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Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by awa(m): 7:39am On Jun 07, 2021 |
This story is cooked up. How can someone come here to write thrash and be asking for advise. Your wife will be earning about 1.5m plus your 0.6m making it 2.1m monthly and you have the mind to ask for advise. Your wife is willing to be flying down to Lagos to see your say bi-weekly without complain and you are writing this thrash here? My advise if you care, ask your wife to reject the 1.5m Abuja offer. At least someone else will be blessed. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by bigtt76(f): 9:20am On Jun 07, 2021 |
You are becoming too comfortable. Activate your shutdown-relocation procedure from Lagos and eventually from Abuja with your family. Give like 6 months or more by which time you would have saved enough for this Tjra: |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by smogia1994(m): 11:27am On Jun 07, 2021 |
Tjra:wait sir? im now douting weda u recieve #600k a month as u have earlier said because, you wont bring up this mind set. how much is flight ticket to and fro? eh cos pass eh no reach #100k shebi is to see ur family, u are a family man why will u need a self cont. what if ur wife comes to see you nko? pls do a rethink sir |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by mech2021(m): 12:40pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
i think you should follow your wife advise by doing visiting for now until you are able to get transfer, if you get transfer to abuja, though i dont know where you work but reseach has shown work load in abuja isnt always tasky unlike lagos, most people traveled out of abuja to their respected states on fridays, you can expect your weekend to start from friday in most organisations. please when you finally leave your odd job, connect me i will be available. thanks in advance. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by daben1(m): 12:43pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
ecolime:Thanks for your response sir 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by lordally(m): 1:29pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
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Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Try out your wife's option for about 6 months. See how things go with her job. You can now both decide on the best way forward for the family. 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Mryacks: 2:40pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
Tjra: You said for you it's "family first over job/career" so you have to do what's best for your family. This means you MUSR sacrifice one or the other and leave with the consequences of your decision. Hard as it may seem pls do what gives your family peace and growth. Pray about it too. Best wishes 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Czzy: 3:42pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
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Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by easiebimz: 4:53pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
It's a really tough decision but not an impossible one. I will advice you let her progress with her career while you stay back in Lagos and weigh your options of either getting a transfer to Abuja or you seeking employment else where. God will see you through. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by LiteraryArtist: 10:25pm On Jun 07, 2021 |
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Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Givemelove1: 9:20am On Jun 09, 2021 |
boldx:best advice !! |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Tjra: 1:57pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
UPDATE!!! Hello guys! Thanks for all the comments. We found them useful and very helpful. My wife accepted the job offer. I took a 2 weeks leave and we relocated to the state, got an apartment and kids are now in a new school (Tomorrow will be their 1st day). I have since returned to Lagos and I visit twice a month sometimes every 3 weeks. The phobia for flying is still there even after several flights but I am gradually overcoming it. As God would have it, an internal recruitment came up in my organisation. I got the job and will be resuming in November. This means I will be joining my family fully pretty soon. Thank you once again 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by MaxBee2050(m): 9:49am On Jul 13 |
Tjra: Abeg drop something for me make I use chop. I use God beg u. My details is on my signature here👇👇👇 |
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