folake4u:



Says who??
You people should stop this rubbish!

I have female friends, colleagues at work, coursemates from school dashing me money.
Recently, my female Boss dashed me money, and my Father was marvelled at her generosity, that he bought her bush meat to thank her for treating me like her own child.

Maybe you should change the circle of female friends you hangout with.

God forgive me o. Someone once reached out to me and I decided to go through his posts. He said vagina people don’t ever give anything, that we are naturally cruel to ourselves and to men. I checked and saw I still have a vagina. Make I just dey my dey.

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She's a misandrist. Seems that her father abandoned them or did something terrible.

There's no way a woman who hated men can succeed in this life.

babyfaceafrica:
dads are what?

Karleb:


When next you see your dad, tell him an online fellow said he is the daddy of the year.

Respect to that man!

might be dragging that award with my dad I gave the old man money to buy fuel for his motorcycle this morning, he told me he will give me back in the evening. I asked him why should he give me back? He said because I'm not working. I love that man oh

pocohantas:


God forgive me o. Someone once reached out to me and I decided to go through his posts. He said vagina people don’t ever give anything, that we are naturally cruel to ourselves and to men. I checked and saw I still have a vagina. Make I just dey my dey.

Damnnnn! Can you imagine the nerve? .
I trust you sha not to lose guard .

it's subjective

to the financial capabilities of the parents in the now

parents who toiled to bring their kids up
the children as a matter of fact

MUST do their best to make sure that burdens are eased off their parents in cash and kind


but if the parents are well off,
the children can give as they can

pocohantas:


God forgive me o. Someone once reached out to me and I decided to go through his posts. He said vagina people don’t ever give anything, that we are naturally cruel to ourselves and to men. I checked and saw I still have a vagina. Make I just dey my dey.

What if I told you Vagina people are vindictive. This post just vindicated it.


I hope this post won't further vindicate it in the future.

Karleb:


What if I told you Vagina people are vindictive. This post just vindicated it.


I hope this post won't further vindicate it in the future.

That one concern you. I can’t be bothered with the opinion of penis-people. As a submissive woman, my goal is to always prove you right.

folake4u:


Damnnnn! Can you imagine the nerve? .
I trust you sha not to lose guard .

No time o. Make all of us face our lane. Walk the talk…

pocohantas:


That one concern you. I can’t be bothered with the opinion of penis-people. As a submissive woman, my goal is to always prove you right.



No time o. Make all of us face our lane. Walk the talk…

I swear down, make everybody dey their lane.

sapphiere:
Exactly.

I myself, I don't stay with my parents and I am not working yet. Still schooling but once in a while I do send my mom something.

He dey press button
continue as patience Jonathan dey talk am

Gbabe2:


Yes, those kids can easily misbehave. Yes I know of a 20 year old boy assisting his father with bills and seriously misbehaving. The dad is a single dad with 8 children. He has 3 jobs but finds it difficult to make ends meets.
The 20 year old boy graduated from high school, started working ( 2 jobs) and assisting his father with some bills but disrespects his dad at the slightest provocation.
Never, I mean never will be child contribute to the well-being of the house when I am still alive.
Come to think of it, what are the responsibilities of the supposed parents?
Once my children are old enough to work, they will definitely go look for apartments and be responsible.
There is a caveat though. If I live in Lagos and my kids are grown up, still single and working in the same city before they stand on their feet, yes, they can support me at will. That’s different from when are saddled with my responsibilities when I am not bed ridden.

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Very well spoken...I’ve seen some cases too and It’s bewildering...

sapphiere:
Exactly.

I myself, I don't stay with my parents and I am not working yet. Still schooling but once in a while I do send my mom something.

As you are not working... Where you come dey see money to send

folake4u:


Aww, that's nice. May your pocket never run dry .

Amen

Gbabe2:


And did you mum ever inquired what the source of income is? The is one of the root causes of the social vices we have these days.

See this one

I'm a domainer

I do invest in Crypto

I do buy legit PayPal funds

If there's free time, I will do survey and get paid

Not in naija,try the next country ejò

Its called being part of the family community. Ideally a child starts contributing from when he or she can start handling things, speak and wanting to imitate older folks in the family. From age 2 plus (dependent on the child's mental development) the child's ability to drop/contribute must be stirred with simple acts like Go and give this to Mummy, bring that spoon; ya, we re cleaning the house etc, This little commands, little children will love to participate in, cause they are in that stage where imitation is their stage. As children grow in age, their capacity for contribution also grows...they learn to cook, dust the house, wash the car, change the wheel, go to the grocery store, get sent to pay bills, supervise a repair in the house. Soon as such start earning money, the prior socialization of contributing should not be hard to transit into. Before being formally asked to contribute, which should not be the case anyway, such child can simply take the initiative of starting with something as basic as buying the milk/eggs for the family use that week... It can also be getting/paying for the broadband/wifi, paying for the cable...little stuff that, though insignificant, go a long way... do that as a young lad/lass and your folks wont think about kicking you out - afterall you re being valuable...all these are the ideal...however, the reality is parents leave the moral training of their wards to society, to that teacher who is only there to get paid,to that housemaid from a dysfunctional background who is there to only implant her strange ways unto your kid, to that Telly/Youtube/Social Media who are there to massively indoctrinate vanity and self gratification as paramount, even to that relative who is addicted to porn/masturbation, alcohol, materialism etc all these confuse and derail us to thinking and becoming self entitled...thinking everyone has to do or give to us first before we can give anything back even at that...when it is convenient...

To be told to give back, is one of two things, you were given but not aware you should give back or you were not given at all and so, you cannot give back...either way, society is built around giving and receiving, what and when to give can be determined long before

Are you unemployed and can communicate properly in English?

DM only if you are ready to be trained and work as an online chat moderator.

Barbiturate:


Exposing yourself unnecessarily!

You are not working and you're schooling! You still send money home and I'm sure you take care of your school bills. Where's the money coming from?

I am coming to tell you

A lot of nonsense here have no basis in reality.

You will pay bills from the mere N15k you are earning as a young adult?

Okay.

OYENIYIJK:


See this one

I'm a domainer

I do invest in Crypto

I do buy legit PayPal funds

If there's free time, I will do survey and get paid

them think say everything na fraud and yahoo

folake4u:



Says who??
You people should stop this rubbish!

I have female friends, colleagues at work, coursemates from school dashing me money.
Recently, my female Boss dashed me money, and my Father was marvelled at her generosity, that he bought her bush meat to thank her for treating me like her own child.

Maybe you should change the circle of female friends you hangout with.

okay!

When i make more money, i will embarrass them with gifts

folake4u:


That's very true, Mothers appreciate the littlest of things. When I make more money, I will scatter their heads with gifts and that's a promise! .

Nothing

toby345:
them think say everything na fraud and yahoo

I just tire for them

Karleb:


Children shouldn't be a burden to parents. Ever! This is exactly why family planning is being advocated.

I get your point tho. A working child should be able to contribute one or two things at home. But it shouldn't be compulsory.

The fundamental duties of any parent is to take care of the children needs. The role should never be reversed.

O think it's about reciprocity than mandatory or obligation due to a higher ability at this point. They cared for u and when u had the opportunity u cared back for them.

Karleb:


Children shouldn't be a burden to parents. Ever! This is exactly why family planning is being advocated.

I get your point tho. A working child should be able to contribute one or two things at home. But it shouldn't be compulsory.

The fundamental duties of any parent is to take care of the children needs. The role should never be reversed.

A working child should be running his own household/home.. We are talking of adult children here and no parent owes an adult child jack. But we give support out of love here and not duty/obligation.
He/she should not be a burden on the parents.
Joshua has no understanding of the Nigerian life and his message is for his UK followers, where he was raised. He was raised with British values since he moved as a boy.
He is right when he says young people (in UK) still stay back at home despite working in order to save up for their own mortgage.
However, their parents are still working hard into their 70s to finish paying up their own mortgage. Any little amount such a child drops will be well appreciated. Those who decide to work abroad and not be on benefits are really hard workers.
I see too many older people who tell me they've been working since they were 16 years till 64/66 years when they retired. They rely on their pension which isn't much, and if any child decides to stay with them, they can barely feed themselves and such a grown child on that pension even if their mortgage has been fully paid.
Many have had to go back working part time after retirement, in their old age o because its necessary they do so, and not because of boredom.

Goalnaldo:
might be dragging that award with my dad I gave the old man money to buy fuel for his motorcycle this morning, he told me he will give me back in the evening. I asked him why should he give me back? He said because I'm not working. I love that man oh

Awesome father you've got there. Many senseless offsprings focus on others' rich dad's and look down on their father for being poor. If only they knew that many rich dads got rich by being heartless using their Children for money rituals, they would be rolling and thanking their godly fathers for prioritizing treasuring them than money and material things.

They should contribute to gas, electricity and foodstuff bills

pocohantas:


- Not working
- Still schooling.
- Sending mom something.

How? You send her from the one she sends to you or from the one someone else sends?

You might need to cut soap for your fellow Nigerian students.

Lol @ cut soap.

I get cash gifts from friends and well wishers.

I hope these friends and well wishers are not men sha

How do parents collect money from non-earning schooling kids though?

Mandela27:
woman no dey dash woman money!

I see this a lot on NL and I am amazed.

It must be you guys circle.

There is no time to wait for before contributing to the house. Your parent can not do everything