kumulus:



By being honest do you mean telling her straight up you want sex?

Yes o, girls nowadays are more open minded than before. Friends with benefits, knack kanck and so on, it's a free world.

Mandela27:
Sir na my mouth u wan hear say prick no get sense?

No worry, dey grow come untill u meet someone wey u go say do juju for you because you no fit perform again with another woman

Mandela27:
Sir na my mouth u wan hear say prick no get sense?

Men do this with little or no emotions attached....it's all about releasing the tension in them.

The penis doesn’t discriminate

Sex really has nothing to do with feelings it's a satisfaction of your sexual drives, and can be achieved without affectional connection. It's just like when you are tasty for water.... It's not necessarily mean that you must drink a particular brand, in as much as it's from a trusted source, you go for it
Though they might be a spiritual connection to it. But ordinarily it's like the other reflex acts

NewKidInTown:
:[ Am i the only one that has not bin toasted, bleeped or taken out by a lady? Who did i offended biko nu?

No b only you oo

nwaezeemmanuel:
You don't need love to have sex. If that wasn't true, rejected baby mamas, friends with benefits and Follows won't be on the rise. This isn't a guy thing, several women are also having sex with men they don't love.

When it comes to issue of sex, I always wonder how people still have to categorically state the case of a woman, both gender don't exist in isolation they go hand in hand, so it's best you say it's human nature to have sex with who they don't love (albeit not all humans are built that way), because the many men having sex with numerous women they don't love automatically means several women have sex with men they don't love.. Hope you get the point...

geesilver:
Sex really has nothing to do with feelings it's a satisfaction of your sexual drives, and can be achieved without affectional connection. It's just like when you are tasty for water.... It's not necessarily mean that you must drink a particular brand, in as much as it's from a trusted source, you go for it
Though they might be a spiritual connection to it. But ordinarily it's like the other reflex acts

Your comparison is flawed, water is water, Forget the branding and not taking water for a relative period of time can be fatal, but for sex avoidance for a longer period of time is not fatal...

TefBarzz:
Topic should've been...how do girls get intimate with guys they don't really love.Cos, for the male gender,they can do anything in skirt whether there's love or not....once they cum,they come to their senses.

And you think women don't d feel same way?
Don't be deceived my brother, na the same way both gender functions, societal views about ladies made them to be coded,and reason why most of them have monetize it, cos of some men's warped mentality that women don't like sex and are just there to satisfy men.

Adegbemiro11:
I've always turned down advances from girls. Don't get me wrong, I'm not claiming to be very handsome but I have some qualities that draw girls close to me. I could feel their pain when I reject their infatuation. I'm a kinda person who believes that eyes would get cleared after sexual intercourse, only true feelings keep relationship going, yet I feel I'm not being fair in some cases. And the fear of trying all means to get my full attention (when I do not really mean business) wouldn't want me to do 'chop & clean mouth' thing - so that I won't get choked.

So I throw to the guys who are good at this, how do you enjoy getting intimate with any girls that give you attention?

You can't know the true intentions of girls, don't get it wrong. They need something from you and the only way to get to you is through sex if really you're telling the truth.

Gate050:

You can't know the true intentions of girls, don't get it wrong. They need something from you and the only way to get to you is through sex if really you're telling the truth.

Okay

cayorday89:
Your comparison is flawed, water is water, Forget the branding and not taking water for a relative period of time can be fatal, but for sex avoidance for a longer period of time is not fatal...

of water is water can you take the ones coming directly from Lagoon without thinking otherwise, I guess no. So, my brother water is not water.

geesilver:
of water is water can you take the ones coming directly from Lagoon without thinking otherwise, I guess no. So, my brother water is not water.

My reason for saying that is cos you made mention of branding, and with mater I meant clean water, come to think of it when push comes to shove in circumstances beyond one's control, and in the unavailability of clean water, that dirty water can be a life saver, but if it is sex in same situation, the possibility of one thinking about sex will be very low or even no urge at all sef, reason why I said it is a flawed comparison..

cayorday89:

My reason for saying that is cos you made mention of branding, and with mater I meant clean water, come to think of it when push comes to shove in circumstances beyond one's control, and in the unavailability of clean water, that dirty water can be a life saver, but if it is sex in same situation, the possibility of one thinking about sex will be very low or even no urge at all sef, reason why I said it is a flawed comparison..

, I told you the urge is reflex like the others " hunger, tasty, etc" you may conrol it for a while but when it keeps coming continuously you just have to solve it some how that why at times you don't really care about feelings, all you want is just to do and let that pass by especially if it's addictions.

abbey621:


Yes o, girls nowadays are more open minded than before. Freiends with benefits, knack kanck and so on, it's a free world.

Really? Interesting times I must say.

People that get intimate with call girls. This one is not hard.

gonkin:


My brother I wonder. I can't have sex with a girl I don't feel attracted to. It's way harder to have sex with someone I feel something for. I believe it's why relationships are hard for me. Some girls actually want sex but I'm not a starter. I'm a slow fella. I have turned down several. I have been insulted and mocked by my friends several times. Its also a reason I have never paid a girl for sex (runs babes). I keep asking myself how it's done. How do guys get an erection and how ur would fight with the guilt of having sex with someone u don't even know her name

I don't believe you

“We cannot solve problems with the kind of
thinking we employed when we came up with
them.” — Albert Einstein

Hassanmaye:

I don't believe you

You should. Never had sex with someone I feel nothing for. I started late though. At 23 so maybe it's hard coded

A person who never made a mistake never
tried anything new. -- Albert Einstein

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After my heartbreak last year, decided to have fun with a call girl.....
Long story short, I can't see myself trying such ever again.

This is another reason I do ask how guys rape girls? Like how do u forcefully engage in an act that is intimate? An act that even when one party is not in the mood you won't enjoy it

qtguru:
Not that hard, alcohol helps too

So you cheat too

Very true

Adegbemiro11:


I still don't see that as achievement o.

Alawiiye made me understand that "Apa lara, igunpa ni iyekan".

Rozcol:
So you cheat too

There are men around where I stay ma

Queenserah26:
Very true

Queen, Queen!

You look just like a friend of mine, Olawumi; a secondary school mate.

Oh really

Adegbemiro11:


Queen, Queen!

You look just like a friend of mine, Olawumi; a secondary school mate.

Queenserah26:
Oh really

Yeah