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Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by OnyinyeGod(f): 4:44pm On May 04, 2011 |
I please an urgent reply from matured minds and christians too. I am a christian and a pentecostal for that matter, then there is suitor that is asking my hand in marriage. He is caring, loving but the problem is that he is a roman catholic. And i have told him to join me in my own church but he refused and said that he's whole family is catholic that he cant compromise his faith. I love this guy, pls what do i do? |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by ifyalways(f): 4:51pm On May 04, 2011 |
OnyinyeGod:Marry your Pastor. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-631887.0.html https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-385788.0.html https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2286.0.html |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by dayokanu(m): 4:56pm On May 04, 2011 |
No dont marry him, marry me, I am not Cat[b]HOLIC[/b], I am alco[b]HOLIC[/b] |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 04, 2011 |
OnyinyeGod: Is it the same guy that impregnated your friend |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by andypash(m): 5:28pm On May 04, 2011 |
Am not a roman catholic cos am not in rome neither do i go to catholic church let me ask u a question what is wrong with catholic people are u saying they are not christain The word catholic means saint so all christain are catholic but not roman catholic,we are in nigeria not rome Is like saying the name of my churh is christain church that does not say that other churches are not christain But let me advice u if u kno u cant go to catholic church dont marry him cos there will be misunderstanding sooner or later for me my wife cant go to any other church from the one am going i can marry from any church but the day u say i do,u have no choice than to do what i want |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by manmustwac(m): 6:20pm On May 04, 2011 |
So a Pentecostal cannot marry a Catholic, a Muslim cannot marry a Christian, an Irish Protestant cannot marry an Irish Catholic and even some churches discourage their congregation from marrying outside their church. All this just proves religion dose not unite people it divides people |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Odunnu: 6:28pm On May 04, 2011 |
Poster, how old are you? |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by HighChief4(m): 6:37pm On May 04, 2011 |
OnyinyeGod: No, you dont love him |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Basseti: 6:43pm On May 04, 2011 |
OnyinyeGod: How is that a problem? Well, u dont have to marry him. U can always wait for a male in YOUR church to marry you. |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by nonnyp(f): 7:55pm On May 04, 2011 |
Same happened 2 me,but i wil tel u wot ma pastor told me,, wot matters is being born again in catholic we also have charistmatic followers of GOD,while in some pentecostal we stil get fornicators.wot realy matters is ur relationship wt ur GOD.make sure spouse is a born again n nt a fanatic. |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by dani1luv: 8:40pm On May 04, 2011 |
OnyinyeGod:Is it not the same God you're serving |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by OAM4J: 12:43am On May 05, 2011 |
Wahala. What will happen to you if you marry him in a catholic church? |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by harakiri(m): 6:29am On May 05, 2011 |
. . .and tomorrow, they will claim 2 worship the same god. These are churches that use the same bible,recite similar prayers etc and yet, they act like rival cult groups. Religion has NOTHING good to offer mankind (except the benefactors). The day religious people start to reason rationaly, that's the day religion will cease to exist. |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Nobody: 3:49pm On May 05, 2011 |
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Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Busybody2(f): 6:26pm On May 05, 2011 |
^^^ Just made me read all that junk, first correctly saying the right things by querying if Catholics are not Christians too, only to put his foot in it by revealing his hyprocritical yansh that the woman has to toe his line. The irony, psffft. |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by DBestDoc(f): 11:54am On May 06, 2011 |
I tot u wer going 2 say dat the GUY u luv and want 2 MARRY is a MUSLIM.mchweee If he cannot compromise his CATHOLIC faith and u cannot compromise your PENTECOSTAL faith.oya now make una part wayss. Wat if he accepts to follw your faith and after your marrige he goes bck 2 catholic,what will u do?u better make up your MIND |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by DBestDoc(f): 12:04pm On May 06, 2011 |
BTW i dont see anytin wrong wit a CATHOLIC marrying a PENTECOSTAL.Heavenly race is PERSONAL.All u nid do is 2 bring up morally upright children.finishh as far as im concerned, u dont ve a problem if this is d only problem u ve wit d guy |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Bossman(m): 11:34pm On May 06, 2011 |
Pentecostal, catholic, bishop, etc. Who gives a damn about all these factions these days, go the extent that it can determine who one marries! What a bunch of nonsense! If you love and care about each other, that's what should matter. No wonder we have so many problems in Nigeria. |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by Ivynwa(f): 12:05am On May 07, 2011 |
Don't let that bother you dear. Worshipping in some good pentecostal churches is a wonderful experience just like it is in Catholic church, I roll with the two and believe me I am having fun with God. Do you think that God worries and bothers about whether you worship him from a catholic or from a pentecostal church? Mttcheew, just give him some sweet praises and worship, communicate with him from the depth of your heart in spirit and in truth and Baba God is chilling and smiling. |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by francisj(m): 9:14am On May 07, 2011 |
If you refuse to marry him, then you will have to wait for another guy,(Wonder how many years it took you to find this guy). You gals of nowadays thinks husband full town like b4,"A bird at hand worth 2 birds on a tree " Girls are at time very stupid ? Imagine even between christian, there is church segregation !! What will happen if it were marriage BTW !. Christian and Muslim 2.christian and traditionalist 3.Christian and peg an 4. Christian and cultist 5. Christian and Talibans How are about voodoo's, jaw's ,buggist, Hindu, etc |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by vanillaz: 11:20am On May 09, 2011 |
i advice u also seek professional help and counselling from the team at www.namywedding.com/advice |
Re: Pls Help, Should I Marry Him by vanillaz: 11:33am On May 09, 2011 |
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