rully2:

I live in Nigeria, and a Nigerian, and there are usually mixed reactions when people at first sight a girl with a white man, like they cant be dating

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: Why would you assume that she is a proṡtitute? When you see a black man with a white woman do you automatically think that he is a gigolo?

Blood_Shed:

Most, if not all women are sluts anyway , color is irrelevant.

For pete's sake its 2011.

rully2:


And what makes every woman a slut

Inked_Nerd:

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I can't really say I know the exact feeling since I don't live in Naija but I do have an idea what you mean. There's a former teacher of mine that I visit every once in a while so when people see me with him they usually state to make assumptions about the nature of m relationship to him. Little do they know, the man is like a father to me.

Blood_Shed:

Men can't get in unless a woman allows them. If different keys open the same door then that's a useless lock. Either that or the gatekeeper is giving everyone a free pass .

rully2:


That still does'nt justify it, can u say your girlfriend or wife is a slut then, cos im sure u're not the first one she mite have given a ''free pass''   

rully2:

But U WILL  get married in the end, u'll see, at least for the sake of it  

rully2:

Its so 'unafrican' not to

rully2:

What's there that's too much to loose, is it freedom to date other women, or the fear of being committed? i just dont get it

Inked_Nerd:


It doesn't cross your mind that the white guy loves the black girl? One black men can be loved?

Lord_Reed:

It rarely does. Funny huh?

rully2:

Well, u will definitely get the nagging, cos most women do nag (truth), but abt the others u cant run away from marriage for those reasons, cos somehow, it will still come back to u, the society is always harsh, and if u choose not too spend your time and finances on raising children or spending it on family, then what will u do with it,

Well i am not yet about to convince u into something u're totally not into