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This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 5:50pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
You may think most women want to get married because of the society or due to biologic clock,yes you may be right to some extent but no entirely .Most women want to get married for the sole benefit that comes with it. Do you know what it means that as a married woman you have no headache as per how bills are paid and no worries of how you're going to pay for food , rent and the rest . Financial security is top on the least on why women want to marry as I had a little encounter with a female friend of mine who has been looking for a man she even asked me to match make her if I see someone well to do .Well she specifically told me how she plans relocating and working abroad ,earning more pay and by that time she won't be needing a man because according to her she will now be able to fend fully for herself. The saying that when a man makes money he feels he needs a woman and when a woman makes money she feels she doesn't need a man is largely true ,know this and know peace . Lalasticlala mynd44 front page 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Godada(m): 5:51pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
I agree with you on this however, the points you listed here isn't gender sensitive. Most men and women want this same thing: security. I should congratulate your lady friend because she is indeed a rare breed of lady. But what I didn't get from your conservation concerns child bearing. Does she intend to be in a civil union with the man and climb to the next social status then she can be on her way. How does she intend to be in relationship and still wanna to relocate? Kindly shed light on this issue before I lend my opinions here 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by heniford2: 5:56pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Expo 104 but I still doubt this because my girl is not like that |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Freestainworld(m): 5:59pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Not all women though, but majority are guilty of this. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by NwaAmaikpe: 6:32pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
No. The main reason most women want to get married is because being married is a woman's greatest bragging right. A broke widow or an adulterous divorcee has more socio-cultural respect than a successful spinster. Ever asked yourself why Linda Ikeji is under pressure from her parents to bring a man home or wondered why Tiwa dreams to be wifed despite having a son and bragging on camera about being 'made'? Ask yourself why Toyin Lawani got married to someone his other wives consider a deadbeat. Etinosa Idemudia, Uche Ogbodo or Nkechi Blessing? A woman goes through life with only one constant need; to be wanted. They also fight one battle all through life, an imaginary competition with other ladies. This is the reason women give out their phone numbers to strangers; the same reason a woman will spread her legs for any man who can so make her feel desired and worthier than other women. It also explains why a woman's biggest enemy is a woman. To women, for a man to want you enough to marry you means he has put you above the other women he has come across. This alone has solved their basic need of being wanted and helped them win their major battle of competing with other women. So being married means she won. It doesn't matter for how long, what matters is that she has once won and this is the same reason women will marry and get divorced just so that it be on record that they had once gotten married; simply because, a husband is a woman's greatest laurel. Remember Adesuwa Sonia Ighalo bragging just a while ago about being the married one? That's why women remain in unhappy marriages and would rather die in it than walk away. The fact that they can still stand with their head high in front of other women is a victory and the satisfaction from it supercedes the pain of hopelessness that makes them wail secretly at home. I may be wrong, but I look up to Lalasticlala and the other elders to set me right. 126 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 6:39pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Godada:She presented the option of me match making her but she's also in the process of relocating abroad, so whichever comes first 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 6:42pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
heniford2:Thats what other guys before you also said till they learnt, you will still grow up to learn, I guess you're still in the university I guess 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Godada(m): 6:50pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn: Ok. She is rather ambitious. She should focus on one. She is doing well 1 Like |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by heniford2: 6:59pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn:dude am married with a son through with school and a business man so relax oh 3 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by WiszyFraud: 7:09pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 7:39pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
heniford2:Lol, no vex bro |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 7:42pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Godada:Mind you that she's not concerned about her age as she can always adopt |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by GOFRONT(m): 7:48pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Hmmm.. The greatest laurel of a woman is a Husband.......NwaAmaikpe (2019) 5 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by bepositive11: 7:53pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Very true OP. The irony |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by bepositive11: 7:58pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: Not all women give out their number to strangers and spread their legs any how. It's women with low sense of self worth who do that. Do you think all married women are happy? Women in marriage often go through really tough times more often than not. Women earning well with high sense of self worth feel that they don't need a man. If they decide to be with a man, they have very high standards. On the other hand, a woman who doesn't earn well with low self worth will go for any man with money. 9 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Jodha(f): 8:02pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Drawing into conclusion just like that. ... |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by iamyemiakins(m): 8:20pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Some women get married and then divorce in no time just to bear the man's (sur)name and carry it for life. Sounds odd uhn? Different strokes for different folks! 2 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Savedday: 8:22pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it. In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them! 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by TalkTalkTwins(m): 8:22pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by iamyemiakins(m): 8:23pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Doesn't apply to most women in the western world tho |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by siofra(f): 8:24pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
As a Nigerian girl I don't know if I want to get married someday but I sure don't want kids. |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by BuyAndSellStuff: 8:39pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: Wow You are the elder here bros. Everything you just stated is on point. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by BuyAndSellStuff: 8:40pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
[s] bepositive11:[/s] You must have comprehension problems because everything you said from your 2nd paragraph is exactly what he said. 9 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Agricaddict(m): 8:41pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Marriage doesn't have to be about money, it should primarily be about love and compatibility. But the economic situation in Nigeria is life threatening, even the men you are talking about are underemployed, most of us are not living, we are surviving The truth few people understand is the psychological aspect, the emotional support, women need men and vice versa A lot of women feel alone even with money, lonely feeling is worse than what people see it for Everyone needs someone, that's the reality, and it doesn't have anything to do with finance, but to keep the mental health intact 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Lovelyperson(m): 9:05pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
siofra:Please may I ask why u don't want children? |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 9:17pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
bepositive11:Your explanation still boils down to the same thing I'm saying |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Ikwerelastborn: 9:18pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
siofra:Social media talk to sound woke while you're secretly wishing 5 Likes |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Judybash93(m): 9:19pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Lovelyperson:
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Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by NewBeijing(f): 9:30pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Broda marry for the right reasons and not marry for what you just think |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by Loveknitting: 9:33pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
iamyemiakins: Wow, As a woman I feel so degraded. |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by siofra(f): 10:09pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn: Not every girl or woman wants kids. Thanks. |
Re: This Is Actually Why Most Women Want To Get Married by DaInferno(m): 10:31pm On Jun 19, 2021 |
...am not marrying a woman who will leave me to take care of everything 1 Like |
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