Nigerians, stop marrying this old white women for greencard or permanent residence where ever you live. It is embarrassing.

Have some form of self esteem and self confidence.

Also, if I see another Nigerian with a fat white woman, I'll scream.

Una no dey shame marrying your great ancestors. These women will use you. You'll probably lose more than you think you're gaining. A lot of lives have been ruined when they deliberately mess up your petition.

Especially if you're still in Nigeria, US embassy will most likely deny your petition for 2-3 times due to the age difference. They know what they're doing. Stop looking for the "easy way out" and step up una game

https://youtu.be/iRAcDEQofDA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRAcDEQofDA

These ones even sow asho-ebi.

Nonsense!!

Young women marry rich older men all the time. The opposite might look strange, but it is what it is.

E concern you??

meobizy:
OP is either non-Yoruba or a self hating Yoruba male. If OP is a Yoruba female then it makes sense why the thread exists.

Not even true.

Just a concerned 9ja guy in diaspora telling our men to step up

Juoflife1:
E concern you??

Hello

Go romance section

Cousin9999:
Young women marry rich older men all the time. The opposite might look strange, but it is what it is.

Exactly
People will do what they THINK is best for them
Key word
THINK

NotaMod:


Not even true.

Just a concerned 9ja guy in diaspora telling our men to step up

Sometimes when life throws you curveball
You have to do what you have to do

RodgersAkpafu:

Sometimes when life throws you curveball
You have to do what you have to do

And sometimes you have to know when "what you have to do" is really worth it.

We (Africans) are the butt of jokes for the foreign women we marry. It is embarrassing tbh.

Lazy men marry the very old American woman like this Angela, not working scammers asking for money, visa and green card.
I hope these old women make their lives hell, those smart A-s deserve it.

NotaMod:


And sometimes you have to know when "what you have to do" is really worth it.

We (Africans) are the butt of jokes for the foreign women we marry. It is embarrassing tbh.

I get that
But look....
Maslow's hierarchy of needs will always play out
There is no way I'm gonna do something like this
But that's because my circumstance is not as dire

But for some others
That's Ian different story

DanerNo1:
Lazy men marry the very old American woman like this Angela, not working scammers asking for money, visa and green card.
I hope these old women make their lives hell, those smart A-s deserve it.

Why are you calling em a lazy man though ?
Just asking

Lol I too I'm on the verge of marrying a fat white North Carolina lady. Although she is just 29, has her own house and stuff. Interesting enough I just got partial scholarship this week to study in the USA (was so shocked it was granted). I am thinking of marrying her if I later travel(spring 2022).

So stop the stereotype!!!!

FiverrTutor:
Lol I too I'm on the verge of marrying a fat white North Carolina lady. Although she is just 29, has her own house and stuff. Interesting enough I just got partial scholarship this week to study in the USA (was so shocked it was granted). I am thinking of marrying her if I later travel(spring 2022).

So stop the stereotype!!!!

Why fat? Even tho she's young and has her own place but are you attracted to her at least?

Getting greencard isn't that easy. You have to at least be attracted to your "spouse". One fit say the process go fast, make he long. Imagine waking up next to someone that nauseates you.

You wan marry someone you don't wanna be seeing with outside? Someone you'll tell " go ahead, I'll be right behind you" just cos you're ashamed.

You wan make everyone you meet to start questioning why y'all together, telling your wife everytime "he's only marrying you for the greencard".

At least, look for your spec even if na runs

DanerNo1:
Lazy men marry the very old American woman like this Angela, not working scammers asking for money, visa and green card.
I hope these old women make their lives hell, those smart A-s deserve it.

That Michael/Angela case tire me.

Michael is a dumbest 9ja guy ever. Look at how that old wrinkled mama dey treat am. Upon everything, he still no see greencard collect. The mama dey use him head make money. Na big eeediot. Anywhere I see that guy, I go use slap reset him brain.

NotaMod:


Why fat? Even tho she's young and has her own place but are you attracted to her at least?

Getting greencard isn't that easy. You have to at least be attracted to your "spouse". One fit say the process go fast, make he long. Imagine waking up next to someone that nauseates you.

You wan marry someone you don't wanna be seeing with outside? Someone you'll tell " go ahead, I'll be right behind you" just cos you're ashamed.

You wan make everyone you meet to start questioning why y'all together, telling your wife everytime "he's only marrying you for the greencard".

At least, look for your spec even if na runs

I have no option bro. She has been very good to me and besides I have conscience. So I don't mind.

I think this is only an issue if it becomes common or grows to full-on tr4fficking. For now, just leave them be. There's always going to be lazy people. Don't condone it, but don't harass them either. Use the energy you would put into shaming them to encourage and mentor them. Maybe even make that a personal goal. Be someone's coach. Guide a random kid from the ghetto to a comfortable life.

FiverrTutor:
Lol I too I'm on the verge of marrying a fat white North Carolina lady. Although she is just 29, has her own house and stuff. Interesting enough I just got partial scholarship this week to study in the USA (was so shocked it was granted). I am thinking of marrying her if I later travel(spring 2022).

So stop the stereotype!!!!

Just a word of advise
Pls pls and pls
Be keeping plans like these to yourself
You never know who is snooping
Keep to yourself and execute accordingly and achieve your goal.
Just wanted to say that
Wish u d best

RodgersAkpafu:

Just a word of advise
Pls pls and pls
Be keeping plans like these to yourself
You never know who is snooping
Keep to yourself and execute accordingly and achieve your goal.
Just wanted to say that
Wish u d best

Visa misrepresentation.

RodgersAkpafu:

Why are you calling em a lazy man though ?
Just asking

Cause they don't work, they use old women for money, visa or both.
Working man gets a student or job visa.