I live alone and introvert for that matter. People around think I need someone but the truth is I don't because I'm used to such live for years. Here is the problem sometimes I feel lovely and need a girl to come by and stay. But once a girl comes and stay with me for just few days she will begin to irritate me and I would be wishing she goes. Although I will not act or feel like I want her to go but I just want her to go on her own. And after they goes I get relieved and feel like throwing a party. The house will begin to sweet me once again.

But after some time I will miss her again.

I really don't know how guys manage to live with a woman. I think it has to do with territorial. I'm a territorial and spiritual person most guy are not and they believe they woman have the house or something like that.

Is there anyone else like me?

The best option is to have a second room. So you can have time for yourself, chill, relax and do your own thing.

The only female allowed to sleep over is my mum, sister, niece, cousin, or wife. Girlfriends have no rights.

You're so drawn inwards, probably because of your introverted nature.

Someone I know was a bit like you. She used to get tired of people easily. If you visit her today, tomorrow, she's already tired.

We asked her how she would cope with a husband. That maybe she would marry a man that would just be visiting her. Behold, she married a sailor. He's usually away for 6months at a stretch

ImaIma1:
Someone I know was a bit like you. She used to get tired of people easily. If you visit her today, tomorrow, she's already tired.

We asked her how she would cope with a husband. That maybe she would marry a man that would just be visiting her. Behold, she married a sailor. He's usually away for 6months at a stretch

What a marriage! Married but single.

I was like that before. You need someone you'd truly fall in love with, someone you find both character and physical appearance attractive, that's when you'd realize you can't do without her.

harmargedon:
I was like that before. You need someone you'd truly fall in love with, someone you find both character and physical appearance attractive, that's when you'd realize you can't do without her.

how and when with all the girls I have seen.

fineboynl:
how and when with all the girls I gave seen.

keep searching, you'll surely find one.

Damn Niggar!!!!!!
Guess you marry and live separately with your wife

fineboynl:
I live alone and introvert for that matter. People around think I need someone but the truth is I don't because I'm used to such live for years. Here is the problem sometimes I feel lovely and need a girl to come by and stay. But once a girl comes and stay with me for just few days she will begin to irritate me and I would be wishing she goes. Although I will not act or feel like I want her to go but I just want her to go on her own. And after they goes I get relieved and feel like throwing a party. The house will begin to sweet me once again.

But after some time I will miss her again.

I really don't know how guys manage to live with a woman. I think it has to do with territorial. I'm a territorial and spiritual person most guy are not and they believe they woman have the house or something like that.

Is there anyone else like me?

it's not about the women. You will still experience the same with a male roommate because you like personal space and privacy

That's exactly my nature, I easily get fed up with girls..

bigjackass:
it's not about the women. You will still experience the same with a male roommate because you like personal space and privacy

you are right

me self na both male and female

fineboynl:
I live alone and introvert for that matter. People around think I need someone but the truth is I don't because I'm used to such live for years. Here is the problem sometimes I feel lovely and need a girl to come by and stay. But once a girl comes and stay with me for just few days she will begin to irritate me and I would be wishing she goes. Although I will not act or feel like I want her to go but I just want her to go on her own. And after they goes I get relieved and feel like throwing a party. The house will begin to sweet me once again.

But after some time I will miss her again.

I really don't know how guys manage to live with a woman. I think it has to do with territorial. I'm a territorial and spiritual person most guy are not and they believe they woman have the house or something like that.

Is there anyone else like me?

I can relate bro. I am in 30s and have lived this way most of my life. I have dated in the past and often feel depleted when they stay around for a while.

I dont hate women, Its just that being with a woman is alot of work for me ( attention, care ) , however if I can get a lady to understand me for me. I will be happy.

I have found so much peace away from women , that Its hard for me to think I risk losing it by allowing another human in my space.

fineboynl:
I live alone and introvert for that matter. People around think I need someone but the truth is I don't because I'm used to such live for years. Here is the problem sometimes I feel lovely and need a girl to come by and stay. But once a girl comes and stay with me for just few days she will begin to irritate me and I would be wishing she goes. Although I will not act or feel like I want her to go but I just want her to go on her own. And after they goes I get relieved and feel like throwing a party. The house will begin to sweet me once again.

But after some time I will miss her again.

I really don't know how guys manage to live with a woman. I think it has to do with territorial. I'm a territorial and spiritual person most guy are not and they believe they woman have the house or something like that.

Is there anyone else like me?

I know and recognize that feeling very well, although "irritate" is not the word I'd use... It's more like you just get tired of playing husband & wife with them.

Don't worry, a time will come when it won't matter how long your "she" decides to stay.

You will eventually learn to carry on like she's not there anymore even while she's still very present – that is how I do it...

Hmmn.

Sometimes I think hypothetically to when Adam was created. He seemed to be cool, playing with the animals, tilling the ground and flexing.

When eve came, he was glad to see her, someone to enjoy with bla bla bla...

Then satan used her , they all fell.

Had kids, cain killed abel... bla bla bla.


I am sure Adam must have relished the time he was alone by himself,


Thats by the way, women do you feel this way sometimes too,

fineboynl:
I live alone and introvert for that matter. People around think I need someone but the truth is I don't because I'm used to such live for years. Here is the problem sometimes I feel lovely and need a girl to come by and stay. But once a girl comes and stay with me for just few days she will begin to irritate me and I would be wishing she goes. Although I will not act or feel like I want her to go but I just want her to go on her own. And after they goes I get relieved and feel like throwing a party. The house will begin to sweet me once again.

But after some time I will miss her again.

I really don't know how guys manage to live with a woman. I think it has to do with territorial. I'm a territorial and spiritual person most guy are not and they believe they woman have the house or something like that.

Is there anyone else like me?

I see you having a baby mama, I see your baby mama not living with you....

I see you visiting them once in a month....

This I have see

okay

Happened to me....till i met d love of my life

Smile4mee01:
Sometimes I think hypothetically to when Adam was created. He seemed to be cool, playing with the animals, tilling the ground and flexing.

When eve came, he was glad to see her, someone to enjoy with bla bla bla...

Then satan used her , they all fell.

Had kids, cain killed abel... bla bla bla.


I am sure Adam must have relished the time he was alone by himself,


Thats by the way, women do you feel this way sometimes too,

Yes, we do. Many people like to be by themselves, at least every now and then.

I have a male friend whose age is 43 and feels the same way as the Op. It's good that you discover yourself... And not making a lady feel she's hated by you, after marrying her. I suggest you get a baby Mama for yourself when the time comes to keeping it real

ImaIma1:
Someone I know was a bit like you. She used to get tired of people easily. If you visit her today, tomorrow, she's already tired.

We asked her how she would cope with a husband. That maybe she would marry a man that would just be visiting her. Behold, she married a sailor. He's usually away for 6months at a stretch

Wow! God knoweth... God answereth

At some point, you would learn to adapt if you think it is necessary. Most of us have our solitary moments and both parties understanding this really helps. What it means is that your solitary moments will be shorter than it used to be.

Yea. I'm trying to change.

Like someone rightly pointed out, it's generally about getting fed up with the presence of humans and not girls in particular.

It's the life you have lived over time that you have gotten used to it. When you marry and have your family with you for some years, you will start feeling inadequate when they travel or leave you for a long time too.

It's about what you are used to.

I feel the same way too. Mine is not up to days, just don't even sleep over at all. Come, we do the do, and you go.

The perfect solution is to live in a multiple room apartment. That way, you can have your privacy while pretending as though the other person isn't there.

I have had several of my friends try to come live with me in my self contained apartment but I declined. It's better they say that you refused to let them in than saying you treated them badly in your house.

Dailyparrot:
Like someone rightly pointed out, it's generally about getting fed up with the presence of humans and not girls in particular.

It's the life you have lived over time that you have gotten used to it. When you marry and have your family with you for some years, you will start feeling inadequate when they travel or leave you for a long time too.

It's about what you are used to.

I feel the same way too. Mine is not up to days, just don't even sleep over at all. Come, we do the do, and you go.

The perfect solution is to live in a multiple room apartment. That way, you can have your privacy while pretending as though the other person isn't there.

I have had several of my friends try to come live with me in my self contained apartment but I declined. It's better they say that you refused to let them in than saying you treated them badly in your house.

thorpido:
You're so drawn inwards, probably because of your introverted nature.

Leave am, na him go tire

frozen70:


Leave am, na him go tire

He has to work on himself else his best option would be a baby mama who doesn't live with him.
This kind of issue stems from some lapses in developmental years.

thorpido:
He has to work on himself else his best option would be a baby mama who doesn't live with him.
This kind of issue stems from some lapses in developmental years.

His business my dear, its either he change his perception about women or live to deal with it

He is the problem he has a D he is the solution solution to it