You said it all when you said you run away from any discussions that has to do with marriage. The truth is that it's either you are not ready for marriage or you haven't met that special someone that will make you fall in love.

I can only advice you to enjoy every moment of your spinsterhood and do not let anyone pressure you in to doing something you are not ready for. Today marriage can be the last thing on your mind and tomorrow it might be the first since feelings can change with time. So don’t rush or be pressured.

Concerning one of your questions, just as feelings can change with time, so can two people who love themselves dearly can turn to enemies. That is why wisdom is required from both parties to keep the marriage.

For more advice, I have a counseling platform group so you can message me on WhatsApp +2348027024393 (Ortintin is my name)

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