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What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by obembet(f): 8:05pm On Jun 25, 2021
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by PlayMaker14: 8:06pm On Jun 25, 2021
Beautiful Face does not translate to Good Character....

You might have a beautiful face, pointed breast, and curvy ass as a wife, but when your character is like the face of Adams Oshiomhole, then I assure you that your husband will not just have a side chic to cool off, but also make her the queen of his heart.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by neonly: 8:17pm On Jun 25, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Beautiful Face does not translate to Good Character....

You might have a beautiful face, pointed breast, and curvy ass as a wife, but when your character is like the face of Adams Oshiomhole, then I assure you that your husband will not just have a side chic to cool off, but also make her the queen of his heart.





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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by 3verblazing(m): 8:18pm On Jun 25, 2021
Bc Nature has made it like that ...

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by DaddyRochie1642: 8:22pm On Jun 25, 2021
PlayMaker14:
Beautiful Face does not translate to Good Character....

You might have a beautiful face, pointed breast, and curvy ass as a wife, but when your character is like the face of Adams Oshiomhole, then I assure you that your husband will not just have a side chic to cool off, but also make her the queen of his heart.





Wise man
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by donbachi(m): 8:29pm On Jun 25, 2021
When She turns her home into a battlefield.Though,not in support of a cheating spouse.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by jidamsel43(m): 8:32pm On Jun 25, 2021
All men are potentially polygamous. No married man would say he never admired another lady except his wife. The so-called men of God could probably have a fantasy for sexual escapades but are being restricted by religious doctrine and personal disposition. No man should blame the man because all men are tigers and the tiger will always exhibit their tigerish attitude. Something must kill a man. I come in peace

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by nifemi25(m): 8:33pm On Jun 25, 2021
When your wife suddenly becomes a witch over night.imagine been scared going home after several hours at work...

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by fati2001(m): 8:42pm On Jun 25, 2021
lolz..

he, Devil and his GOD are making a decision for wher to settle down based on the life he live when he was alive ..

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:51pm On Jun 25, 2021
@obembet

There are several reasons but I'll limit it to two, it works for sexes;

1. Fulfilment; you see when a man cannot connect to his lady emotionally and be vulnerable before her without her judging him in the negative and they both work on whatever limitations he/she has, that relationship will lack a sense of fulfilment.

To everyman, there's what love means to him, for me it's saying something and doing it (acts of service), I value that a lot, for some it's gift, for some quality time, for some sex, for some good words. It's a woman duty to find out what loves mean to her husband and diligently do it, likewise the men to their wives.

you can be as beautiful as whatever, if you lack the ability to bring fulfilment, respect and character to the table forget it, there will always be a void in that relationship and if the man finds it outside off he goes.

2. The supernatural factor: a man can be all nice and good and well meaning, but either by ignorance, allegiance or disobedience he has opened up himself for spiritual access (i.e a spirit will come and have an abode in him/her and assist them carry out it's trait).

By this I mean, you will see some chronic womanizers or drunks that can never change, their appetite defies logic, even though they want to stop, by any of those three factors mentioned above, a spirit is assisting them against their will, they cannot stop.


There's a way to treat both case's, but I want to stay on topic. When we look closely one of those factors was responsible for that man's early exit.

It is only well with what ends well.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:52pm On Jun 25, 2021
fati2001:
lolz..

he, Devil and his GOD are making a decision for wher to settle down based on the life he live when he was alive ..

Lols

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jun 25, 2021
The same reason married women fucck outside and give birth to bastard children. The wife may even be fuccking one small boy in Abuja or is it because today's news is about her husband? Enough of this news please.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Vinnie2000(m): 9:24pm On Jun 25, 2021
@OP Obembet!!
I must comment on your Post!!
I always follow your football news..
Kudos!!

On the Topic!!
Married men in Naija and all over the world mostly cheat on dier wives due to...
WOMEN!!

No married man on his wedding day thought he would cheat..

But you see una Vagina pple... sad cheesy
Dey/Una are too Tempting!! Putting on tight, revealing clothes and Exposing Boobs, yanch, camel toes, Navel,etc everywhere!!

Only poor married men find it easy to be Faithful!!

As a Rich married man of Under 40, Girls will not allow you rest particularly if you have Lexus, GLK, 4Matic, Corolla,etc..

Even small small 14 yrs old SS1 girls would sometimes Eye you lustfully n be rolling dier young boobs n Ass, wen talking to you..

So, Dats it!!

To be FaithFul ain't Easy oo!! : smiley
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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:25am On Jun 26, 2021
obembet:
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44

Know this and know peace!!!
The day u realise that men and women are different,ur life would be easier....men have no value when they're born unlike women that have value..our sexual market value,the things u women want in a man takes time for men to achieve..whereas for women,ur sexual market value is ur femininity,being fit,friendly,an asset not a liability....women don't date down, they're always after above average guys,6ft tall,more than 6figures,confident etc...how many Nigerian men do u think have this quality? Probably like 10%...if a man belongs to the 10% category,many women want him cos there are less of him and more of u beautiful women...at this stage a man has an abundance mindset...he may marry but he will smash other girls which is strictly man's nature...it means nothing to a man to just burst a nut..men have sex detached..but a woman can't..she has to have an emotional connection..if a woman can have sex detached then she's a HOE....

What all this means is that,u can't hold men to the same standard for loyalty,cos men had to create their value,but women have to preserve their value cos they were born with it....a man shows loyalty to a woman by providing security, comfort, stability being ready to defend and die for his wife...but a woman shows loyalty by simply being faithful

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Divoc19(f): 10:34am On Jun 26, 2021
1. High libido.
2. Equating sex to food (if you travel away
from home, you must eat outside your
home).
3. Not committed to marriage vow.
4. No fear of Almighty God and spiritual laws
5. Lack of self control.
6. Seeing women as sex objects.

Forget about money.
obembet:

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by StubbornGENIUS: 11:43am On Jun 26, 2021
I would've said that the chief reason is lack of fear of God,but then David,a man after God's own heart,also cheated.


Even if you're married to an ageless angel, Once a cheater,always a cheater.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by SeniorGee(m): 12:16pm On Jun 26, 2021
I will blame it chiefly on lack or not enough of self control. Nonetheless, the attitude of the other half is equally a factor. If he was satisfied emotionally, sexually and otherwise by his wife then he has himself to blame. If not, he's just unfortunate. As for the chick, she knows exactly what she's doing. Let her face the music

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Nobody: 12:20pm On Jun 26, 2021
Dear men, if you most marry, get married to a woman you are older than with @ least 10yrs e get why!!!

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Unik3030: 1:30pm On Jun 26, 2021
obembet:
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
many people don't understand that for every beautiful girl out there,a guy somewhere is tired of strafing her.she looks beautiful n heavenly to u because u have never been there,once u have been there too u will get tired with time.

It's just the law of nature n law of diminishing returns, that beautiful girl u chyke for months n u wish u could have her for the rest of your life,after she agree n she becomes yours with time u will want to have a taste of something different.

It only takes grace ooo
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by SenecaTheYonger: 2:05pm On Jun 26, 2021
The truth will break you.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by LadyRosa(f): 2:10pm On Jun 26, 2021
Nigerian men do not actually like good women. They prefer them because of their ego, at least a good woman can be submissive, industrious, calm, cool headed, etc but the truth is that's what they want and not what they need.
That explains why the good wives tends to be with the bad husbands.

An average Nigeria man's _penis is a community property and wise women treats it as such. _When the /penis reach your side, use it to your utmost satisfaction and leave it for the next user, but never lower your standard for any man. Pursue your career and be the best at what you do. Make waves and soon just like it is in civilized countries, a time will come when the cops will start keeping them out in streets at night with a pillow, an erected _dick and maybe a cheap bar of soap to help them with that pain from accumulated konji.

My advice to Nigeria girls is not to pretend to be good, if you're bad show it, if you like money show it, if you like to _4ck well well don't pretend about it, because you will definitely get a nice guy who 'wishes to save you from yourself'.Truth is, in their contact list, there are two or more that don't need saving, but they prefer to watch and lust after the ones that upload filtered nude skins. They want to be the savior for bad girls, another way of exercising their superiority over you. Because I wonder why you will have something good at home to chase after something nasty outside.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by evil1: 2:20pm On Jun 26, 2021
obembet:
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
Lack of communication

Low vibes

Low sex urge from any of the spouses at every intimacy.

Nagging wife ( could make a man or woman go out for peace of mind and in the process find peace in another woman's bossom)

Failing love

Loss of attention from any or either spouses

The reasons are more according to individual issues.
I have even encountered a man cheating as a result of the fact that his wife can't cook good meal, she's the show off material type.

But what ever it is, It takes grace to be faithful to one partner.
Me I believe this whole marital cheating thing can be avoided only by good moral self principle and discipline.
And I HV so tried and practice self discipline and principle for years that nothing can take me away from someone I'm with.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by loadedvibes: 2:22pm On Jun 26, 2021
Make Una rest for this man matter.. shuu he is now more popular in death. Na cheat him cheat no be him cause Nigeria problem
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by HELLASJ: 3:29pm On Jun 26, 2021
Being promiscuous isn't about having a good wife, it's already in some husband's DNA, it could be hereditary, it could be as a result of living a wayward life at tender age and lack of patience

Commitment isn't easy, it's for the strong.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by DMerciful(m): 4:11pm On Jun 26, 2021
Girlfriends are more fun than wives many atimes. Gfs wanna make you happy probably because of your money or to prove to you that they're better than your wife but some wives see it as a duty else they'll not do it.....not out of romance certainly.

But again...our wise forefathers married multiple wives...now we know they were actually wise because the effect of one man one wife is many unmarried women competing with the married ones, many sexually starved men because most women sexual drive is so low that you need several women to satisfy one man. Imagine not getting sex atleast twice a week and the wife will ask if sex is food. Is there any organ in your body you don't use everyday? Sex should be like 2 times per week and according to expert, to reduce the possibility of prostate cancer, sex should be 22 times per month. Can one wife handle this? Our forefathers were very wise.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by bigpicture001: 4:30pm On Jun 26, 2021
...the cheating thing by men are not entirely to blame them...women's only love is for money...

So when you get money u have fun with many of them,since non of them will look at ur face with genuine love if you don't have money
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Mrscarter(f): 7:32am On Jun 27, 2021
Vinnie2000:


@OP Obembet!!
I must comment on your Post!!
I always follow your football news..
Kudos!!

On the Topic!!
Married men in Naija and all over the world mostly cheat on dier wives due to...
WOMEN!!

No married man on his wedding day thought he would cheat..

But you see una Vagina pple... sad cheesy
Dey/Una are too Tempting!! Putting on tight, revealing clothes and Exposing Boobs, yanch, camel toes, Navel,etc everywhere!!

Only poor married men find it easy to be Faithful!!

As a Rich married man of Under 40, Girls will not allow you rest particularly if you have Lexus, GLK, 4Matic, Corolla,etc..

Even small small 14 yrs old SS1 girls would sometimes Eye you lustfully n be rolling dier young boobs n Ass, wen talking to you..

So, Dats it!!

To be FaithFul ain't Easy oo!! : smiley
.

Lol. So if u see yummy food n u already ate ur own food do it mean u must go chop again cos it looks nice. Same thing u chop ur wife then u see a sexy gal u go chop her cos she look gud? Na u need learn control my guy lol
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Mrscarter(f): 7:39am On Jun 27, 2021
obembet:
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44

I think it can be when a woman doesnt give her man peace of mind or becomes constantly diffucult. Some deny their husbands sex for stupid reasons. So if u be like that u gonna drive ur man away n he will find those thinfs in another woman. A woman should do everything to make her husband content. Make him love being at home n look forward to coming home from work or wherever. Keep ur home happy n fun and ur sex life exciting n be everything he could want n he shouldnt stray. A happy husband will keep a happy wife.
Both partners should put in effort tho.
Be faithful. Loyal. Make each other laugh make each other comfortable n at ease give each other peace of mind n be the one each of you want to be near whenever u feel down or sad or lost aswell as the one to lift each other up and make each other laugh.
Some ppl have this tho n still cheat. So sometimes it can be about the individual cheating n nothing at all with their partner.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:15am On Jun 27, 2021
Men are polygamous in nature..
Kiss d truth..
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by SenecaTheYonger: 10:29am On Jun 27, 2021
LadyRosa:
[s]Nigerian men do not actually like good women. They prefer them because of their ego, at least a good woman can be submissive, industrious, calm, cool headed, etc but the truth is that's what they want and not what they need.
That explains why the good wives tends to be with the bad husbands.

An average Nigeria man's _penis is a community property and wise women treats it as such. _When the /penis reach your side, use it to your utmost satisfaction and leave it for the next user, but never lower your standard for any man. Pursue your career and be the best at what you do. Make waves and soon just like it is in civilized countries, a time will come when the cops will start keeping them out in streets at night with a pillow, an erected _dick and maybe a cheap bar of soap to help them with that pain from accumulated konji.

My advice to Nigeria girls is not to pretend to be good, if you're bad show it, if you like money show it, if you like to _4ck well well don't pretend about it, because you will definitely get a nice guy who 'wishes to save you from yourself'.Truth is, in their contact list, there are two or more that don't need saving, but they prefer to watch and lust after the ones that upload filtered nude skins. They want to be the savior for bad girls, another way of exercising their superiority over you. Because I wonder why you will have something good at home to chase after something nasty outside.[/s]




Emotional trash. One size never fits all.

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Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by SenecaTheYonger: 10:32am On Jun 27, 2021
DMerciful:
Girlfriends are more fun than wives many atimes. Gfs wanna make you happy probably because of your money or to prove to you that they're better than your wife but some wives see it as a duty else they'll not do it.....not out of romance certainly.

But again...our wise forefathers married multiple wives...now we know they were actually wise because the effect of one man one wife is many unmarried women coming with the married ones, many sexually starved men because most women sexual drive is so low that you need several women to satisfy one man. Imagine not getting sex atleast twice a week and the wife will ask if sex is food. Is there any organ in your body you don't use everyday? Sex should be like 2 times per week and according to expert, to reduce the possibility of prostate cancer, sex should be 22 times per month. Can one wife handle this? Our forefathers were very wise.

We’re our forefathers also wise for keeping women in the kitchen?
Re: What Exactly Could Lead A Man Into Extramarital Affairs Even Though He Has Wife by Nobody: 11:15am On Jun 27, 2021
obembet:
Sometimes I wonder if woman have different body that makes some men leave thier beautiful and good wife for another lady outside. The issue of extramarital affair has lead many men into early death and destroyed many homes.

Most of this men promise heaven and Earth before their wife consider them among other suitors but still pay the wife back with one side Chick.

The case of Super TV CEO and Nigerian billionaire Michael Usifo Ataga is a big case study which I keep thinking how can a man be that bless with that kind of beautiful wife and still looking for one small girl outside, the wife is more preetier than the small girl which lead to his death.

Most men abandoned thier home for one girl that doesn't worth thier wife maid.

So this is what I keep asking my self what exactly do men want and is there any way to please them?

What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

Lalasticlala
Seun
mynd44
OP make I tell you why some men dey cheat.
A man cheats when his wife gives him serious problems, for the fun of it ( no strings attached), because of peer pressure, because his wife lost her package, because s3x is too cheap now adays, because his wife can't meet his high libido, because he was abused when he was younger. These are the main reasons why men cheat

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