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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by skondo09(m): 4:06pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:
forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous



What are you saying..... infidelity b4 marriage, then such forgiveness is a choice dt shldnt be considered sef, even in marriage, it's still a choice

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by nijaomegacode(m): 4:13pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:


He is not stupid, but mature,loves trust and understand me grin grin grin grin grin, u also have people u can' beat ur chest that they are incapable of doing certain things, but be careful with ur utterances and not make assumptions like I have done something like this before..u will give account for even ur careless words in heaven
You're not serious. A woman went to fvck her ex and you're here tellin me about trust.
Do you know why I have lived this long?
It's simple- I don't truth women!

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by DrayZee: 4:13pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:


I am not siding with the woman, I am profering a solution that wld make sense if the husband truly loved and understand his partner..the issue has already happened, it's not me to call her olosho and advise the man to let her go
Yeah, that would make sense...if the man hadn't given his solution of cutting the ex off (via change of number) only for the woman to refuse. No single speck of accountability on her part. You're only talking about the husband loving, understanding and forgiving his partner...nothing about the woman who isn't ready to do a single one of those for him.
The woman should do whatever she feels like and if the husband doesn't love and forgive, then he's "not ready for marriage"? If that's the case then it's good that he's not ready.
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Edusouls(m): 4:57pm On Jul 01
Shut up �, umunwayi Ndi iberibe, she went to her ex boyfriend house to do what? To Bleep Abby? Or she just went there for sight seeing? She didn’t say it, but somehow she got caught.well I like my fellow mans decision marriage is over, men have gone wiser now, you girls are completely useless..
HRHQueenPhil:


What a reprobate mouth u have, how dare u judge her and make aspersions abt her wen u never caught her cheating on him, she was honest to tell him we're she went to ...many wld not..I pray u will face d same accusations like this and lose that precious thing u love so much

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Homguy(m): 5:12pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:


Mr importer, I will never allow him break up with the lady, she was honest and made a mistake..if he dosent have trust and understand his woman, he shldnt have engage her
you realize it's about 100% likely they had s3x again when she visited weeks to her wedding right? I don't know if you are just acting naive, do you realize if she did this just weeks to her wedding that she would have no qualms going to visit him after marriage when hubby travels? Would you act in this way? Yes or No? Before you answer remember the internet never forgets.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by larryking540: 6:17pm On Jul 01
Belafonte:
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode



You're either trolling or naive. The mature thing for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.
like the popular saying you can't eat your cake and have it back ,,,she is still single for 1 particular reason, Bec she is foolish ,the ex didn't marry ,why revist him again,and am very sure the ex is already a baby daddy to another lady
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by MENTORCH(m): 6:22pm On Jul 01
lilvicky68:
Maybe she went to do send forth..

Lmao, naked send forth.
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by larryking540: 6:23pm On Jul 01
Edusouls:
Shut up �, umunwayi Ndi iberibe, she went to her ex boyfriend house to do what? To Bleep Abby? Or she just went there for sight seeing? She didn’t say it, but somehow she got caught.well I like my fellow mans decision marriage is over, men have gone wiser now, you girls are completely useless..
the harsh truth which most ladies still fail to accept is ,most guys have move past the stage of ,u delaying to give him a chance he Moves on , you don't call ,my dear he moves on also , Bec the internet has made it obvious the deceptive life most ladies live ,,,I tell or advice ladies it's better you stay truth to a guy if u do runs just let him know before he finds out , that u do coded runs , atleast he will decide if it's to move on ,from that very day the relationship has ended but still rolling
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Gfskw: 6:25pm On Jul 01
Unfinished sexxxz bizness
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by pappilo(m): 6:36pm On Jul 01
andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Marriage..... The ting wey my eye see ehn.... My ex wife I was married to for 14 years and been with over 23 years testified against me in court today as a supporting witness to the man who destroyed our home.

23 years! Been together since we were teenagers and all it took was for one guy to turn her head and that was it. Possibly heading to gaol in the next week if found guilty. 2 decades in the abroad, no fraud conviction, no driving conviction, no theft conviction, only to be convicted for 'love'

It still feels like a dream. Fear women. Tell him to preserve his life and not sign it away.
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 6:39pm On Jul 01
Homguy:
you realize it's about 100% likely they had s3x again when she visited weeks to her wedding right? I don't know if you are just acting naive, do you realize if she did this just weeks to her wedding that she would have no qualms going to visit him after marriage when hubby travels? Would you act in this way? Yes or No? Before you answer remember the internet never forgets.

So u asked a girl out and she agreed, d both of u had sex ..u did not call her back and she starts shouting rape, everyone looks at u saying u raped her..dats exactly what u are doing here..assuming she fvcks her ex,...all my ex and I are still friends and my face will always light up wen I see them, I have never crossed their threshold after I broke up
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 6:40pm On Jul 01
Edusouls:
Shut up �, umunwayi Ndi iberibe, she went to her ex boyfriend house to do what? To Bleep Abby? Or she just went there for sight seeing? She didn’t say it, but somehow she got caught.well I like my fellow mans decision marriage is over, men have gone wiser now, you girls are completely useless..
I hope u won't mind when ur daughters are also treated like thrash
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 6:42pm On Jul 01
nijaomegacode:

You're not serious. A woman went to fvck her ex and you're here tellin me about trust.
Do you know why I have lived this long?
It's simple- I don't truth women!
. U don't trust women grin grin grin grin grin better don't marry or have any woman cook for u, ekwensu
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 6:44pm On Jul 01
skondo09:




What are you saying..... infidelity b4 marriage, then such forgiveness is a choice dt shldnt be considered sef, even in marriage, it's still a choice

Watch ur utterances and be careful what u say, how dare u accuse her of fvcking her ex..may someone never accuse u falsely
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Coolgent: 6:46pm On Jul 01
andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?
To be honest with you...
Your friend should quit and search for a decent lady.
This is a clear indication that she may not be faithful after the wedding.
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Coolgent: 6:47pm On Jul 01
Womanizer:
I'm sure the friend activated Okafor's Law when the babe came to visit him
Okafor's Law?
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by goslowgoslow(m): 6:58pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:
. U are the kid here sir, it seems u don't know the concept of love, forgiveness, trust and understanding ur spouse
I am not surprised you are a woman and your comments shows that you are the cheating type. Concept of love and understanding my foot! You are quoting what you don't even understand. Even the Bible makes it clear that you can choose to divorce a cheating woman, so if I choose not to forgive does that mean I don't understand the concept of love?
Unfaithful women every where.
Meanwhile I am suspecting you to be SAPPHIRE with a different moniker, she also spew thrash like you just did.
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Franklydes(m): 7:04pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
stop saying nonsense. He has forgiven but won't start a marriage on such faulty grounds. You women are wicked abeg. So as person decide to marry you you still want do nonsense, old age no dey taya you
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Franklydes(m): 7:05pm On Jul 01
IbnBattuta1960:

I don't want to believe that you are the monster you are trying to portray.
How can she go to her ex's house? To play ludo? She has no regards for the relationship and as such be disengaged.
word
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Nnecky(f): 7:23pm On Jul 01
moriss33:
Oga abeg disengage 4rm dat marriage cuz it will end premium tears.
If she was so bored, she 4 go see her female friends to gist & help her plan her wedding.
No lady who is to be wed in a month's time is that bored..cuz there are plenty things to do.
She jejely went to collect kpekus 4rm her boyfriend & she only agreed to marry you cuz u are ready,rich & u reside in the US.
She is still dating that guy & maybe they are in cahoots.
Nigerian girls do not visit a man's house if dey don't want to.
Abeg 4 ur sake...just cancel the marriage & go back to the US.

You're the only one that said something reasonable without generalising all Nigerian ladies ad hoes unlike others that were spewing thrash from their mouths
Weldon
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Alabaintprice(m): 7:54pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:


Watch ur utterances and be careful what u say, how dare u accuse her of fvcking her ex..may someone never accuse u falsely

My friend, will you just stop disgracing yourself here.

What are you even talking about.

What will a lady who has few weeks to her wedding be visiting her ex for....

You say she told him she was going there.... Read well, HE FOUND OUT.
You seem like one of those wayward girls that hover from one dick to another .. irresponsible gender.

This is why you people grow old due to the rubbish y'all do.

I wonder how someone in his or her right sense will see such and agree to it.

She got bored, and the best place to kill boredom is her ex's house.
A woman who has a wedding to organise will never get bored instead she gets exhausted and needs rest.

What do you take the young man as, a fool or a baby who you'd tell such silly stories to.

Don't sound like a broken record and at the same time stop saying nonsense here. You just presenting yourself as an irresponsible wayward lady

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by kechywillz(m): 8:07pm On Jul 01
To find better wife these are very though,especially the ones that will remain loyal
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Megatron77(f): 8:58pm On Jul 01
shamsin6300:


So you una even get market
No go marry. grin
ehn we get market...every single girl is in the market including ur sisters. just so u'll knw ur mom was once in the market too and i will get married when the time is right. okay??

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Megatron77(f): 9:00pm On Jul 01
Enwhen:
author=Megatron77 post=103207542]Ur friend picked the wisest option and for the lady she jst displayed the lowest of the low qualities ever recorded. asin who visits their ex after being engaged na dem de coz bad market 4 us.... lols I feel u... jst continue 2 be a good gal, good man wil come 4 u
Ameno ameno
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Edusouls(m): 9:02pm On Jul 01
Hei shut up, this stupid girl messed up and you foolish women are here defending her? Just because she is a woman or what? So what she did is good or what? I don’t understand how women’s brains work? No wonder people call u people fish brains
HRHQueenPhil:
I hope u won't mind when ur daughters are also treated like thrash

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Qatar2022: 9:06pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:
stop throwing aspersions and accusing her falsely, she did not fvck the man, her only blame was being honest with her fiancee
Really? I love what the guy do because if I'm in his shoes I will do the same thing
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Prince001(m): 9:16pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:

The only thing I will do is to wipe her tears and tell her to sing for joy that they did not marry..marrying a man dat does not trust u and understand ur person is entering into depression

Oh I got ur mentality! Trust by going to Ex for comfort!
People earn trust not right!
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Prince001(m): 9:19pm On Jul 01
HRHQueenPhil:


Please learn how to forgive , d devil can use it to send u to hell, pray to have d spirit of forgiveness and don't use other people issues to generalise..u are more matured than that

Anyway I don't believe in all devil make me do something anyway. I'm a realist! I don't generalised only talking from experience and I said most not all!
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by godliman: 5:40am On Jul 02
HRHQueenPhil:
forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous
Forgiveness? Does God forgive without acknowledgement of sin and repentance? Has she owned up? She is there lying and you are here preaching forgiveness you don't understand. If a friend who always visits your house in your absence steals from your, even if you forgave, will you still give that fellow your Keys? Who says he cannot forgive and still cancel the marriage?
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:18am On Jul 02
godliman:
Forgiveness? Does God forgive without acknowledgement of sin and repentance? Has she owned up? She is there lying and you are here preaching forgiveness you don't understand. If a friend who always visits your house in your absence steals from your, even if you forgave, will you still give that fellow your Keys? Who says he cannot forgive and still cancel the marriage?

And why are u forming accuser of the brethren? Is it becos u are not friends with ur ex, dat means anyone that is friends with their ex is now cheating, stop accusing falsely and give her the benefit of doubt..if she is lying, her God will judge her not u
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:20am On Jul 02
Prince001:


Oh I got ur mentality! Trust by going to Ex for comfort!
People earn trust not right!
then if he felt she has not earned his trust, he shld never have put a ring on it
Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:21am On Jul 02
Qatar2022:

Really? I love what the guy do because if I'm in his shoes I will do the same thing
if he loved what he did, he won't come to nairaland to talk about it and u won't do same becos not all women are dumb to do such a thing

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