ESenthusiast:


No not all. Neither geographically nor culturally.

BlakKluKluxKlan:
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Hello there.
How have you been. And your studies ?

I read that your country has offered some assistance to Ukraine in the ongoing conflict. That's very nice of your government..
I hope the war has not had any negative effect on you or your country ?
Pleaae what's the true situation of the war ?
Cheers.

obawinner:
What is your perception about inter racial marriage amongst finnish?

ESenthusiast:


Hello! Doing mostly good and studies are going ok.

Yes we have offered free university education and free public transport for example.

Number one topic right now is NATO which we will probably join by summer. Russia wont like it but i doubt they will take action.

War situation right now looks unclear. Russia is trying to capture the city of Mariupol but nobody knows how long the war will take.

ESenthusiast:


Hey!

Depends on the job. An immigrant can get a low paying job like uber driver/food delivery without a university degree pretty easily. But getting a good paying job is rather hard. you have to have a higher education and speak finnish well since most non international businesses here use finnish as a communication language.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


Thank you
So it's not really part of the Asian continent right?

TheSourcerer:
quick question , if I pay her every time we have sex , is she playing me ....? Is she really 'in love' with me ..? Or just the money .....

ESenthusiast:


Saunas are not about the weather it’s just a bathing thing. Our weather is horrible though and we only have 4 months of warm weather (late may-august).

Saunas are deeply rooted in finnish culture so we just undestand that its not ok to act weird in the saunas. Still there has been a few sexual harrasment incidents in public saunas. And yes we sit fully naked in saunas.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


That's prostitution
That's what spoilt everything , a wife or a girlfriend getting money everytime they have sex with you , that is total rubbish and the word for it is manipulation

The real reason why women are encouraged to be with men with the ability to provide is because in the future , when everything happens you need a MAN that has proved himself to be a man , not just a man by his biological structure , you can't be up on your feet like you were when you were younger , unmarried , not pregnant and not a mom

And men are adviced to be with women with the ability to nurture for the sake of building a better family

So a relationship is like a draft of what marriage should look like , if you do too much or do what you're not comfortable with or if you find yourself compromising in the relationship , when you proceed with marriage you'll be expected to continue compromising and that's not going to last

So its not even about dating a rich man , some men were born rich , when they lose it they might not know how to get it again , so it's better to marry a generous man who is competent and has ambition ( keyword : GENEROUS)

Paying for sex is prostitution
But saying she has this issue or something that's causing distress and you want to help even just a little, and it's nothing to do with the sex , that's it , that's your cue
Men naturally love to provide for who they care about , there should be limits or boundaries to it
The giving thing shouldn't even be attached to sex

If in the relationship you were giving money everytime you had sex , that's going to continue even in marriage and you won't keep up with it , that's how you will find out that you're dealing with a business woman ( if you know what I mean)

I can't give you a straight answer , if that's your situation , you can use this to decide if it's your money or your love , and I really hate advicing people in love , dey no dey hear word
I know it's junked up but I hope it helps

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


That's prostitution
That's what spoilt everything , a wife or a girlfriend getting money everytime they have sex with you , that is total rubbish and the word for it is manipulation

The real reason why women are encouraged to be with men with the ability to provide is because in the future , when everything happens you need a MAN that has proved himself to be a man , not just a man by his biological structure , you can't be up on your feet like you were when you were younger , unmarried , not pregnant and not a mom

And men are adviced to be with women with the ability to nurture for the sake of building a better family

So a relationship is like a draft of what marriage should look like , if you do too much or do what you're not comfortable with or if you find yourself compromising in the relationship , when you proceed with marriage you'll be expected to continue compromising and that's not going to last

So its not even about dating a rich man , some men were born rich , when they lose it they might not know how to get it again , so it's better to marry a generous man who is competent and has ambition ( keyword : GENEROUS)

Paying for sex is prostitution
But saying she has this issue or something that's causing distress and you want to help even just a little, and it's nothing to do with the sex , that's it , that's your cue
Men naturally love to provide for who they care about , there should be limits or boundaries to it
The giving thing shouldn't even be attached to sex

If in the relationship you were giving money everytime you had sex , that's going to continue even in marriage and you won't keep up with it , that's how you will find out that you're dealing with a business woman ( if you know what I mean)

I can't give you a straight answer , if that's your situation , you can use this to decide if it's your money or your love , and I really hate advicing people in love , dey no dey hear word
I know it's junked up but I hope it helps

TheSourcerer:
I'm confused dannyyyy because its too early , is she naive or just bad at been manipulative

WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF? YOU KNOW WHERE TO GO TO ASK THESE QUESTIONS BUT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR THE COMFORTING LIES (LIKE MOST MEN) INSTEAD OF EMBRACING THE UNPLEASANT TRUTH.
YOU'RE MY BROTHER AND I WON'T DECEIVE YOU. IF YOU WANT TRUE HAPPINESS IN YOUR BUSINESS, RELATIONSHIP, AND WHOLE LIFE ENDEAVOURS, YOU MUST MAKE PEACE WITH THAT "RED" THING.

CAPSLOCKED:



WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF? YOU KNOW WHERE TO GO TO ASK THESE QUESTIONS BUT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR THE COMFORTING LIES (LIKE MOST MEN) INSTEAD OF EMBRACING THE UNPLEASANT TRUTH.
YOU'RE MY BROTHER AND I WON'T DECEIVE YOU. IF YOU WANT TRUE HAPPINESS IN YOUR BUSINESS, RELATIONSHIP, AND WHOLE LIFE ENDEAVOURS, YOU MUST MAKE PEACE WITH THAT "RED" THING.

AudioMonkey:


Nay. She isn't naive nor bad at been manipulative, rather, she realised it's easy to get you do her bid, so there isn't any reason to manipulate her ways with you.

Manipulation is only employed when it's proving hard, going direct.

TheSourcerer:
I'll text you on one of your dead threads , I'm literally at my lowest low

1. I HAVE NO THREADS, LIVE OR DEAD.
2. I'M GRINNING FROM EAST TO WEST BECAUSE WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE. ALWAYS REACH OUT SIR.

TheSourcerer:
its well articulated thank you ....... We were to go to justrite on Saturday ...... Met Monday , dated Tuesday .... Had sex Wednesday , made Transfer i belived was for transport , but after I felt she thought it was not enough I rounded it to 10 ,, she is not wide eyed or into fancy things , but the the paying bit and claiming she loves me (been there so idk) making posts and all ....... Oh and she told me she's married but no kids , it's very immature to unable to make decisions like this I guess , but I'm dazed ...... Really am.

TheSourcerer:
I'm confused dannyyyy because its too early , is she naive or just bad at been manipulative

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


TheSourcerer I can't really say , I'm sorry
I don't really understand girls that do that

Okay my friend said she's just bad at being manipulative , but she's definitely trying to manipulate you , why didn't she get for herself if she wanted it so badly ? Just a week ?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


I'm sorry , I stopped reading when you said "she's married"
Anyways you're welcome

ESenthusiast:
Hi everybody! Finn here whos been lurking nairaland for a while and finds nigerian culture interesting. Thought it would be cool to see what you guys would like to know about Finland!

ESenthusiast:
Hi everybody! Finn here whos been lurking nairaland for a while and finds nigerian culture interesting. Thought it would be cool to see what you guys would like to know about Finland!