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Emergency Letter to Single Men — To Be Deleted Soon... [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 12:25pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Yesterday, I read a post on Nairaland and the young man was complaining of a lady he proposed friendship to and the next day, she asked for 60k. Below is his post and the next is my blunt reply to him. Learn from it. 0brains: What were you expecting her to demand? Watermelon? Some men can be really silly. This is a modern world and you MUST have a modern brain or suffer. People smarter than you have put the wisdom in books, but you people don't read. You keep using the ancient approach. With modern approach to dating, you don't EVER ask a (Nigerian or foreign) woman out. If you do so, you're endangering your account balance and peace of mind. When you meet a new girl, tease her, be fun and witty, make her laugh, talk one or two naughty things, then give her some space to miss you. When you resurface, continued with the teasing, playfully looking for her trouble, share some funny and embarrassing stories, etc. The purpose is to trigger emotional connection. Now, start "ACTING" and treating her as your girlfriend WITHOUT asking her out like an ancient man. Modern men act while ancient men ask. The only time you should be an ancient man is when you've "acted" yourself into a relationship with her and you've done all the things boyfriends and girlfriends do and you know she loves you more than you love her. Now, it's time to ask her to be your wife — not girlfriend. The girlfriend stage doesn't require asking, but acting. The marriage proposal stage doesn't require acting, but asking. Know the difference and know peace. Read the book Mr. Friend zone to see how it's done. Download the free version here https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/download-mr-friendzone/ Also, read this short article I wrote on how to bypass a woman's demanding syndrome. Every man needs to read it. Link https://www.nairaland.com/5425745/women-how-bypass-womans-demanding Unfortunately, when most Nigerian men meet a new girl, they don't do the above — they start impressing and acting like a rich man. Why won't she demand? 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Emergency Letter to Single Men — To Be Deleted Soon... [Picture] by Xenry: 12:32pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Modern problems require modern solutions. Thanks for this. This can really make a girl to run crazy over you out of confusion. And she would eventually be the one to ask, "so what are we now?" 3 Likes |
Re: Emergency Letter to Single Men — To Be Deleted Soon... [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 1:03pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Xenry: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Emergency Letter to Single Men — To Be Deleted Soon... [Picture] by iLegendd(m): 1:19pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Abudu2000: If a woman can threaten your account balance, you need self-control and self-development before relationship. I have never seen a house built without a found and it lasted for 30 years. If you have, let me know. A child that skips exercising, but wants muscles and 6 packs is mad. 1 Like |
Re: Emergency Letter to Single Men — To Be Deleted Soon... [Picture] by latram4ever(m): 4:46pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
So people still dey propose to girls to be their girlfriends. Nawa o! |
Re: Emergency Letter to Single Men — To Be Deleted Soon... [Picture] by Abudu2000(m): 1:20am On Jul 14, 2021 |
iLegendd:u are still growing i think. if you ve been shown their true colours u will mellow. all those stories of relationship sagas, domestic violence, murders etc u frankly think u have selve control than them right? 1 Like |
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