going.

It you hate the red pill as a man then prove us wrong. Go find a virgin to marry. Since to you women are perfect creatures we're unfairly attacking. Go find a woman who'll love you for who you are without spending a cent. Go find a woman who doesn't have a male beastie she turns to when you fight. Go find a woman fresh between 19 and 25 who's willing to settle down - a woman after 30 who's ready to settle doesn't count unless she's a virgin. Or is richer than you.

Anyways most men who hate the red pill are married guys who are just pained they're coming across the truth a little bit too late. Well that is not the fault of the red-pill. Leave us out of it.

Women are hoes. Whether you Agee or not it doesn't change anything. The red pill can't stop. Hating it doesn't make it weaker or less popular. The many daily red pill threads must show you haters that you're powerless here. Stop wasting your energy fighting the inevitable. You're just prolonging your own suffering.

Fiscus105:
when what u read online replaced how God made you and now defined ur way of life and character, you are on ur way to destruction.

..........if God from creation, made you a kind and generous man but because of what u read online and u changed to wicked and mean man, dnt you know you are on journey of self destruction? since you know more than God that created you, sorry is ur real name.

TheUndercover:
One thing is coming across with TRP, another is accepting it. But the most important aspect of it most people still don't understand is balancing. You need to know how to balance your knowledge of TRP with your relationship with people, if not, you would be doing yourself more harm than good.

ExpertEDITOR:
Op, don't worry. It is a stage (anger stage). You will soon pass it and become calmer. That anger stage is necessitated cos of the sudden harsh reality you are now facing which opposes everything you have be told or taught all your life.

Allow yourself to pass through the stage, don't rush it. With time, u will become better and be able to control how u want to feel.

davien:
A lot of misinformation and ignorance sets in when a group gets too large. Red pill is simply the knowledge that females are hypergamous and their sexual market if not restricted is unlimited. Nothing more nothing less.Anything else you do with that knowledge falls on you. I don't subscribe to the dumb alpha beta terms anymore as they're wrong, highest I'll say is simps and men and women simp. Most men simp for anything in skirt while women simp for handsome, successful, influential and or rich men. I don't go about having it in my head how I'll "deal with" a girl/lady I just make them deserve my attention. That's it.

StacyO:
Anger stage.
Lol

Like someone once said "the redpill was specially designed for weak men"

ExpertEDITOR:
Lol... This your post is kinda funny. God made him which way? God made him to be mumu ba and he is following the devil to see the world for what it is? Lol...

Pls, does God make soldiers as well or things (training) practically taught and learned?

Independentgbol:
I'm a man in my mid 20s, a natural critique of everything and a philosopher by mind.
My journey into Redpill started when I came across the term here on nairaland. I've been following Ubunja's miseducation which started opening my eyes to the nature of human being. Then I journeyed into the Redpill through one of the numerous threads.
I further read "The manipulated man" book which made me fully aware of the feminine manipulations and their nature. This coupled with the Redpill knowledge gave me so much confidence in approaching females and in successfully evading their manipulations and getting them to do my bidding.
The con of this awareness is the fact that I lost my meekness and I became so direct with females and everyone in general regardless of whoever I'm talking to in terms of status, age or even position. This direct attitude mesmerize some people, intimidates some, and it also outrightly put some people off that they hate me and will refuse to even help me.
Again, the knowledge of Redpill made it almost impossible for me to have a healthy relationship with females without seeing them as object of sex and sexual satisfaction most especially female peers or matured younger ones. I really wish I perfectly understand true Redpill and also able to have perfect relationship with people

heartofcity12:
There is black pill. It’s a lot different from the redpill.

MisterRuk:
The redpill is nothing but a new age philosophy. It only reveals certain truths, it doesn't have the solution (or most of it). In the Matrix, the redpill revealed the truth to Neo but it didn't give him the power to defeat Agent Smith or the Matrix. The actions of weak men created third wave feminism or feminazism. A lot of men here are attracted to the redpill because they believe it will show them the secrets behind becoming an "alpha" for the sake of attracting girls. Another set of men are here because they've had failed relationships with girls or are not getting the sex they want, rather than take responsibility for their failures they blame women.
Most of us are weak again lust, or are financially broke, or mentally broke. Some of us undisciplined, and are addicted to porn, fapping, video games, gambling etc. Many of us are spiritually weak (not in the religious sense). Some of us have unhygienic physical and social lifestyles. Even if you take the redpill and you fall into these categories, your life will never change, it may even get worse because you'll become a depressed doomer. The redpill is beyond male-female relationship. Besides, most of these tips to help you "manipulate" women to do your bidding only work for a short while. When the charm wears off, the woman will see you for who you are and perceive your weaknesses (if you've not been working on yourself).

StacyO:
Whatever makes a woman a "hoe" makes a man an even bigger "LovePeddler" (if it qualifies what I mean)

Any man seeking out for a virgin must outrightly either be same or have a limited body count.

The redpill is rather destroying our young men instead of empowering them, there are no two ways to this.
There is no such thing as men being superior or of utmost importance.
Such ideology is fast being proven wrong.

MEN HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER WOMEN AS IT STANDS NOW and YES (MEN LOVE SEX)

And that is one of the very things the masculine gender can't deal without (sex).

Those who can't get it the genuine way choose to hide under the guise called "redpill"

Nature gave everyone their roles to play but unfortunately the new generation of men think "getting a woman's body can be quite easy when the redpill is used"


Misogyny/redpill preach relatively same thing.

ubunja:
it's true. There are many types of pills, Blue Pill, Red Pill, Black Pill, Purple pill etc. All these have their specific philosophy and followers. Black Pill is the most extreme tho and almost goes hand in hand with mgtow.