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Secrets To Avoid Domestic Violence In Your Marriage And Save The Marriage by Akinpedia(m): 4:13pm On Jun 02, 2021
Secrets to avoid domestic violence in marriage is a matter that many women are asking around. If you are reading this then you are most probably interested in finding out the answers to this question.

This is because it can be very dangerous not only for one's safety but for those around them. The simple truth is that there are several secrets that men who are committing this act of violence do not want you to know about. They do not want you to find out how to avoid being the victim of such acts of violence.

It is quite unfortunate that men do not want you to find out the secrets to avoid domestic violence in marriage. They would much rather shield their evil deeds instead of telling you the truth.

After all, they are the ones who have been committing these unspeakable acts of violence. That is why they will never be willing to share anything about their situation with you. They would rather keep it all hidden and safe than let you know what really goes on in their lives.

That does not mean that there are no women who suffer from domestic violence in marriage. In fact, statistics show that more than one million women worldwide are married to men who are abusive.

Some are even married to men who are repeat offenders. Therefore, if you are one of the women who have been subjected to such violence, then you should know the secrets to avoid domestic violence in marriage.

The first secret to domestic violence against women is to always stay away from your man

Even if he is your husband, you cannot stay home every night because there are too many predators around. If your husband is not violent by any means, then you should stay away from him. It would be best if you could leave him and go live with your sister or other family members. Men who are abusive tend to be distant and they do not care about their family at all.

Another one of the secrets to avoiding domestic violence in marriage is to find a good friend to be your loyal companion. Women can be very lonely when it comes to abuse from their husbands.

This friend should be there to listen to you and to comfort you whenever you are feeling bad. Remember, no one will be able to protect you and help you from your husband unless you are there with them.

One last of the secrets to avoiding domestic violence in marriage is to stop yourself from taking any drugs

If you feel that you are having problems controlling your impulses, then you should probably seek professional help. There are many support groups for alcoholism and drug rehabilitation centres.

The sooner you start treatment, the better for you and your husband. Most of the time, drug addicts tend to take responsibility for their problems. Unfortunately, they rarely learn how to control themselves when they get sober.

Another of the secrets to avoiding domestic violence in marriage is to have enough sleep

Many women do not get enough sleep because they are worrying and thinking about their husband's behaviour. It is best for you both if you can plan to have eight hours of sleep every night.

If you need to go to sleep early, then set a time that you will both stick to so that you do not become accustomed to napping during the day. You can read: Power of Sorry in Building a Healthy Relationship https://www.healthyflick.com/power-of-sorry-in-building-a-healthy-relationship/

Finally, one of the secrets to avoiding domestic violence in marriage is to avoid arguments as much as you can. Arguing with your husband is only going to make him want to pull down his barriers even further.

In short, do not put yourself in a vulnerable position where you are vulnerable. Remember, arguments are not what keep your marriage together anyway. If you want to save your marriage, learn how to compromise and communicate more than you ever have before.

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Re: Secrets To Avoid Domestic Violence In Your Marriage And Save The Marriage by youngreezy(m): 4:21pm On Jun 02, 2021
Guy!!! Relax there your topics reeks of sentiments,you make it look like women are the only one suffering from domestic violence.....abeg go find food chop joor!!!
Re: Secrets To Avoid Domestic Violence In Your Marriage And Save The Marriage by Cholls(m): 5:38pm On Jun 02, 2021
youngreezy:
Guy!!! Relax there your topics reeks of sentiments,you make it look like women are the only one suffering from domestic violence.....abeg go find food chop joor!!!
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Re: Secrets To Avoid Domestic Violence In Your Marriage And Save The Marriage by Akinpedia(m): 6:32pm On Jun 02, 2021
Relax Guy, you will see the one for Men later...
youngreezy:
Guy!!! Relax there your topics reeks of sentiments,you make it look like women are the only one suffering from domestic violence.....abeg go find food chop joor!!!
Re: Secrets To Avoid Domestic Violence In Your Marriage And Save The Marriage by numericalguy(m): 11:09pm On Jun 02, 2021
Akinpedia:
Relax Guy, you will see the one for Men later...

You are very stooopeeed for not posting both together. People like you are the reason why men are demonised in the home.
There are millions of men on the planet who toil day and night, some have even lost their lives just to provide for the family and here you are making men appear evil just for silly likes from feminists.

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Re: Secrets To Avoid Domestic Violence In Your Marriage And Save The Marriage by Akinpedia(m): 8:58am On Jun 03, 2021
I have an answer written for Domestic Violence Against Men check it our here https://www.nairaland.com/6584409/truth-men-suffering-domestic-violence

numericalguy:


You are very stooopeeed for not posting both together. People like you are the reason why men are demonised in the home.
There are millions of men on the planet who toil day and night, some have even lost their lives just to provide for the family and here you are making men appear evil just for silly likes from feminists.

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